We're friends and, well, people always tease us (cuz we're always 2gether in the halls at school) saying that we make a cute couple. well, when people say things like that the thoughts eventually pop into your head, and i started getting feelings for her. on friday her friend asked why we were always together and if i would consider going out with her(the girl i like)
The problem is... I have a bad past with rushing into relationships so i considered taking this slowly, so when her friend asked that, i got nervous and defensive and instead of saying "maybe" i said "no, i only like her as a friend, that's it" she looked a little disappointed and said "...[sigh] okay..."
We just started christmas break so i can't talk to her friend for another 2 weeks to fix what i said.
How can i tell if this girl i like already spoke with her friend?(without asking!!!)
and if she did, how can i let her know that i DO like her without making her think that i'm just playling some kind of game?
2007-12-22 09:27:00 · 1 answers · asked by Redinez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why don't you just tell her what you told us? that you just want to take it slow because you've had a bad past, absolutely nothing wrong with that. it shows a lot of maturity. and isn't there a way in this internet day and age to e-mail or IM her or her friend. don't keep her waiting too long?
2007-12-22 09:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by sophomrecritic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋