Family & Relationships - 13 December 2007

2007-12-13 07:25:45 · 20 answers · asked by snowbunny 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend just broke up with me after 6 months. I honestly love her more than anything, and i REALLY want her back. any advice?

2007-12-13 07:25:01 · 14 answers · asked by imissyou8816 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance wants he and his groomsmen to wear white tuxes ... I like the idea, but the problem is that my dress isn't going to be stark white, more of a diamond white, with gold accents. Here is what my dress looks like ...

http://www.maggiesottero.com/dress.aspx?keywordText=fantasia&keywordType=any&page=0&pageSize=8&style=S5019

Would it clash if the guys wore white tuxes? Should we try to find an off-white or would that just make the tuxes look dirty?

Help! My fiance really really wants white tuxes, but I just don't want it to clash, and I'm not changing my mind on the dress.

2007-12-13 07:24:48 · 14 answers · asked by LuckyLola 2 in Weddings

2007-12-13 07:23:46 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im married and have been for 3 years next week We got married when i was 19, now 22 we bought a house 2 years ago an now i feel like im trapped, i have never got anymoney, and i mean every penny i earn goes strat to the bills account my husband works shifts and i never really see him. I started to feel like im not in love with him any more and just want out of it all, we dont have sex and havnt for a few months, i dont no whether its the pressure but wen im at home on my own in the evenings i just feel really depressed and like crying all the time.. I dont know whether i want to be with him anymore, and dont know wat to do ...... I cant talk to him because he would just end the relationship if he thinks i dont love.... I really dont know what else to do.

2007-12-13 07:23:07 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This january would be 2 years since My husband and I would be married and I am to the point that I cant stand his ways anymore. Icant believe it went from sprung to this.

We argue every or every other day. He swears, curse, calls me names, like fool, ****. He's just disrespectful.
It gets so bad that Im doing and say the sames things back to him and I just dont want my daughter to pick up these things or hear them.(she's 10 months) And you do things for them.

I just want him to leave me, but everytime I tell him its best we separte, he treaten me, by saying stuf like:-
* Go and leave my daughter
* or I will have to deal with him and his people if I do that

I got a divorce application but Im not working now (on mat leave) and I cant afford a lawyer and I read on the application you need to be separted for a year before a divorce. It hurts to say this but I just want him out of my life. I hate when we make it because then it starts over again.

What cant I do?

2007-12-13 07:22:25 · 13 answers · asked by Sassy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

thought of stopping and giving her 5 bucks, she was obvioulsy pregnant, but then I thought what is she is a drug addict? I wouldn't want to help support that. what should I have done? This is a small town and I have never seen anything like that here.

2007-12-13 07:21:47 · 52 answers · asked by amayamom1996 3 in Family

Sorry this will be a bit long but want to try and get the whole story out to you. I am deployed right now and my wifes birthday is this month. I have boughten her very nice jewlery in the past such as 1/2 carat earing. 1 1/2 carat diamond ring. necklaces etc. I wanted to get her somethng nice for her birthday. She told me about this new perfume called euphoria but she didnt tell me that there was also eurphoria blossom. The place i went only had the blossom so not knowing any better trying to be a good man i bought the perfume and feeling great that i had gotten my wife something she was wanting. that was present one......then she asked for a necklace made out of gold that looked like a certain fish, she emailed me the pictrue and i got it hand made but i didnt know that the fish needed to hang in a certain direction.... so back to the perfume. The perfume she tells me is the wrong kinds and she does not like that stuff so i feel bad i got the wrong thing but she really lets me know

2007-12-13 07:20:05 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 07:19:19 · 92 answers · asked by a k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In august of 2006 my fiance' commited suicide. At the time we had just bought a new home and our daughter was 10 months old ( the first and only for both of us ). I have gone through alot of therepy etc... ( I actually saw him after he shot himself) We had no problems, we were the couple everyone wanted to be. The issue at hand is that he has an older brother who I became very close to during this trajedy (previously I couldnt stand him) He has fallen deeply for me and wants to take care of my daughter and I- ABSOLUTLY nothing prior to the death of my fiance ever took place ( asimple hello would be all, as I said I couldnt stand him ) I do have feelings for him, but I feel ethically its so wrong, plus Im by no means anywhere near being over my fiance. Any POSITIVE guidance would be appreciated.

2007-12-13 07:17:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Is it cheating if you have no intention of ever getting together and physically doing anything?

2007-12-13 07:16:17 · 32 answers · asked by Megara 3 in Singles & Dating

I know I already asked this question but I think mostly unexperienced teens answered
I need some dating tips, what should I expect from a younger guy early 20's, what should I not do, what is the downside to this type of relationship ?
Do I have to wait for them to mature, or can I mold him..?? If you've dated or married a younger guy, please advise

2007-12-13 07:15:04 · 30 answers · asked by 2teens2todds 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is it ok to be a virgin?

2007-12-13 07:11:47 · 23 answers · asked by Peter P 1 in Marriage & Divorce

all the bills and my health insurance was with him when I left the house and I could not get anything...

2007-12-13 07:10:29 · 2 answers · asked by Paula Johnson 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and wife have been married since July and she is now pregnant I am 99% sure it is mine with the time frame. I believe she and her ex want to get back together. He called the other day and him and his wife were having trouble she went into other room and then outside( never did that before) Read her phone text and saw where she had said that she never had really loved me and that someone had said to wait until after holidays and hope he wasnt bluffing (not me) should I ask her about this?

2007-12-13 07:10:17 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well from the beginning i have been dating this girl off and on she is the love of my life and she loves me the same we have found new understanding in our relationship when we got back together i found out she was prego and then found out it wasnt mine i agreed to stay with her and call the baby my own her mother and family saw it different they have never met me but feel that she shouldnt be with me i never did anything to provoke them into that way of thought but instead took her daughter in when they were mistreating her at home... her mother told her not to bring me home for the holidays cus it would ruin her christmas and now her mother is calling my mother telling her all sorts of lie like im doing heroin and selling which i never touched in my life and telling my fiance that my mother said that my life was alot better with out her which is also a lie, keep in mind too that my mother is a ordain minister who has no reason to lie and her mother is a more worldly person, thanks

2007-12-13 07:08:29 · 24 answers · asked by initialdreamer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This question is only for married people.

Have you ever had an internet affair, and if so, how did it turn out?

2007-12-13 07:07:45 · 12 answers · asked by Joanne 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i HAVE to get her a christmas gift. she is so ungrateful & hates everything. what is cheap? she deserves nothing but i can't give her coal. i would start world war 3

2007-12-13 07:06:51 · 38 answers · asked by Mandy 1 in Family

He ridicules me and my opinions, ridicules anyone with beliefs different than his, loves guns, hates minorities, complains about everything, always is "in pain", prioritizes with his own interests (his career, his parents, his hobbies, his friends) in mind. He was spoiled as a child and I think his parents reinforced the whole "you are perfect because thats how God made you..." attitude, which is a good attitude if you are conscious of your actions and their effects on others, but my husband is no longer religious and blames all of his own shortcomings on the fact that he was raised in a southern baptist church! He does nothing to better himself- poor hygene, no tact, alcoholic, self-absorbed, over weight, smokes AND dips, uses every racial slur you can imagine and claims it is a joke... Whenever I voice a concern he gives me the silent treatment like a baby, and he loves fighting and debate. I do not. I have had healthy, equal relationships in the past. This is neither. What to do???

2007-12-13 07:04:43 · 23 answers · asked by ------- 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister is thinking of abortion what should I tell her?

2007-12-13 07:03:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I don't understand why people would do that to someone. A specially when your always honest with everyone. Don't they know how hurful that is. I feel so sad.: ( I always try to look at the good in people . But right now I'm just hurt. IT makes me want to disconnect from all of them. I'm an honest person and all I want is them to be honest back . Is that really so hard to do? It shows me what kind of people they truely are. Sad . : ( Sorry if this doesn't make any sence. : (

2007-12-13 07:02:15 · 24 answers · asked by Joy 4 in Friends

Before you say, your family, your children, your future and ambitions..all of that will be gone in 100 years, no one will remember, it seems so pointless, as each day passes and time goes by, days wasted, days forgotten, what's the point??

2007-12-13 07:02:10 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I want to play one or two songs by Elvis Presley at the wedding. But Love me tender is too slow, while Can't help falling in love's lyrics are not really inspiring.

Can you suggest some titles?

2007-12-13 07:01:28 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-12-13 06:58:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mum has been supportive towards me, but she's very immature, everytime she comes back from working (she works evenings/nights) she smashes and bangs things around, whilst i'm upstairs and shouts and verbally bashes me calling me selfish and blah blah blah, she only does this when she comes back from work, I'm sick of it...she's 37 and i'm 17...I really want to move out and I don't want to get that old and be so hateful, I hate thinking about her life and I don't want to end up like her, I just wanna enjoy my life, have fun and succeed then die happy and young. I'm sick of her!!!! Opinions??

2007-12-13 06:58:24 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hes been playing games with taking 52 days off from work in 05,in 06 the maritial relationship was burreling down the tubes-in 07 august-he claims voices and rats then recants-now after reading an article in the paper today his mom tells him honey i think this is what you had as a child only i didnt know.The divorce papers are to be deleivered tomorrow-and there isnt even one ounce left inside of me due to the nature of his lies,stealing,cheating and just plain meaness how wrong i was you think you would know someone but the last years have been torment and the last foour months terror-he's thrives in keeping me in fear-he has been caught following me to the store,stealing money from my purse and our seven year old piggy bank-and now he wants to claim its because of aspergers-not to mention that this dx was recent for our seven year old and hes having challenges-the to be ex wants to use this as a crutch what to be forgiven-does anyone understand this?can anyone help?

2007-12-13 06:57:24 · 9 answers · asked by resigned 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband recently told me that he thinks my little brother might be using cocaine. He said the past few days he's seen him, he's been acting pretty weird and that he sweats a lot and it's not even hot. Is that a sign that someone is using cocaine? sweating? Then I was at my mom's house yesterday and she said it was weird that my little brother, well actually he's 17 but he's still my lil brother, that he went straight to sleep, he's usually hungry like a wolf when he gets home. I know that stuff keeps you up all night. I hope this isn't true, my parents are already stressing with my other brother, they don't need more woes, so i'm kinda of hesitant to mention it to my mom. What are the signs?

2007-12-13 06:57:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The wedding is in June and I'm planning on sending out Invitations at the end of march or beginning of April. How soon is too son to register at stores like target? I have a lot going on in the 3 months leading up to the wedding, so I am wondering if it would be better to get it out of the way as soon as possible?

2007-12-13 06:56:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-12-13 06:54:56 · 7 answers · asked by Emma M 2 in Friends

do u think its ok to invite one of ur old fiancee's friend to the wedding? she is a friend he had before he knew me i always thought they had something going on .. so i started to dislike her .. they never had nothing going on they just had a good friend ship.. i still dont like her and he wanted to invite her to the wedding knowing i cant stand her and have tried to kick her *** a few times what do u guys think ?would u invite that old friend of his to the wedding knowing u cant stand her? and he knowes u cant stand her

2007-12-13 06:54:09 · 7 answers · asked by jessyka_g 2 in Weddings