I had a huge crush on a girl over the summer and she felt the same way toward me but we both decided we were too busy to pursue a relationship. Since then she has pretty much stopped talking to me, sometimes actually ignoring me. Occasionally, we will talk and she says she wants to hang out but we never actually do. I still have really strong feelings for her. Should I send flowers to her for Christmas or should I just do nothing and forget about it?
2007-12-22 17:47:23 · 11 answers · asked by kuf99ver3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would not forget about it, but I would wait until after the holiday season. During the holidays a lot of emotions and memories are stirred up for a lot of people, and that leads to a lot of stress. I would send her a card, or an e-card and let her know you are still holding her in your thoughts. I would suggest something cute bordering on romantic. But don't put too much on her plate until a few days in to January.
2007-12-22 17:52:10 · answer #1 · answered by YouAreLookin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a sweet gesture, if you make it clear that they don't mean any pressure for her to be with you. Just something simple to let her know you're still thinking about her... and then go from there. It'd be hard to ignore a gesture like flowers, but if she does then it's pretty clear that she's absolutely disinterested (and tactless, lol...).
Send the flowers~
2007-12-23 01:53:02 · answer #2 · answered by Pixel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like her send the flowers
2007-12-23 01:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by uuummk73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not take advantage of the holiday and send some flowers those always are a good surprise.
2007-12-23 01:50:46 · answer #4 · answered by CMP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her the flowers...it could break the ice!
2007-12-23 01:51:06 · answer #5 · answered by Toddacanda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her flowers! That would be daring. If she likes you, she will respond accordingly. If she doesn't, it will piss her off, and she will react like it bugged her. Either way, you'll know where you stand.
2007-12-23 01:52:47 · answer #6 · answered by A F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u like her find a way to get closer to her and u set up the time and pllace u hang out so that u actually do.
if u commit urself to getting closer to her and she sees that she will do the same.
2007-12-23 01:51:18 · answer #7 · answered by sk8erkid 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send a nice card.
"Thinking of you this holiday season"
2007-12-23 01:53:57 · answer #8 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, shine it.
Would you feel comfortable giving her a Valentines Day bouquet? If no, don't do Christmas.
Sorry, bro
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2007-12-23 02:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send them. You'll never know unless you try.
2007-12-23 01:51:34 · answer #10 · answered by kj 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋