because i haven't met one yet.
2007-12-22 14:05:16 · 45 answers · asked by snowangels 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some guys are blatant and in your face, some guys are more reserved, but as far as women and relationships go almost all guys are the same. Some men cheat, some men dont, some men have anger (and violence) issues, some men dont. But what Im talking about as all men being the same, is we are all incredibly simple. Women read all these magazines and get all this relationship advice to try and figure out men on the whole or "their man" and its not really that complicated. The moniker "nice" really doesnt exist and heres why. Ususally what women mean by nice guy, is a guy who will never hurt me. And Im sorry but no that guy does not exist. Go find the oldest sweetest couple you know, who have been married forever, and do a little digging. I'll bet that at one time or another, 'she' has got a story of how 'he' hurt her deeply in some way. Unfortunately its the nature of giving your heart and emotions to someone, eventually they are going to hurt you. A relationship becomes successful when you see each others shortcomings accept them and love anyways from both sides. But trust me, we are not that hard to figure out. Definately stay away from guys who play games and then take everything else at face value, do not look for deeper meanings,... we arent that deep.
2007-12-22 14:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by peardietz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! I never thought in my wildest dreams they would, but they do! I am currently dating one and we are going to be engaged soon! they do exist, just maybe not in your age range. Or, if you are out of the teen years, maybe you are looking for the wrong type of guy. The guys who seem too good to be true, often are. The nice guys are the ones who make the little mistakes, like buying the wrong thing or getting you nothing for your birthday, and then feeling horrible for it afterwards. The nice guys are the ones who are always too shy to talk to you first! So get your butt out there!
2007-12-22 14:08:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you have no male friends, and find your father, any brothers, uncles, male cousins, etc to be people who are not nice? How sad...
There are over 3.3 billion males on the planet...to imply none of them are nice is pretty mean, and a HUGE mis-generalization.
There are TONS of nice guys, all around...but do realize just because a guy is nice, doesn't mean you'll be attracted to him or desire to date.
Patience...and of course, if you want a nice partner you should make sure you are a nice person yourself. Good luck! ☺
2007-12-22 14:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, there's definitely still nice guys out there, you just need to find them in the right place at the right time, i mean you wont find a nice guy in a nightclub or being drunk, find one in a decent place for example the movies and stuff like that..
2007-12-22 14:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by cLaU 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys do exist, but they're not always in the packages we're looking at. Sometimes the niceset guy is one you've overlooked.
2007-12-22 14:07:31 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa E 6 · 5⤊ 0⤋
actually you've met plenty. Chances are you're either:
unable to recognize a nice guy
OR
(like a lot of girls who ask questions like this) you don't actually want a nice guy.
2007-12-22 14:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by pieninja 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Harry Potter!
2007-12-22 15:18:03 · answer #7 · answered by I ♥ HP™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Define what a nice guy mean - there are decent kind guys BUT finding them is a challenge. You might have to kiss frogs in order for you to find your prince. They say it's better to stop looking and let him find you instead.
2007-12-22 14:08:07 · answer #8 · answered by mitchchan 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, but women put there sights up to high and miss out on the guys that they could live a lifetime with.
2007-12-22 14:08:02 · answer #9 · answered by hollywood71@verizon.net 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OH YEAH!! You need to live in North Carolina, theres a mix or nice guys and of course SOME jerks.
2007-12-22 14:07:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋