Family & Relationships - 22 December 2007

Ok so my guy friend and i hooked up. I like him but he doesnt know this. Alcohol was involved should i say how i feel or not? help me plz!!!

2007-12-22 18:00:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

last year in sepember i got with a guy named vino & we hit it off great!! but then he moved 80 miles from me & we broke up because i didn't wanna be in pain. we said we'd still be friends so i called him & he called me about EVERY day. we would meet up about every 2 weeks to see each other. i guess we were still technically "going out" but yeah... we thought we were in LOVE. we planned out our lives together.. everything from when we finish college to our kids to when we die. ((We were goinna be barried together.)) then in about january we decided we should go our seperate ways. ((big fight)) ok...so yeah, i talk to some of his buddies and one of them invited me to a party he was having. ((in the city where vino lives))...i went. i didnt really think vino was gonna be there cause...idk i just didnt. it never really crossed my mind. and then he was there. we didnt talk. just wave&smile. i wanna tell him i miss him and wanna get back together. should i. he was really nice. i loved him.

2007-12-22 18:00:40 · 23 answers · asked by alannabanana 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 17:55:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 17:54:25 · 20 answers · asked by jennay 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend has a heated pool so dont mention the weather.

anyways me and a group of friends (guys and girls) are goin to one of our friends pool. im a little nervous because i am only "average sized" which is fine.

but will the women there have certain expectations?

or do most women expect a guy to be average?

and be honest

2007-12-22 17:50:02 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had a huge crush on a girl over the summer and she felt the same way toward me but we both decided we were too busy to pursue a relationship. Since then she has pretty much stopped talking to me, sometimes actually ignoring me. Occasionally, we will talk and she says she wants to hang out but we never actually do. I still have really strong feelings for her. Should I send flowers to her for Christmas or should I just do nothing and forget about it?

2007-12-22 17:47:23 · 11 answers · asked by kuf99ver3 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 17:47:04 · 21 answers · asked by boxnndatol22 3 in Marriage & Divorce

having climax? i slept with my guy and he's so into me in bed and i could feel he lusting for me but after climaxing he just sleep! i feel 'used'. i just wana understand if this is absolutely NORMAL for you guys? and why do you guys sleep and not cuddle us girls after climaxing?

2007-12-22 17:45:47 · 6 answers · asked by pristine 2 in Singles & Dating

Actually, my family is not overly affectionate or anything, but we meet like only once or twice a year. I don't think there's anything wrong about my mom giving all her sons a hug each.

But my gf said (in her own words) it's "incestuously gross" and inappropriate...

On the other hand, she didn't mind seeing Dad hug me and the boys. But her reason was that: She had always enjoyed seeing men touching each other...
(now you tell me who's the "inappropriate" one)

2007-12-22 17:38:01 · 24 answers · asked by zandrew 1 in Family

2007-12-22 17:35:30 · 18 answers · asked by boxnndatol22 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I’m a college student and I live in a townhouse style apartment. I have 4 other roommates. So any way this one roommate of mine has this boyfriend, he is kind of older, we are both 20 and he is like 27. So anyway he always gets trashed on Thursday nights, usually, I don’t know why Thursdays, and then comes over and gets in bed with my roommate, I think he might have a key. So anyway the bar he goes to is pretty close, he comes over and can barley get down the hall to her room. This has gone on for months.

So anyway one Thursday night my roommate was at her parent’s house. I had been drinking, not a whole lot, and I started to think, her boyfriend is kind of cute, he is self employed and has a lot of free time it seems. So anyways as I had a few drinks with my roommates and I wondered if he would even notice if I was asleep in her bed when he stumbled in. I thought it would be funny.

2007-12-22 17:33:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years. were both 18 im a virgin. his not a virgin. I would like for him to be my first so I wanted to know how and what I should tell him?

2007-12-22 17:30:19 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 5'5-5'6 and i weigh 120 lbs.-125 lbs. am I too tall for guys? because I don't know I just feel too tall. :(

2007-12-22 17:26:30 · 6 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

We met on Myspace roughly a month ago. We have mutual friends but until 2 weeks ago had never met. She usually responds to texts and emails and if she misses my call usually calls back. We went out 2 weeks ago to a club and danced and had a good time, she took my hand, we danced really close etc. However- she never calls me, I always call her. She doesn't say much in texts or emails, mostly "how are you" type of things. She says she likes to keep her feelings to herself if she is interested which makes it hard. I try to be more forward telling her how attractive she is and just says thanks. I text her I am interested and I'd like to see her more and I get nothing back or a short answer like "sure". I ask her if shes interested and she says "just read me and you will find out" But if she keeps everything to herself, how can I read her? It's only been a month but I'm beginning to think it's time to move on cuz I dont want to play mind games or be strung along which she denies doing

2007-12-22 17:24:15 · 14 answers · asked by SAGE 2 in Singles & Dating

I am working for BPO firm. My working hours goes upto 12 hours a day. I am still single and looking for patner who could understand me and take care of me. But i am not able to find the right girl. I have tried all sort dating sites but invain. Life seems to be lonely and sad for me. My parents also doesn't care if i am not married as they feel that working in BPO is not a decent job!!!. I am living in mumbai (Bombay) and don't drink or smoke either. Tell me freinds what should i do???

2007-12-22 17:21:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 17:21:33 · 18 answers · asked by ღ♥ღ HaiLo☆ 3 in Singles & Dating

i just turned 20 a couple days ago and some close friends and even some very close family didn't wish me a happy birthday. i have facebook(who doesn't) and i know that my friends/family saw that it was my birthday, but made no attempt to wish me a good one. luckily i have great friends. aunt and uncles didn't call. i mean even people i dont talk too wished me a happy bday on facebook. i almost want to treat my cousins/ "close friends" as if they were dead. hell, i even got a call from my uncle, i thought he wanted to wish me a happy bday, but instead wanted me to come over and help him with his computer.....do i have a right to be mad?

2007-12-22 17:09:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Baby don't hurt me, don't hurt me no more? OR something else?

2007-12-22 17:07:54 · 34 answers · asked by GL 6 in Singles & Dating

so theres this guy (not to your surprise. haha)
anyway he is a grade older than me. but actually 2 years. he is much more experienced than i am and hes a lot more brave then i am. i like him also and we talk on aim, but its very akward at school and i usually end up walking the other way when he comes near. What should i do!? Whenever i see him my heart skips a beat and my hands get all trembly. I want this to work out. for sure! whats a great thing to say to spark a dead convo?? whats a cute thing to say when he ims me and asks whats up? and help would be great. thanks and love you guys!

2007-12-22 17:07:53 · 2 answers · asked by xo hersheys xo 2 in Singles & Dating

I know asking a community of strangers is not a good source for info but a lot of you are experienced and could probably help me more than a book could. So what do you do if a girl youve known for maybe a month and a half never txt/calls you? Your friends at school/work and when you contact her she almost always responds but never txt/calls you first?

2007-12-22 17:07:08 · 4 answers · asked by Danny M 3 in Singles & Dating

Should I remain upset at his family? We performed a "Civil Wedding" that took only 3 hrs. His parents arrived half hr late! His cousins arrive 10 min. after the event was over, they did NOT introduce themselfs and still had the audacity to eat! We had no $$ to hire a photagrapher so we just used our digital cameras, all the photos were ruined because his nephews head pooped out in every shot not to mention he wanted the balloon decorations in which a lady handed to him so he wont cry....the stupid balloon came out in the background. None of his family brought us wedding gifts either! Which I thought was a bit rude since we had fed them $25 plates........I am upset at
their lack of manners..........what do I do??? - a sad bride -

2007-12-22 17:04:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

what does this mean in proper english ? if there is a mitstake please input that to. thanks.

2007-12-22 17:02:30 · 4 answers · asked by bl_nh 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are having a debate. Does an inheritence given to one spouse get split during a divorce?

2007-12-22 17:02:04 · 18 answers · asked by Suzu1980 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I love to walk around my house naked but the window in the back of my house doesnt have blinds is it still okay to walk around naked

2007-12-22 16:56:26 · 44 answers · asked by Kameron J 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-22 16:47:14 · 6 answers · asked by mengladys 2 in Singles & Dating

1 is is ok for a guy to want a hug after a bad day?
2 Do you prefer a nice guy who works for a living or a spoiled brat who never works and just has his money handed to him?
4 If a guy wanted to give you a bath then a massage is that ok?
5 If a guy wanted to be around your family because his are aholes is that ok?
6 When a woman says " it was nice to meet you" and " i hope we meet again" does that mean something?
7 If a guy joined a book club would that be gay or would the girls see that as a guy wanting to meet more intellectual women?
8 I think marraige is 50/50 what do you think?
9 does money really matter if the guy manages it well?
10 Are action figures ok if he keeps them out of the bedroom?
11 does it matter what the guys parents do for a living?
12 If a guy isn't a good kisser is that ok? maybe you could teach him?
13 If a guy paints stuff for you is that ok.
14 If a guy wants to watch your favorite movie with you is that ok, or your favorite book?

2007-12-22 16:45:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She doesn't want me to see one of my friends because she says she's not comfortable with my friendship.

The girl she's talking about is a close friend of mine. We use to go out casually, and we use to have feelings for each other. But now we're just friends; and she has a bf as well. However, we still do alot of "couple" stuff. We have dinners, lunches, going for random drives, I do get her soup when she's sick, she and I have both called in sick at work to spend the day together (we're both busy people), and we still kiss, but it's a quick peck, nothing long.

I can see why she's upset at me, but to me she's just a good friend. My gf doesn't want me to see my friend again.

My gf is very pretty, but so is my friend...oh and my gf hates my friend, and my friend hates my gf as well. They are never in the same room....also my friend doesn't want me in the same room as her bf....I definately can see why my gf is upset.....

Should I do what she asks?

2007-12-22 16:41:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if your 17, dif guy every 2 months or so, decent protection

2007-12-22 16:39:28 · 59 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So my husband and I agree to separate and do custody with our daughter. Man I was so relief. I never felt so happy in my life. This man gived me some hard time and he has some bad habits that he need to get check individually. I think he prefers the single life. He doesnt like anyone telling him anything & swing topics on you fast. So I ask him, do you really want to divorce me, he said no, but I need to sit and think about it because he saw we light up when he mention separate. I love being around him but we never go out and he always said I kill the moment when Im around his friends. If Im quite he question it, if not he still does. I dont get it. Marriage counselling? He doesnt want to put up the money so he's like, we could just live in the same household, and just be finacial buddies because I know when your finish school, you will prob. end up leaving. OMFG. Men. Thats the stuff that would make you want to. He's out now with his bf at a pajammer party.. :@

2007-12-22 16:39:27 · 13 answers · asked by Sassy 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy who sits 1seat in front and to the left of me. I always thought he was cute but we are from different crowds so there is a big gap in social circles. One day he started opening doors for me and turning around to look at me and as I'm writing this I'm turning red. Well I've started to like him too and he's tried to make eye contact with me and sit next to me but whenever he's around I almost feel pysically ill and I want to get as far away from him as possible. Help! Am I normal? What should I do I"m seventeen and never had a real relationship, and I'm scared? What should I do?

2007-12-22 16:37:18 · 27 answers · asked by Moscolo 3 in Singles & Dating