How can I be more social and confiedent about myself?

Question

For some reson I am able to talk to people who I hate but people who I don't hate I feel weird about talking to them. How can I get past that???? I am sooooo sadd!!!! :((

Answer 1

First, don't you think it is a bit odd to divide people into those you hate and those you don't? One would get the impression that you hate a lot of people. In any case, I'd suggest that you practice your conversation skills by speaking to people for whom you have no strong feelings-- sales people in stores, librarians in your public library. Maybe you will get to feel a little more comfortable. Good luck.

Answer 2

Its a little hard. Hell everyone suffers form not enough confiendce, no matter what they say. I am sorry you are sad. I suggest you have some close friends and just talk and talk and start doing thing that you like to do and take the lead once you are showen that you are good leader and have good and close friends I think that might help, unfourthanly it will take a little time but I think you will get it. Take care and good luck