ok so my boyfriend and i have been having problems latley like BIG problems there's always yelling and screaming when we're alone but at school with friends we sorta pretend everything is ok. And all the fighting is about the stupidest things like i couldn't go to dinner with him one night cause i had made plans with friends so i suggested we do it the next night and he started yelling at me about what is he suppose to give up football and his friends when i won't do that for him or w/e cause i completley forgot he had practice. And latley all I've been doing is crying which i like never do
so i just wanna know is this sorta thing normal or is like done for us?
2007-12-22 05:38:13 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well every relationship has it's ups and downs right..But if theres yelling ! Thats overboard!!..Well what I've heard hes kind of a control freakk and needs to cool it !
You both should sit down and sort it out tbh..because at the end of the day hes your boyfriend..Just tell him sometimes I wanna spend time with friends and he can spend time play footy with mates or w.e!
If it doesn't go right then I suppose it is done !
Talk it out =]
Take care
x
2007-12-22 05:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by Simply Amazing.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have clearly outgrown him.
Move on and find more mature people to date.
High school is kind of an experimental playground for social learning. Each year is really a long stride in development, though some are slower than others.
I don't advise of committing to anyone before age 25 because there really is such a huge difference in maturity between the ages of 18 and 25. Seriously.
2007-12-22 05:45:32 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not abnormal, but if it's hurting it's not good for you. You need to think about why things have started to get out of hand over small disagreements. Are you being sensitive to each others needs? Are one or both of you dissatisfied in the relationship for some reason? If you both genuinely want to make things work then you should sit down and talk about why you overreact and whether or not you're happy in the relationship and try to be mature and not accusative about it. Talk about it, and try to make a decision together. If one of you is unhappy in the relationship is the problem fixable or is it time to move on... Life does move on.
2007-12-22 05:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by cat99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very immature way you two are proceeding the course of friendship.this is natural, because, both of you are very young , I am sure.
Why not stay away from each other for a while through a mutual understanding and see how you feel when both of you meet each other in a preplanned location and talk to each other after a gap of about 2 weeks?
2007-12-22 05:46:15 · answer #4 · answered by bikashroy9 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it depends what age your at, and have you ever been doing some of the yelling or beginning the fights too?
i think you should talk to him about, tell him that you dont want to break up but the fightting is getting out of hand,
if he agrees and you two try to work it out, then you could fefantly have a chance.
but if not yes i would say its time to end it because arguing in a relationship is normal but fighting constantly not so much.
i'm sorry, i hoped i could help a little!
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2007-12-22 05:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's done. If he yells at you just because you wanted to go with your friends then he's a complete jerk. Give yourself a present and dump him. It sounds that the fireworks and the love is gone. Dump him befor he gets aggresive and starts hitting you. If he is making you cry when you never cry then it's really done. I feel sorry for him how he is treating you. No guy should treat you like that. My advice--Dump him.
Happy Holidays :]
2007-12-22 05:43:06 · answer #6 · answered by Klaudia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just put yourself in your boyfriend's position and think if your BF have done the same thing to u then what would be your reaction. Won't U be hurt, after U canceled all engagements ur BF tells U that he can't be with U because now he have plans with his friends ? Think about it
Take care
2007-12-22 05:50:56 · answer #7 · answered by Sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok time for you and boyfriend to sit down and talk things over.Reach a compromise-it seems he wants to be the one making the decisions-WRONG.Work out something that is BEST FOR BOTH OF YOU.If this doesn't work just look for someone else.Love is all about sharing and caring.
2007-12-22 05:45:00 · answer #8 · answered by Nigel Frederick S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, everybody has fights. And everybody has different thresholds of what they are willing to put up with in a relationship. What you need to determine is if the time you & he enjoy together outweighs the amount you spend fighting. The fact that you even question if the relationship is "done for us" leads me to believe that you know the answer to your own question.
2007-12-22 05:42:56 · answer #9 · answered by Pooty Pootwell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Argument is normal in a healthy relationship, but it sounds like there's way to much going on in yours.If you two arent willing to compromise,youll just end up hating each other.Try talking to him about it and if he starts yelling again dump his ***.
2007-12-22 05:44:16 · answer #10 · answered by Danica 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋