There's this guy who sits 1seat in front and to the left of me. I always thought he was cute but we are from different crowds so there is a big gap in social circles. One day he started opening doors for me and turning around to look at me and as I'm writing this I'm turning red. Well I've started to like him too and he's tried to make eye contact with me and sit next to me but whenever he's around I almost feel pysically ill and I want to get as far away from him as possible. Help! Am I normal? What should I do I"m seventeen and never had a real relationship, and I'm scared? What should I do?
2007-12-22 16:37:18 · 27 answers · asked by Moscolo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hahah it's completely normal. Just take a deep breath, and pretend that you are sitting next to any other person.
2007-12-22 16:39:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This must be some guy.If he makes you feel like you say, then give it a rest.For about five year's And let your mum in on this and your dad and don't let it snowball you are not grown up enough to see the out come of this so if you are as clever as you say you are put a stop to it now and then you can call yourself clever.There will be a lot of this I your live so get use to it. you must be a real cracker, well Pretty or good looking so the boys will always be after you.And that's nice, but don't be taken it with the mail charm. As I am mail and 74years old I know just how the mail brain works,so take this as the Truth,he has only one thing on his mind 24-7 and that is is he going to have his way with you ,sorry if this to much for a yong girl but this is fact.So get that daft stuff out of your head about love. Yes there is such a thing called love but it not for 14 year old .So you see this is what thy say is called growing up. Well that all I have to say on this matter and this is What I told my own daughter at about your age and if you can have a talk to your farther he will tell you the same.
2016-05-26 00:15:39 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks like you have a crush girl. You want to get away because you are worried about how you look and you dont want him to see you blush! Same with me. Thats completely normal. If you want to become more than friends, first start a conversation and say stuff like "Gosh it sucks that we have a test today", or "man Mrs. H is kinda stiff today" He might laugh or just nod his head. Its hard to tell if he likes you in a like like way, but just keep things cool and dont rush. AND DO NOT LAUGH UNCONTROABBLY IN FRONT OF HIM OR HE WILL THINK YOU ARE WEIRD AND IT WILL BE VERY OBVIOUS THAT YOU LIKE HIM!
Good lucK!
2007-12-22 16:45:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry. I went through the same thing with my first bf at the age of 15. So It will pass. Just try to relax and think about him, not what you are afraid you might do wrong if he could possibly love you at some point then he is going to have to like all of you. and if he doesnt it is his loss, i am sure.
2007-12-22 16:42:58 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur normal. just take a deep breath and treat him like another person. think of it like this: humans are made up of atoms and cells and molecules and muscles, hair folicles, nerves, bones, water, enzymes, etc. one of these humans is structured so that you think hes cute and in the seventeen/eighteen years of his existence his brain has learned to be polite to women, particularly you. big deal.
very weird way of thinking, i know. but i find it erodes any emotions i have for someone
2007-12-22 16:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chillax!!! Ok, I've never had a relationship B4 ether, but i think that you should get to know him better so you don't feel so uncomfortable around him. Don't try to avoid him unless yur having a bad day ur something.
2007-12-22 16:42:42 · answer #6 · answered by Jenny :D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely normal.
Do you REALLY want to get rid of it? It's one of those things that sucks so much but at the same time is so amazing.
How do you get rid of it? Man...if we had that figured out...
2007-12-22 16:39:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax girl..........
you are completely normal...........
Its just that its your first relationship and you are fancy him a lot.....................
you want to get far away from him as you truely like him and dont want him to see you blushing and doing enbarassing acts............
according to me, the only thing you should do is try to talk to him more frequently as he is having the same feeling as well.........
if you would talk to him more..
you would start feeling more comfortable and eazy..............
2007-12-22 16:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry so much its normal just talk to him or joke around wit him im 12 and hav the same problems
2007-12-22 16:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by Yuuki K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a deep breath and it goes away! Or if that doesn't work then just get away from them
2007-12-22 16:40:19 · answer #10 · answered by animal luver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋