how long should I wait before I start dating her?
2007-12-22 02:28:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you shouldnt even think about getting with her out of respect for your buddy
2007-12-22 02:31:33 · answer #1 · answered by James Fury 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm.... it sounds as if she is feeling the loss and is on the rebound.... Give her your support and your shoulder to cry on, but the two of you have suffered a tremendous loss. You need each other at this time, and it sounds suspiciously as if she is reaching out to you the only way she knows how. Tell her you understand how she feels, but that it is too soon to proceed with anything right now. You know she is feeling vulnerable, and you are there for her. Then let things take their course. As to how long, you should wait at least a year. See if she feels the same way about you then!!!
2007-12-22 10:40:24 · answer #2 · answered by Soni H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey dude...
sorry for ur loss!
i think that u shouldnt hit on her at all. she may only be seeing u as the next best thing to her guy or the one thing that will keep her close to him. after all other than her, who else knew him so well.
think if ur mate had broken up with her would he have been cool with u takin her next? u gotta think of the respect and the right thing to do.
u both need time to mourn, not jump into a relationship.
if u decide to take the leap let some time go by first. be there as her friend first.
2007-12-22 10:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by randi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not be you that she is interested in, she may see a lot of your friend in you and that may be the attraction. I would just leave this one alone. There are a lot of girls out there why would you need to pursue something that is not going to work.she is obviously looking for some comfort why not be a good friend to you friend and his girlfriend and just be a support system for her.
2007-12-22 10:39:46 · answer #4 · answered by Meesha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah!!
i think you must be pretty vulnerable right now
your friend is gone
and you wanna go out with his girlfriend
if you do start goin with her
ppl will think you dont care about your friend anymore
they might think you're glad he's gone b/c youve already got his girl
and she must not've been 2 dedicated 2 him if she already started hitting on you
something is wrong here
2007-12-22 10:32:54 · answer #5 · answered by Katers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on you if you felt comfortable starting a relationship with your friends girl then go for it,your friend will understand,he will probably be laughing at you when you do it,he might say "that man just got a used one"anyway it all depends on you,you can do it anytime when ever your comfortable doing it its your life
2007-12-22 10:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by Lionel M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eew. That's just creepy. Doesn't she have any respect for him? Don't YOU have any respect for him? If you just want to bonk her, then I guess you shouldn't wait one minute. But wouldn't you be better off bonking an ice cube; it would have more feeling!? If you have any self respect, I would stay away from her completely. Ick.
2007-12-22 10:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn thats wrong ur friend jus died and his girlfriend wants to go with u dont go with thatsshowing u she doesnt care about ur friend and she really doesnt care about you either and really to me i think shes trying to find out what type of friend u are to her boyfriend she wants to know would u go with even though now hes dead she didnt care for in the first place and plus if ya go to gether if something happen to u she would try to go with somebody else dont do it sit back use your brain shes trouble shes going to make u look BAD!!!!!
2007-12-22 10:50:31 · answer #8 · answered by Dabrat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry about your friend. She may have been interested in you for some time. If she really cared for your friend, she wouldn't be so anxious for another relationship. I sense she's trouble for you. Tell her to give herself time to grieve, then avoid her. At least for awhile.
2007-12-22 10:32:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 seconds
2007-12-22 10:31:44 · answer #10 · answered by gibbers2007 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
shes probably really upset and trying to get over this..kinda liek a rebound relationshippp..
so dont go for it, try to comfort her but dont let her take advantage
im so sorry about your friend
our prayers are with you all during this holiday season
2007-12-22 10:31:50 · answer #11 · answered by brig :) 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋