Family & Relationships - 22 December 2007

We were engaged to be married for Christmas, which
was also our anniversary. Last month, I found out he was seeing another woman. He denied it. We have been broken up ever since. Today, he still denies it. Even though he wouldn't let me call the woman to ask her myself. He didn't try to prove me wrong or get me back. He turened so cold to me after this. I was in a bad wreck I told him about, and he asks me when I am going to pay the car off because he co signed for me and he can't get a home loan until I do. Didn't even ask if I am ok. Why do I still miss him? What should I do? Or say? I'm just so hurt because he never seemed this way, he used to be a dream come true....

2007-12-22 19:25:05 · 28 answers · asked by Babysmom303 1 in Singles & Dating

I was w/ my bf for 2 months when he broke up w/ me. It has been almost 2 weeks since the breakup. I know 2 months isn't a very long time but I am heartbroken and miss him so much. The reason he wanted to end things was b/c things were moving very quickly and our feelings for each other were very strong in such a short amount of time. He said this really scares & overwhelms him. He is also in school ful time and works part time. Things were working great but I think it all just got too much for him and he freaked out and got scared. Before me, he had been single for over 2 years and I think being w/ me took him out of his comfort zone. He also has issues w/ women and really has his guard up (his mom is mentally ill & is very needy of him, his dad is on his 3rd marriage and they have all been gold-diggers, his ex gf of over 2.5 years cheated on him and left him for an older rich guy). So I do understand why his defenses are up.
PLEASE KEEP READING BELOW....)

2007-12-22 19:24:19 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whats a good name? I've heard nunu, flower, poonanni, .... what's the preference?

2007-12-22 19:24:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i usually wear thigh high boots and short skirts. but lately i've noticed that my cousin's friend(my neighbor) has been staring at me. what should i do besides to stop wearing the clothes? im 15, he's 11

2007-12-22 19:02:09 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

It's none of my business. I'm just curious. I don't exspect the truth. If you say no, you may. If you say yes, you probably don't. LOL How many will be honest? If it will make you feel better, I do.

2007-12-22 19:01:07 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I go to this link, it isn't bad or anything. But very, very confusing

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2007-12-22 19:00:30 · 2 answers · asked by seth12123 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im guadalupe and by BEST firend is shawn,
shawn isnt actting the same with me,im not sure what it is.He isn really talking to me like before and im scary that im losing him!! shawn use to call me all the time and i would call him and he doesnt call me anymore. He was always been my " go to " firend he has never left my side , i love him very much i really like are freindship. About 2months ago he liked me and .. i dont know , he knew i didnt feel the same ,and im not sure what happened after that but im scared im gonna lose him. were really close but he feels far away now

im not the kind of person that freaks out for small things.
what should i do?

2007-12-22 18:59:55 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-22 18:54:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

it is very popular to see asians with white men, and now black men. but very RARE to see an asian with a hispanic men.

Do you guys think an asian matches with a hispanic? do you know any asian/hispanic couple?

2007-12-22 18:48:46 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and grand mother . What are you serving for your Christmas dinner /

2007-12-22 18:46:53 · 1 answers · asked by lala 7 in Family

Guzel is from Moskow, and if anyone knows her please just let me know that she is happy and well.

2007-12-22 18:46:48 · 2 answers · asked by writer 1 in Singles & Dating

The girl who loves me is my friend but i don't know how she falled in my love now she loves me too much and i have already told her abt me that i love other girl and will marry with her, still she loves me..i like that girl but as a very good friend she has same qualities as my loved girl.. now tell me what should i do... she knew everything but love me too....!!!!!!!

2007-12-22 18:42:24 · 5 answers · asked by Love mexxxxxxxim 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not talking about adultery or something that leads to marriage; rather, the idea of a "love affair" in the older sense. And am looking for a description of what such a relationship is like. I am having trouble finding the right words to describe the idea and nature of the relationship when detailing what it is, what it is not, and how one would act and feel in one.

2007-12-22 18:40:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was wondering if you are a white, asian, indian or hispanic guy, if would date a black girl. And why or why not?

2007-12-22 18:39:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years, with a few breaks in between. we've been together through alot of good & bad. i've had low self esteem for as long as i can remember.. i had a really rough childhood, my parents were abusive toward each other, my mother was suicidal.. lots of bad things. i dont think about it alot anymore, but i still have such low self esteem. i dont like that my boyfriend watches porn, because it seems to keep me from feeling any better about myself, cause i feel like he has to have that. although he has cut back on it a LOT for me. we keep arguing over it. i'm trying to feel better about myself and resolve this porn issue but i dont know how!! it's driving me insane because it's putting us on the verge of breaking up. =(

2007-12-22 18:39:44 · 11 answers · asked by *TiNK* 3 in Singles & Dating

ok what do i do? my ex just keeps popping up at my house unannounced, and one night i was leaving my house and he was pulling up, i don't want him anymore and i have told him that i don't want him like that anymore and he just doesn't get it. what am i suppose to do?

2007-12-22 18:39:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Describe the type of man physically and mentally that makes you want to be his little *****, and just screams sex whenever you see/think about him ;)

2007-12-22 18:37:20 · 5 answers · asked by James G 2 in Singles & Dating

my son is debating not to go with me to my inlaws xmas party
he is 10 years old and always asks me why my sister in law gives everyone a gift except him my son is from previous marriage and i dont know what to tell him when he asks me why he didnt receive a gift from her...he is my son and he is too small to see that ..what should i do i cant talk to my sister in law or my husband they wont understand ....

2007-12-22 18:36:03 · 15 answers · asked by Georgina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Is p.s i love you a good movie for 13 year olds me and my friend might go see it togather and i have heard that is a good "date" movie and me and this person dont go out just realy good friends but i think we might go out idk but would this movie be awkward for me or him??

2007-12-22 18:34:18 · 2 answers · asked by tammy p 1 in Singles & Dating

I don't know why she is in many ways trying to force ways for me to marry american women. I don't know what her problem is. She lives many miles away from us we hardly get along with each other. I never talk to her and it doesn't make a difference for either one of us if the other didn't existed she knows that i know that. She would be pissed if anyone tells her who she should marry or anything less. I just want to know what is up with her why would she care we don't even like each other that much and it does sound like she really wants this to happen

2007-12-22 18:32:03 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

and you did a DNA test, and it proved to be true?

2007-12-22 18:28:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

excluding personality/money etc... when it comes to body type Muscle Head vs Average Joe what do women prefer?

2007-12-22 18:19:10 · 9 answers · asked by Alexander 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 18:17:46 · 8 answers · asked by zzzZZZzzz 2 in Weddings

My wife died in June 2006 - at the time she died, I thought I had many friends and I was pretty shocked to find that only a few people stayed in touch with me. i.e. they called me to support me and they didn't wait for me to call them. They stepped up and they were there. Everyone else I guess I could have called them had I wanted to, but I really didn't stay in touch with anyone that didn't make an effort to support me. So I started defining friendship as one where the person checks on you without your having to initiate it all the time -i.e. it's two way - if some time goes by they'll call you or you'll call them. But with aquaintences you are the only one who picks up the phone. or you have to initiate it. I'm ok initiating but like when your wife dies you aren't in any condition to call everyone. It was a year before I was able to go and call people really. Then I met people after she died. I think of all these new people as acquaintences but they think of me as a friend

2007-12-22 18:15:02 · 3 answers · asked by art_flood 4 in Friends

totally unrelated? Ive noticed this on yahoo answers too, seems like everyone thinks they look younger than they are, --but isnt that a paradox?? Every girl ive ever dated says or thinks this, but the reality is that if everyone looks younger than they are then how many people actually "look their age"?
The answer is no one right??? i think guys says this too, but defint not as much
what do u think?

2007-12-22 18:09:43 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like if I see some girl I may want to talk to and get to know (that's walking by herself, not with friends), what will happen if I say "hi". Like I if I say "hi", will she just be like "ummm..hi (who is this?)"?

I don't want to sound like some creepo talking to random girls. So what exactly might happen if I say hi to someone I've never talked to or seen before.

And what else should I say besides "hi"? I don't want to just say hi and wait for her to say something.

2007-12-22 18:09:30 · 8 answers · asked by DaClint 5 in Friends

How do Capricorn men usually act when they like a girl? are they shy or do they go after what they want? the guy I know seems hesitant but he is always staring at me.

2007-12-22 18:09:23 · 4 answers · asked by unsure 1 in Singles & Dating

like i take her out to a movie how would i know to kiss her and if she want to be kissed?

2007-12-22 18:06:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I have recently decided to revamp my image but at the same time I am concerned that it is not worth the effort. What tips would you give me to make me better looking? Would you consider me a really ugly guy or do I have potential to look good?????

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2007-12-22 18:03:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm not in a rush to have a boyfriend but I've never been asked out ur anything b4. Its not a big problem I'm just curious. I'm normal, mostly, sometimes I"m called weird but by other girls. I'm HYPER and love life and nature. I have A LOT of friends and won't take any crap from jurks. And I eat all of my fruits and veggies. I love to read.

2007-12-22 18:02:57 · 9 answers · asked by Jenny :D 2 in Singles & Dating