Is she interested?

Question

We met on Myspace roughly a month ago. We have mutual friends but until 2 weeks ago had never met. She usually responds to texts and emails and if she misses my call usually calls back. We went out 2 weeks ago to a club and danced and had a good time, she took my hand, we danced really close etc. However- she never calls me, I always call her. She doesn't say much in texts or emails, mostly "how are you" type of things. She says she likes to keep her feelings to herself if she is interested which makes it hard. I try to be more forward telling her how attractive she is and just says thanks. I text her I am interested and I'd like to see her more and I get nothing back or a short answer like "sure". I ask her if shes interested and she says "just read me and you will find out" But if she keeps everything to herself, how can I read her? It's only been a month but I'm beginning to think it's time to move on cuz I dont want to play mind games or be strung along which she denies doing

I've only called her 3-5 times so I don't call much. I have had a few days where I wouldn't call, text or email and almost every time she ends up texting or emailing me. I told her to tell me if she isn't interested to just say it so I wouldn't waste my time and she said okay.

Answer 1

You told her you are interested and she knows this. So you don't have to keep calling reminding her how much you like her. It won't make things any better.

It's all got to do with her. She is highly guarded, and this may have been resulted from being hurt badly past relationships. - I know girls who do this.

I advise next time you see her say "I feel we have fun together, and I would like us to be together I would like to get to know each other more, but I can't do that if you don't starting to open up towards me" What do you think?"

Just explain that she is not showing that she is interested in you, and each time you are are liking her less and less and will eventually find someone else.

Answer 2

Srry hon she's got u on the hook but she is still fishing around for something better but for now you will suffice ,it seems, if already you feel that she is closed up what in the world makes you think she will change? When we meet new people what you see is usually what you get good bad and indifferent, its up to you to decide can you see yourself dealing with the same attitude 20 years from now? I think not already just from your writing you need intimacy in a mate, someone to share their feelings and thoughts not a cold fish, I say throw HER back and you look for that perfect fish!

Answer 3

Stop calling her, if she starts to call you, then your good to go. Dont be so accessible, start making other plans and be too busy for her when she does call, but of course offer to call her back later or make plans for another day, you know dont be a total a**. Life is like a fart, if you push it too hard, it all turns to Sh*t.

Answer 4

Move on and forget her. If she tries to contact you it means she realized what she's got. Let her make the next move. If she does nothing , find you some body new.

Answer 5

It sounds like shes got some emotional problems. I tried going out with a girl like that, I was super respectful and old fashioned and she dumped me 3 hours after our first date.

Answer 6

well by how you describe her, I am reading her (pun intended) as if she is not interested at all. if she is not responding to your moves at all, then she might not want to advance to the next level with you. take is easy and back off, if she still doesn't do anything, then she is definitely not interested.

Answer 7

Maybe losing some of your attention will get her thinking. You can't be the one making all the moves, that's why there are two of you.

Answer 8

umm. i dont thiink so - especially since you guys met through myspace, you dont really know each other. she probably realized this and is trying to back off.

Answer 9

Only fools rush in.

Answer 10

she isnt interested dude