do u think its ok to invite one of ur old fiancee's friend to the wedding? she is a friend he had before he knew me i always thought they had something going on .. so i started to dislike her .. they never had nothing going on they just had a good friend ship.. i still dont like her and he wanted to invite her to the wedding knowing i cant stand her and have tried to kick her *** a few times what do u guys think ?would u invite that old friend of his to the wedding knowing u cant stand her? and he knowes u cant stand her
2007-12-13 06:54:09 · 7 answers · asked by jessyka_g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I have that same problem.
Except she was an ex, but they only dated for like 6 months 9 years ago! But this chick is still madly in love with my fiance she used to ring all hours of the night and it just pisses me off. I'm not a jealous person but she treats him like crap and is just irritating so now, I dont like her. I told him I didn't want her at our wedding (we had our first fight over this) I said she can come to our engagement party and if I feel comfortable after that I may let you invite her to the wedding. Anyway, she didn't RSVP to our engagement party and I made to rule, no RSVP to engagement party no Invite to the wedding. So i'm saved.
I guess you have to comprimise a little. If she is a really good friend of your fiances then yes, you should invite her. Put AND GUEST so she feels forced to bring a date, this way she wont be salivating all over your fiance during the night. Its really not a big deal, don't have an argument over something silly like this. On the day you wont really give a damn that shes there anyway. He should also consider your feelings but I found with my situation - mine couldn't understand how I felt because he saw no problem at all because he loves ME not her.
2007-12-13 07:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you have more issues going on if you're fighting over something like this. The question is, why does he want to invite her if you don't like her? You need to decide together on who to invite. Just the wording of your question makes me wonder if perhaps you should wait a few more years to get married so you AND your fiance can do some growing up.
2007-12-13 15:03:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jennies 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
How would YOU feel if he told you "I can't stand your friend, don't invite her/him to the wedding"?
Put yourself in his situation. How would you REALLY feel if he said that to you?
It IS his wedding day as well.
If you wouldn't mind not inviting someone that your fiance hates, then go ahead and make your plea to him to not invite the friend you can't stand.
2007-12-14 07:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by Terri 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know what you mean!! Oh my gosh, my boyfriend has this friend who I CAN NOT stand because she's too lovey dovey with him and he was too before we got real serious. Still I think that if its your wedding day you should invite her. Shove it in her face that he loves YOU and married YOU! Be normal, dont over react. That might make him think you're to overly jealous. :)
2007-12-13 15:03:13 · answer #4 · answered by Mrs. Kitty♥ 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Well, I think you are being overly jealous for nothing if you know they never had anything going on. But, I think if it's going to upset you that much, you just shouldn't invite her.
2007-12-13 14:59:52 · answer #5 · answered by Deanrijo 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If her being there is going to make you uncomfortable, tell him that. Tell him you don't want her there. If he loves you (which obviously he does or I doubt ya'll would be getting married) He'll understand.
2007-12-13 15:01:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
don't invite her
2007-12-13 14:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by lovebug2052 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋