Why would anyone get pregnant by a man who has children by multiple women. I work with a gal who has just had a baby with a black man and he has 7 children with multiple other women. What happens? Are they just too stupid to use birth control?
2007-12-22 13:36:17 · 13 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just FYI. I am sure white men do it too, but I just have never seen a white man with 7 children with multiple women.
The friend of mine who had the baby is a white girl and the father is black. She works and he doesnt. I dont get it. He has been generous enought to let his mother babysit for her while he must be out selling crack. He just got out of jail for stealing a car and crack cocaine.
2007-12-22 14:07:31 · update #1
I know many black people. I have black friends and work in health care with black folks who are genuinely kind, honest people. I also work w/ whites.
2007-12-22 14:10:25 · update #2
He can't keep it in his pants! But why are you stereotyping it as a racial thing, because there are plenty of white men/red men/yellow men out there that have similar circumstances. What about some white/black/etc. women that have multiple fathers of their 5 children? The situation's reversed, but the cause is still the same thing. Birth control notwithstanding, HE (whatever male we are focusing on) needs to keep it in his pants until he is married. SHE needs to keep her legs crossed & not "give it up" to any guy that smiles at her.
2007-12-22 13:39:23 · answer #1 · answered by Andy K 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do SOME black men.
Why do SOME men. (Other skin-colours do this too).
Why would she get pregnant? Maybe she doesn't care so much about the concept of the nucleur family.
Maybe she knows on some level that he will leave, and that's what she wants. Maybe she just wants to be a single mom, and needed someone to do the job.
The man probably thinks he's very fertile and manly be doing what he does. It's not limited to black men.
I don't understand the mentality of either side of the relationship either.
And, I'd say, yes, they are stupid.
2007-12-22 14:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yeah because im a black man my extremely large penis must always be inside of someone. I mean god, when im not riding in my Cadi or playing B ball im making babies. Congrats on being an idot, learn a thing or two about people before you start to say dumb statments. And FYI im very knowledgable about birth control(I work at a health clinic).
2007-12-22 13:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by Eric N 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok slow down the on the generalizations! There are a lot of quality black guys that are real men!
The "guys" (using the term very loosely!) who have multiple children by multiple mothers are selfish and irresponsible!
As for the women who fall victim to such scum, your answer falls in denial and low self-esteem!
2007-12-22 13:41:43 · answer #4 · answered by JimBob 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying all black men do this or the one you know? Don't blame a whole race of people for a few. How many black people do you know? Not many, I can tell.
You prove my point, your talking about one person. You are typical of white thinking. You see one person of color do something and you blame the whole race. Did you know I was responsible for O. J. killing his wife? I don't know him nor have anything in common with him, but I help him murder his wife. Just because I'm black. White man thinking and ignorance
2007-12-22 13:42:21 · answer #5 · answered by wind champ 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why does it have to be just black? all races do it. the men feed the women a bunch of bs lines that they're the only one and the fall for it and think it's time to have a baby. or they think that having a baby with the man will make him stay with them, they think that things are different with them.
2007-12-22 13:40:57 · answer #6 · answered by Courtney J. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok to all the black people that read this just to let you know i love black people not racist
but anyway
because hun for many reasons 1 they are pimps
2 dont know what a condum is
3 cant keep there pants on
4 addicted to sex
6 like there penis too much
7 let there penis do all the thinking
8 naturally horney 24/7
2007-12-22 13:41:27 · answer #7 · answered by baby cat 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
The girl you work with is an idiot. I'm black and I wouldn't have a baby by somebody with more than two kids and that's ONLY if those kids were made when he was married to a girl. If he had any kids with his 'girlfriend' i wouldn't date them at all.
2007-12-23 11:17:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
irresponsible. Selfish and care little for the damage being done to the children
2007-12-22 13:39:23 · answer #9 · answered by docC 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
you know what i heard? i heard that children's mortality rate was low in the past and that's why decades ago women used to have 10 kids. <<
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