ok heres the deal this girl is about 9 months older than me and i AM 15. she usually dates guys alot older than her and just broke up with her 20 year old boyfriend. Her best friend told me that she would go out with me if she wasn't dating the other guy and now she isnt. We had a winter formal last nite and i wasent going to go but she really wanted me to go so we went together. The first part she seemed like she was having fun but the last hour or so she barely even looked at me. There was a guy there who she use to like alot but they never dated. He kinda screwed around with her they have held hands and he has gotten really close to her but they never dated made out or anything like that. He is moving away but he will still be around or school alot all though he wont be attending school with us. Me and this girl had been friends but never really gotten this close until this year. She got me a nice shirt for my birthday and she might give me something that she had for her old
2007-12-22 13:50:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
boyfriend. i really like this girl but i'm confused i think she was sad at the formal because that guy was leaving.
should i get her something for christmas
does she like me
what should i do
2007-12-22 13:52:18 · update #1
I am completely serious. You need to Man Up and ask her out before someone else does. if someone else asks her out before you, then you are stuck in the friend zone. YOU DONT WANT TO BE STUCK IN THE FRIEND ZONE.Lets say you guy went out but brokeup, and you still wanted to be friens. Not to worry because even if you guys breakup, if you were friends before, you will be friends again.
2007-12-22 13:57:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK Sport, you may have caught her on the re-bound, or she may like you - "but not in that way", or maybe she's just confused a little right now. Or, - she really likes you - a lot and you're new to all this and are missing some of the signals she's sending you.
What do you do? TALK TO HER. Be honest and straight with her, tell her how you feel, and ask her how she feels about you, are you two going to be a couple? Just friends? What? You aren't trying to push her you just need to know if you should hang in there and give her a little time, or if it's not going to happen. After all - there's a lot of fish in the sea, and you're a good guy and you've got a lot to offer a girl - the right girl; and while you'd love to be with her, you're not going to wait around and play the fool. All this is said in the nicest possible way of course, but it's time to fish or cut bait, and good luck!
2007-12-22 22:19:31 · answer #2 · answered by jtrall25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take her for a coffee and have a quiet chat about the both of you and if she has any feeling for you she will tell you if not she will talk about this other guy but really she is far too young to be getting serious what if she becomes pregnant the first time you do it then what you will live a life of misery how and where will you live she will expect you to be home after work or where ever you chose to live and make the child an excuse for not going out what sort of life is that she is a young teenager and got a crush but keep it that way and go out occassionally untill she is older to understand what friendship is all about
2007-12-22 22:04:09 · answer #3 · answered by virgoen_4 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say if you like the girl by all means go out and buy her something for Christmas.
Invite her to lunch.... if she accepts your invitation give her the gift during the meal. The lunch things allows you to be together, and that's more important than anything material , assuming she would like you for who you are rather than for what you give her.
I would feel awkward and maybe a little offended if a girl was giving me something she originally purchased for another guy, but I'll leave that call up to you. I wish you luck .
2007-12-22 22:01:39 · answer #4 · answered by alex m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok...i think you should tell her how u feel an if she doesnt feel the same then dont take it personaly...sometimes its best to stay friends with someone than to get in a relationship an break up an never talk to each other again.....maybe she just doesnt realize that she really likes you yet...sum people dont look at sum1 that way until they know that person feels that way...every1 has there crushes and this other guy is just that.. but if u've been friends with her for a while, she'll know ur there to stay no matter what..
2007-12-22 22:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, im sorry, but that whole question was just about a christmas present? If she's your friend, yeah, give her something if you think she's worth it. It doesn't have to be something big - it can be a book or the new cd from a band she likes. What kind of things does she like? Only you can answer that
2007-12-22 21:57:19 · answer #6 · answered by omygosh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
woah! that's a total trap! That gift was meant for another guy? Then whenever you put on that gift you'll totally remind her of that OTHER GUY.
Not good.
Why don't you make her jealous? Flirt with other girls in front of her. She'll totally hate that, and it'll make you seem more attractive, cuz really, at that age it's just a game to them, and they want to take stuff away from other girls
2007-12-22 21:56:42 · answer #7 · answered by cowboydanimal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think she just never wants to to alone (with out a boyfriend) so when a guy dosen't ask her out she goes for the next guy or guy friend (which is you) then when a guys starts to make a move on her she goes right for him> basically shes just using you until she gets a boyfriend or a guy who's all over her
2007-12-22 22:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by crizzle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to give her time to get over it ...dont make any drastic moves just comfort her and keep things simple this christmas if you want to do something for her try making her a really nice card she will appreciate it that much more cause it came from your heart and not a store
2007-12-22 21:55:03 · answer #9 · answered by Must Be The Clouds In My Eyes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since she seemed really sad then ask what is going on and tell her that u r there for her. Yeah u should get her a xmas gift!!!
2007-12-22 21:55:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋