Family & Relationships - 13 December 2007

Well I've been ready for a quite some time to have sex with my boyfriend of 2 months, but the first month in he told me he had HPV. I still wanted to be with him because for one month our relationship wasnt sexual and I still cared for him alot. But now he keeps asking when I'm going to be "Ready" and said he's in no rush..the thing is..I took the gardasil shot, and I'm actually ready and I know all the risks blah blah.. I just want to wait til He loves me, and I love him so that I wont regret having sex with him if I ever do get the virus.

How do I tell him that ?

2007-12-13 07:58:25 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in with this in crowd of girls which is great but I dont like them much,They ***** about other kids in class and if someone doesn't fit in.I join in but only cos it would be odd not to.Trouble is I dont like were this is going.One girl heard and got so upset and I am worried about getting into more trouble If I dis my friends tho I will be a loser to them.has anyone else been like this?

2007-12-13 07:56:15 · 2 answers · asked by mia 2 in Friends

2007-12-13 07:54:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

does that mean he likes you ?


( If you have any questions I'm on IM )

2007-12-13 07:53:17 · 22 answers · asked by Marli 3 in Singles & Dating

I like a boy in a ROTC program, does any one know what type of girls they like ?

2007-12-13 07:53:03 · 9 answers · asked by Meg 2 in Singles & Dating

i ws wrkin in skol as teachr n last week my skol principal cald me n sed dat i shud mak exmintion pprz of d sbjct which im takin.i thot y he sed dt wdout ne reason wen exmz r gana strt on 19 jan .ba still i made dat altough ma sis is seriously she is hospitalisd ba as i ws sincere to my duty i made dt widout askin principal wts d reason n at dt i tyme i ws tynkin dat he myte gana fire 4m ma job.ba stil i made n gav him widin 1day.i was upset cuz of ma sis ..den i gave pprz to principal n he sed dot *** frm tomoro to wrk. i ws lyk ok widout askin him y? jus sed m lft wid one ill mak in break tym cuz ma sis isnt fyn.n he strted syin bad things bout ma sis i strtd cryin lyke nethin .y he sed dat? n den whole skol frm wea i wantd ma salary misbhvd wid me. dae al shouted at me. i was cryin all day cuz of dis insult.ba now im rgrtin dat y he sed so n y i gave him examination pprz... i m guilty. plz teme wa shud i do. i was so sincere wid ma job evn den he dae did dat. evn i gav him Q pprz

2007-12-13 07:51:36 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-13 07:51:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-13 07:50:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found out just this morning from my wife of 9 years that she's been having an affair with her best friend's husband, who is someone I've been friends with since we were kids. I'm trying to be level-headed about this on my end and not make any rash decisions or actions (it's only been a few hours after all), but because this man is my friend (of over 20 years) and because I know he will ask why my wife and I have split up, I'm trying to figure out what to say to him. Is it my place to explain what I know? Do I have an obligation to tell his wife? I'm throwing a party for my employees tomorrow and he and his wife both work for me and they're planning on being there. If anyone can give me ANY ideas how to handle this tactfully, I'd be very grateful! Thanks in advance! :)

2007-12-13 07:48:32 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 07:47:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay so before fiance left last night and hasnt called since he told me that he would never give into my sexual advances until he was ready to have sex to teach me a lesson.....we have been making love like 3-4 times a week and it just stopped...what does this mean

2007-12-13 07:44:55 · 14 answers · asked by gracey 6 in Marriage & Divorce

sexual

2007-12-13 07:44:50 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 07:44:38 · 4 answers · asked by AJ 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been in two relationships with what I would call non slutty girls. I always use a condom and there is no if ands or buts about it. They on the other had have had multiple partners, some relationships and some just sex, and ocassional use condoms. I sometime feel like I'm the only that uses condoms all the time. What do you think and what do you practice?

2007-12-13 07:42:03 · 36 answers · asked by A Y 2 in Singles & Dating

My oyfriend and I made the rule of *No sex till we're at least 17
* a long time ago (his idea). The other day we got very into making out and it was extremely heated. I think he had an orgasm. Wait, what am I saying, he had an orgasm.

I was teasing him in school, asking if he would sleep with me tonight à la "voulez vous coucher avec moi..." At first he was laughing with me, then he just kissed me very pasionately and asked me whether I was kidding or not, "because by now you could probably make me beg...I still have my rules, and I don't want to any sooner...I want time, but...god..."

I asked him if I could seduce him if I wanted to, he said, "Apsolutely."

What exactly did he mean?

2007-12-13 07:41:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i nag my boyfriend i have a lot of problems with my family but he says he loves me sooo much what should i do how do i change so that he still loves me the way he says he do?

2007-12-13 07:41:31 · 8 answers · asked by mookie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

kay, so I have a good amount of friends. most of them rock and we're nice to each other and all of that stuff. I'm in middle school keep in mind. anyway, my good friend for about 2 years is acting a little weird and not talking to me as much. she apologized, but still. my used to be friend which i don't like is taking over our no longer group and so is some other girl. then, My other friend is having those two over tomorrow night and i don't know why she didn't invite me. It seems like she's ignoring me and I'm sick of it. I feel like an outsider. Please help??

2007-12-13 07:41:26 · 7 answers · asked by jewels 2 in Friends

Me and my bf live in AL, which obviously there's not a whole lot to do around here, xcept for go to the movies or out to eat. Does anyone else live in a small town and know what I'm going through. I mean going to the movies and out to eat is fine, but it gets old..QUICK! and I don't want to just stay at home, I mean it's a date...ya know! HELP! PLEASE!

2007-12-13 07:41:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OMG i need help. my frined started cuttin herself wut do i do? plz answer this now, i need all the help i can get. ive seen where she cut herself and ive seen her do it. i try to tell her to stop but she wont! HELP!!!

2007-12-13 07:41:01 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-13 07:40:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Fell in love with a man while I was on the way to widowhood. We connected and made contact a little over the year as he had moved. He is now moving closer. Will he think less of me for falling with him at that time? Is it possible to get together now?

2007-12-13 07:39:16 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not complaining.....I actually kind of like it. I am just curious why men do it.

Guys- what is the driving force behind you smacking your gals butt? Is it an ownership thing? "That's mine!"??

Explain :D

2007-12-13 07:37:54 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so there is this guy that told a friend of mine that he likes and me and everytime i ask him bout it denies it and he even told her that he will ask me out?
how do i get him to do it himself
please be serious bout this i dont need no smart *** answers

2007-12-13 07:35:38 · 38 answers · asked by evgenimalkin<33 1 in Singles & Dating

Got you a Christmas present this year? My husband lost his job a few days ago and has said he could not buy me anything and has asked for me not to buy him anything. So would you be mad come to find out Christmas morning that your wife got you a gift anyways?

2007-12-13 07:34:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, how much does a girl have to do to get you to notice that she likes you?? I feel like I'm too obvious, but I can never tell. Some people say that guys don't get the picture, and you have to spell it out for them. How much attention is too much? When does it start getting weird?
ANd I'm sorry if this a confusing question. I'm a little confused too lol

2007-12-13 07:34:01 · 9 answers · asked by bla 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so my daughter just told me that my husband (almost an ex,we have been seperated for the last year and are getting a divorce) (he has had a girlfriend,for the last year) anyway,he is all bent out of shape about the idea of my having another man in my life !!! What should I think about that??

2007-12-13 07:33:05 · 8 answers · asked by bettys5incali 2 in Marriage & Divorce

You know how when you are single and dating, one day you decide you are ready to settle down with one person? That's how I feel right now, but I am already married. I just feel single and lonely. I'm just not getting the attention that I need. Is this normal to feel this way sometimes during the course of marriage? Or is this a problem. I mean, I catch myself checking out other men and having a "single" frame of mind. I haven't acted on anything, but I've told my husband that I need more attention. He's had a history of infidelity, so I can't help to think that maybe it is going on again- causing him to be distant and inattentive. Maybe I have too many problems, huh?

2007-12-13 07:33:04 · 7 answers · asked by emily1980 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 07:30:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Of course I'ld want to look out for my girlfriend but I really want to be nurutred by a girl. Is this normal?

2007-12-13 07:29:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-13 07:27:16 · 10 answers · asked by Paula Johnson 1 in Marriage & Divorce