i've been dating a 39 year old man. i've learned that he has cheated on every girl he ever dated except the 8 mth relationship before me. he called me three days after that relationship ended and said 'call me, i'm single'. my question is, do you think he has a pattern? is it possible for a person that has always cheated to find 'the one' and settle him? or do you think it will continue to happen. he is constantly talking to women on the phone and email. he has so many email accounts I don't even know how many. eternal bachelor?
2007-12-22 02:04:32 · 4 answers · asked by jolly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's a good reason why he's 39 years old and still jumping from rock to rock. Some can change but it's highly unlikely. I think you should play it very cautiously if you do decide to proceed. Good luck!
2007-12-22 02:18:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When a person cheats, it's about them, not about the person they're with. Don't you think that everyone has times when they're not completely satisfied with their spouse??? But not everyone cheats. His cheating is about HIM, and that makes him a bad bet. You're setting yourself up for a lot of pain.
2007-12-22 10:12:21 · answer #2 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a strong believer of the saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater"
2007-12-22 10:14:32 · answer #3 · answered by KayD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a guy who likes to have lots of options, and id say youre one of them. yes its possible for him to stop but his pastwill huant him.
2007-12-22 10:12:17 · answer #4 · answered by jstagirl1969 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋