Family & Relationships - 13 December 2007

Im been going out with my boyfriend since 11-13-07 today is our one month anniversity he was just bugging me about when he's going to hit it (have sex with me) and i think thats one of the problems it seems like he just wants to hit and quit i rather it be making love he's sixteen and im seventeen hes not a virgin but i am and i dont think im ready yet because i still dont trust him that much please please tell me what should i do thanks

2007-12-13 09:25:11 · 9 answers · asked by {~MZ.SMITH!~} 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay so heres the deal my friends pregnant, lives with her boyfriend an hates him he ignores her, sits on his computer all day, does no housework and is just a lazy person. She lives in his house she gave up her house and all her belongings in that house so has nothing. She has asked him to change but he hasnt and she has just had enough. She needs to get out but has no were to go she could come live with me for a while but when the baby is bor there will be no room so she wants a place of her own. Basically what i am tryin to ask is were does she go for help she needs a house, furniture anyone any ideas? by the way we live in the UK. So only british help thanks no offence anyone else. Thanks

2007-12-13 09:25:05 · 5 answers · asked by lizzie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am working in a position that was left because the last Admin Assistant left because she was getting married. Do married women leave their jobs often? Why is the phrase "She left because she was getting married" suficiant? Just curious. Thanks!

2007-12-13 09:25:00 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This couple wqho work out in my gym(one 23 the other 30)asked if i wanted to go out with them sometime.The guy(30)brought it up and i was perplexed.He just said we were talking about you theother day and wondered if you'd like to go out.I'm one of the nly ones that know they are a couple,but i don't know if that is the story.We're just good acquiantances there.What's the motive?

2007-12-13 09:24:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It all happened last nite my husband is out of town on business so a couple of girls decided to go out on the town after work. We had a few drinks at a local bar, when we ran into my husbands best friend Steve, after quite a few drinks we got goofy and ended up at strip bar, Steve joined us, before I knew it he was rubbing my back and I was rubbing his leg, and talking sexual he asked me if I would ever dance at a strip bar or shave my pubic hair for John my husband, we all had a lot to drink so Steve got a cab to take us home, Steve saw me and my friend Monica home, Monica stayed over night because she lives out of town, when I woke up this morning I found myself naked and shaved. I don't remember anything once I got home. what do I tell my husband? and do I ask Steve or Monica what happened. Here I am 43 years old and should know better than to let this happen to me. I don't know what to tell my husband.

2007-12-13 09:20:54 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I mean I think I did. I'm not sure. It might not have been me or she might not even be pregnant. Either way I want out. How do I say goodbye without hurting her feelings. I'm scared sh&*less over here.

2007-12-13 09:20:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When I first married my husband I told him how I felt on this subject and he told me he could never do that when married but he lied... ALOT.. and now I don't know how to take it. I would understand if I didn't put out or try new things but thats not the problem. What do I do? We've two kids and I'm scared I can't deal with this All I ever wanted was a faithful 100 man and to love me as I've him. We tried counceling but he hates it and doesn't want to go

2007-12-13 09:18:19 · 33 answers · asked by Lilith 4 in Marriage & Divorce

First, I want to say that I love my boyfriend more than anything. We have been dating for almost 2 years. For the most part, everything is great. About 8 months ago, something happened where I found out his was still talking to an ex through the phone and texts. The problem was I had asked him to stop talking to her a year prior (for too many reasons to list here)and that he told me over and over that he hadn't talked to her in weeks/months. When I confronted him that I knew, he admitted partically to it. He admits they talked but wouldnt admit it was more often that he said. I dont know why I still cant get past this issue. He did apoligize and said it would never happen again. I am 99% sure they are NOT still having contact, but that 1% is still there. I know he can be sneaky, so they could be talking while is at work or on AIM. I just need to trust him, otherwise I will never get over this issue. Part of me wonders if he still has feelings for her even though she is married...

2007-12-13 09:17:39 · 4 answers · asked by ooxxcandyxxoo 1 in Singles & Dating

im going to ask this again, has anyone here seen a relationship work out where both parties abuse drugs ( all day everyday) and thats the only thing they do when they hang out?

2007-12-13 09:17:28 · 24 answers · asked by Martin512 3 in Singles & Dating

What kind of wedding band would you get with this?

I know with 3 stones you have to get them bent a bit, but what about solitaires? Do you think a half-eternity band would go?

Here's an example:
engagement ring-->
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band -->
http://www.moissaniteisforever.com/moissanite-anniversary-band.aspx?ID=6362

Any input is greatly appreciated :)

2007-12-13 09:16:53 · 15 answers · asked by kiki 6 in Weddings

My husband and I have been married for 10 years. we have two children and since the last one I have to force myself to have sex. He is always horney. I am getting to the point I can't force myself anymore. I have gone to the doctor and she has done all the blood work up and so on and she said that there is nothing wrong with me.
Other than the sex part we have a awesome relationship.
I love my husband very much he is my best friend, but I am just not attracted to him anymore. What do I do.

2007-12-13 09:15:34 · 17 answers · asked by hipgrandma0204 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what name would you call yourself .

2007-12-13 09:15:32 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-13 09:15:19 · 29 answers · asked by jona{*preppy in pink*} 2 in Singles & Dating

i tried helping a friend and she sits there and doesnt believe my side of the story.she asked someone else who hates me and she believes them.im tellin the truth and no one believes me.this sucks any addvice? i tried every thing to convince her but nothin works.rlly wat should i do?

2007-12-13 09:14:16 · 2 answers · asked by PokeMonstar 2 in Friends

Hi everyone, be nice please, i have been married for 6 months now,very happy most of the time, yesterday my husband told me he have to go some where and its very important and he wont be back till the evening, i asked him give me an idea when will you be home? he said he doesnt know, he had a lil fight with me because he wanted to take my mercedes,i refused him, he left at 9am, i called him at 12:20 he was in the gym and couldnt talk to me, then he called me and i asked him honey when you coming home, he said he dont know yet and hung up on me, then i called him about 25times on both of his phones and he didnt answer, i gave up on calling him, then he called me and i didnt feel like talking to him, I know he is not cheating, I am positive about that, what else he could be up to besides that?

2007-12-13 09:13:50 · 11 answers · asked by Neha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

....would you go out shopping for another spouse while you were still married? Or would you try to fix yourself first? And when did we decide that a piece of paper sets the mandate for what a heart feels?

2007-12-13 09:13:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ladies do you mind if your husband makes new/serious friendships with single women that he works with...and gentlemen, do you mind if your wives constantly make new/serious friends with single males...i mean friends that they constantly talk onthe phone with, go out with and work with....is this crossing the line of marriage? does it violate the marriage vows?

what do you think?

2007-12-13 09:11:54 · 13 answers · asked by hot black babe 4 in Marriage & Divorce

how can I get my husband to want more loving like me!

2007-12-13 09:10:28 · 34 answers · asked by Angel L 3 in Marriage & Divorce

They say they didn't know, but my father also threatened me recently that if I continue to tell people about it I will have him to answer too. It was my grandfather on my moms side and my uncle on my dads side. This whole situation has affected everyday of my life since I can remember....even drugs, which I am now sober.

2007-12-13 09:10:05 · 8 answers · asked by lady_billabong 2 in Family

I feel ashamed. I am a married man with two adorable daughters under the age of 5. Things have never been right with my wife, but we kept our relationship going because of our daughters. Well, that's why I am still in the relationship.
I made the huge mistake of cheating on her, and falling for another woman. I have known her for over 8 months now. And she recently found out that she was pregnant. I feel lost, ashamed and scared. She is worried but completely against abortion, and I am too, in a way, but I feel like this is a critical situation.
If she keeps this child, I will have to leave my family and my daughters will never respect me. I love them, they are the love of my life, and i can't imagine them not being in my life or hating me.
Should she have an abortion? Should she keep the child? What can i say to convince her not to have this child? I feel like this child would be born in a bad situation, but she seems to think it does not matter. What is the best option? Help.

2007-12-13 09:10:04 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 09:08:16 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My fionce was married to a "money hungry" person for a very short time and now were together and plan to be married soon. We are both very happy but the only thing is that he tells me that we wont get married until he's established again. Ex: he builds a new house, etc. becuase he doesnt want to go through the same hectic drama he went through with his ex wife when they were fighting for their house. He put her on the title of the house and everything before they got married and when they divorced she fought for every single penny since the house was under both their names. I am a true believer of working for your own things and its not so much that he doesnt want to put me in the title of the new house, its just that he is learning from his mistakes he made w/ his first wife and now I have to pay the price. Wouldnt you be offended? Not so much for the money, but the situation. Its not my fault that shes a money hungry person.

2007-12-13 09:08:13 · 17 answers · asked by Is that your final answer? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Hope I'm not the only one! (:

Have a nice christmas

2007-12-13 09:07:24 · 13 answers · asked by Lynzy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I like a girl but im sorta afraid to ask her out.But ima tell one of my friends to do it for me.

Is it a good idea?
If u were this girl how would you fell about me if i did this?
Would you say yes?

2007-12-13 09:03:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-13 09:02:34 · 5 answers · asked by payam k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How does your marriage seem after you spend time in the Marriage/Divorce area of yahoo answers?

2007-12-13 09:02:29 · 38 answers · asked by heartsarebad 5 in Marriage & Divorce

we are both divorced, i am going thru mine, but he hates being pinned down to timeframes, commitments, i on the other hand am more spontaneous, free-willed. I know this is not for the long term, but what can i do to wake him up? Life is for living after all, and he is just so dang oppiniontated and intolerant, just dump him. But he is a good intellectual and sexual partner. What to do?

2007-12-13 09:02:09 · 7 answers · asked by sharon 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a 6 year marriage and He has cheated on me since the begining.I always forgave even when he threw me in jail for smaking him after I found out.But this last time when I forgave I guess I didn't realize I had to forget.I cry everyday I talk about what happened everyday.It has come to the point where I have wanted to hurt myself because I can't get rid of the pain.He laughs, calls me a drama queen,Calls me crazy! He moved the girl into my house when I went to live with my mother.They laughed at me while I played the fool and lost my corporate job. I am tierd...but this is my first love.The only man I have ever lived with.He lies to me all the time and we never go anywhere.I am in a nightmare!I can't get out because I feel that the other men are worse.I am holding on to a thread emotionally,physically and mentally.All the while he says get over it.....I just found out today that the girl he was cheating with lives 2 miles away from me!Also this whole thing hppend 9mnth ago

2007-12-13 09:00:18 · 25 answers · asked by Pretty dark skin girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

okay, so i was talking to my friend. he used to work at the dining hall. he said during his breaks he used to play connect the dots on the back of food trays. i said to him "GAL -get a life" but in a joking matter. and he said yea i do need to get a life. was what i said really offensive? because i really meant it in a joking matter.

2007-12-13 08:58:22 · 4 answers · asked by ramunekiwi 1 in Friends

I am 36 yrs old. I have been married 13+ yrs. happily. This last year or so I started having dreams about people (girls) I knew when I was a kid. Not old flames mind you but just girls i knew in school and never dated. They are sexual in nature but before anything really happens I sorta blow it in the dream. Then I wake up wondering where the hell did that come from?
Then for the next few days I'm thinking about that person (not sexually) but just where are they, I hope they are doing well, that sorta thing.
Any ideas?

2007-12-13 08:56:03 · 6 answers · asked by cotton3860 3 in Marriage & Divorce