I have been dating my boyfriend for 4 years. were both 18 im a virgin. his not a virgin. I would like for him to be my first so I wanted to know how and what I should tell him?
2007-12-22 17:30:19 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait for marriage, it will make it much more meaningful.
2007-12-22 17:33:29 · answer #1 · answered by Pace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop right there. Think birth control before you go any further. After that then I find that anytime is the best time....as long as it isnt right after some traumatic moment. Try the next time you guys are watching a movie together. And as was said before you really should be proud; nowadays some people dont even make it half that long, and if you think you can then just wait till the wedding day. It seems thats not the only thing that he's been thinking about, so I take it you found a great guy. Congrats!
2007-12-23 01:36:56 · answer #2 · answered by andrsj3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have had this talk a long time ago. Sex is important in a relationship. I understand that the two of you have been together since you were children so it sounds as though there's a mutual understanding.
You should be comfortable enough with him by now to talk about anything. Bring it up now. If you don't feel comfortable even mentioning it than you are obviously not ready for the action.
2007-12-23 01:33:39 · answer #3 · answered by zimmiesgrl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whenever u are ready for it. Don't rush it things like that will come within a matter of time its jus how u feeling about it. If u are u ready for it let him know. Im sure he would love to here that. But if ur not ready jus take some time or wait until u get married.
2007-12-23 01:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by Antwuan (Giants Superbowl XLVI Champs!!!) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you;ve been dating for 4 years and he's not a virgin did he cheat on you.
you can have sex whenever you want.
and to the person who said when your married- 95% of people have sex by the age of 17.4 so this person is being responsible by even taking time to talk about it..
2007-12-23 01:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by diannaleigh85 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! How did you keep him off you for four years! Never mind, I dont want to know. You never said if marriage is a requirement or not, if not, just tell him you are ready for the next level in your relationship, he will take it from there, if marriage is a requirement he knows what he has to do to get the prize sweetie!
2007-12-23 01:35:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well youva been dating for 4 years so the subject will be ezier to speak about and still be comfortable. lets face it...hes a guy and no rational guy can turn down sex its a scientific law......all you have to do is basically tell him the above formentioned that you told all of us and he'll do whatever you want
2007-12-23 01:33:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do it when you feel it is the right time. 4 years is a long time but you have went this long if you are getting married soon I would wait..
2007-12-23 01:32:59 · answer #8 · answered by Natalie L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Surely, after four years you've discussed the possibly of having sex with him, haven't you? Well, tell him what you just told us, for heaven's sake.
Tell him, "These panties aren't going to take themselves off!" if you want to skip the awkward parts.
2007-12-23 01:34:13 · answer #9 · answered by CiCi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 years ... so he lost his virginity at 14?
well ease into it. alcohol can be your friend. wear protection. bring lubrication ... rubber sheets or a towel would be good. will hurt at first ... but it gets better and better.
just tell him.
2007-12-23 01:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ye're 18 going out 4years and ye hav'nt...... wow ur lucky to make it past date 2in ireland without hitting the sack and i'm 19!
bring it up when yere fooling around
2007-12-23 01:33:32 · answer #11 · answered by Boulavogue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋