Family & Relationships - 13 December 2007

What is it that would really get a woman to think about having relations? I know that for men, it only takes a peek of naked woman or sexy undies, but what about women? What gets you gals motor running?

2007-12-13 08:31:16 · 12 answers · asked by Nunya B 3 in Marriage & Divorce

by your GF or BF

Been dumped twice
Dumped somebody else twice

I have a friend that is 0 for 5 (been dumped 5 times).

Have you been dumped?

2007-12-13 08:30:01 · 16 answers · asked by Fred 3 in Singles & Dating

So I have been hanging with a girl that I like for around 6 months now. Sometimes we spent everyday together for weeks straight. I told her how I felt and she told me she had feelings for me , but there are some things in her life she has to correct before she can commit. I understood that and I gave her a hug and let it be. Recently I found out she has been in contact with her ex boyfriend ,but every time they talk they end up arguing. I came to conclusion that her problems were with her ex and she had to figure them out before she moved on. She always tells me she is confused and I can tell but she never will tell me whats wrong. A friend of hers wrote me in a christmas card that there are many problems between them and she doesn't foresee a future. She told me to be patient and she will come to me with a loving heart. I am as confused as anyone now. What should I do. I have such strong feelings for her and its so hard being patient especially if I am #2 right now. Looking for advice

2007-12-13 08:29:47 · 15 answers · asked by Tix 2 in Singles & Dating

How dare he even conversate with me. I HATE talking to him and I cannot stand him either. This statement is coming from a man who for years I cried to, pleaded with and tried to communicate with about anything...and when I talk to him would ignore or not even acknowledge me by not even looking at me when I am talking or turned his back. I resent now he has the nerve to even SAY THIS. Funny the one thing he swore he would NEVER do is what he thinks he should receive from me. I laugh. Is this muthaf***** serious? I find it ironic. I make a point to treat him the same like I did before. I actually learned this method of ignoring or being ignorant from him......why is he mad now he created a monster and getting the same treatment he so many years dished out to me?

2007-12-13 08:28:03 · 10 answers · asked by new life abundant 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so ive been dating this guy on and off for about 2 years...he's head over heels in love with me and my best friend.....lately we've been a little rocky but the last note we ended on was fine...then the next day he didnt call ro text or talk to me like he always does, eveyrtime im around he grabs anohter girl and flirts with her....whats up with this?! what can i do to make him stop!? im not going to call him first becuase im too stubborn and annoyed he's being immature and palying this game what can i do back?

2007-12-13 08:27:26 · 17 answers · asked by Lon 2 in Singles & Dating

Im in 9th grade and my boyfriend is in 10th. I love him to death. When we've been making out lately, hes been getting kinda "happy". i know he wants to have sex but i dont. he hasnt been pushing me to have sex tho. i want to know how do i have fun making out with him but him not getting as "happy". wat do i do?

2007-12-13 08:27:26 · 64 answers · asked by *GinnyG* 1 in Singles & Dating

But now i dont desire it one bit it makes me sick ever thinkin about it i have told him no a million times but he want leave it alone what should i do

2007-12-13 08:27:02 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

help

2007-12-13 08:26:12 · 3 answers · asked by angel004 1 in Family

Ok well there’s this girl I have a crush on. We have been friends for a few years now and I have had a little thing for her for a while. But lately I have found myself thinking about her more and more. We flirt in the classes we have together and we flirt a little in the halls between classes. I had a close friend of mine who is a close friend of hers to ask her if she liked me as more then a friend and she said she didn’t. Should I just leave our relationship as it is or try for more? And how can I show her I like her other then flirting because I thinks she thinks we just flirt because its fun but I wana show her how I really feel without just telling her. So any suggestions? Girls what do guys do to show you they like you? And if you like them as a friend would you give them a shot even if you don’t have feelings for them yet?

2007-12-13 08:25:50 · 8 answers · asked by palmerguy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-13 08:24:58 · 4 answers · asked by Alexa 2 in Singles & Dating

we have just been married 3 mos now & already having serious issues i found him tellin another girl "i love you" and found the lyrics crashed by chris daughtry sent to another. now im not sure what to do..save my marriage or divorce? i cant get over it.it hurts so bad the song was to A FRIEND of mine even?! help me.. im lost.. i dont want too loose him but im going insane. i got stress out the a$$ and everything. i dont want my son to loose his daddy but, i dont know wat to do!
save or leave?!
HELP

2007-12-13 08:24:36 · 60 answers · asked by ~*Wonderin*~ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

But I told him that I would only if he votes for Obama. He said I'm being too kinky for my own good.

I don't know what to do?

2007-12-13 08:24:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he had dropped me off back home and walked back to his dads and got beat up by 2 guys. Hes now at his step moms shivering and crying and dont make any stupid remarks about that. I dont know how to calm down, i tried on several occasions to get to him but my mum stopped me
im going to see him at dinner tomorrow but what can i do for him??

2007-12-13 08:23:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need help. My friend broke up with my boyfriend for me cause i said i might break up with him. i was just really tired that nite n had no clue what I was saying. Now shes together with him n he thinks i wanted to break up with him so he wont get back together with me. My ex-friend is going through a hard time rite now n if i m mad at her and yell at her, she she will tell on me. (shes really stupid in that way.) What do I do?

2007-12-13 08:23:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I hv been w/ my b/f for 4 yrs. I'm a single mom & I don't collect child spprt from my dau dad. I have a good job but with daycare, rent, bills, car payment, I'm pretty limited. My b/f on the other hand has a lot of money, he has a big 5 bdrm house in an upper class neighborhood, he drives a BMW & owns 2 othr cars, he has a condo in vegas. He's finacially well off. I don't expect him to pay my blls but smtimes he see's that I'm struggling finacially & he never offers to help me out. On the otherhand, whenever I have money I am splendid w/him & buy him things,I do everything for him, I cook, go clean his house, iron his clothes, buy his kids things when I have extra money, last year for x-mas I bght him a $100 gift and he didn't give me anythng. I didn't really mind, but this year for x-mas he asked me how much I was spending on his gift so that he can but me smthing of equal value, why shld that matter? if I had more money, I wld buy him smthng nice regrdlss of wht he cld affrd 2 buy me

2007-12-13 08:18:19 · 20 answers · asked by lisame 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 08:16:58 · 41 answers · asked by pimp 2 in Family

1 What profession are you both in?
2 How long did you date prior to marriage?
3 First marriage?
4 What age were you both at the time of marriage?
5 How many years of marriage?
6 Happily married?

Please share your story and write as much as you like.

Thank you

Fine Print: Do not insult me. I will not accept it. This is just a question.

2007-12-13 08:14:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 08:13:23 · 5 answers · asked by TopGun 1 in Singles & Dating

How come none of the right guys ever like me? It's always the boring 'safe' ones. It's never exciting! What can I do to get more spontaneous, dramatic, silly guys to notice me?

2007-12-13 08:11:51 · 22 answers · asked by Brinna S 1 in Singles & Dating

theres a women who was found in a park nr me sunday night , shes a mum and wife and its uposetting for the family now and i think they will always now be the family who lost there mum in that way.

2007-12-13 08:11:40 · 14 answers · asked by starcp76 3 in Family

if you smoke, would you rather date someone who also smokes...or a nonsmoker?...or do you have no peference?

If you don't smoke, would you ever consider dating a smoker?

And also, if you date a nonsmoker, would you smoke around them?

2007-12-13 08:11:30 · 12 answers · asked by Bumble Bee 1 in Singles & Dating

I DONT HAVE ONE NOW BUT THE LAST ONE WAS MY MR.SLEEPY AKA ALEX V

2007-12-13 08:10:53 · 19 answers · asked by ♥La Dulce Chica♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

after 3 yrs of being far from the person i love, i am finally with him. we r planning to get married. We both study in universities at grad level. Since our universities r close to each other, i come every day to work with him in his uni. I am not wanting to have friends coz i dont want them to take me from him. i just want to be with him. Since there isnt anything official between us yet, i sometimes feel bad that people always see me with him(due to cultural and religious reasons). i do tell my friends that we r gonna get engaged next yr.however i dont want to have a bad reputation..
do u think that i should stop meeting him everyday at his uni and be less frequent in seeing him? we usually study together in his office at his uni..

2007-12-13 08:09:48 · 5 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 08:08:33 · 64 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-13 08:08:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Understand that my birthday is on Friday, another cousin's (Jill) is on Sunday and my aunt's birthday is on Monday.

So plans made 2 months ago to go to dinner and a movie (all of us) on Friday night . My aunt and I go out of town for Saturday and Sunday (just us).

As of yesterday, cousin Mary (had her night out in October) says she has to attend her company Christmas party on Friday night. Her daughter is in a school play tonight. She wants to move the dinner to after the school play so that she can come (this means her parents pay for her dinner out). She called her sister who said they could not come if it was on a week night due to kid's tests in school the next day.

Then they decided to have another dinner out for Jill (who's birthday is Sunday) on Saturday night. This totally blows the weekend away out of the water. My aunt and I have wanted to do the weekend away for 2 years now.

Am I right to feel frustrated? What happened to MY birthday?

2007-12-13 08:05:03 · 10 answers · asked by msbettyboop40 4 in Family

I bought my thirteen year old cousin a PS2 a month ago as an incentive to having good behavior in school. (I bought it with my return check from college and when his mother got her taxes back next February, she would pay me back for it.)

The rules were:
1)His grades had to stay above an 85,
2)He could not get suspended,
3)His homework had to be completed every single night. I made absolutely certain that he understood these rules completely - more than once! - and he assured me that he did. If any of these things failed to happen, there would be consequences for his actions. For instance, with #1, he would lose the PS2 until his grades came up, #2, he would lose the PS2 for double the amount of time he was suspended for, and #3, he had to complete his homework before being able to play the PS2.

Recently, he was suspended twice from school as well as received an F in English / Language Arts. Both times I let the rules slide. They attended a hearing this morning for his school adm. to vote on whether or not he should attend Warlick ("an alternative school for troublemakers") due to his bad behavior.

I followed the rules I'd set and took his PS2 away until Friday since he was suspended for one day on Wednesday. But his mother refused to follow the rules b/c my cousin had cried at his Warlick hearing this morning! She refused to let me keep the PS2 until Friday because she felt sorry for Matthew and since she was “paying me back for the game system, then it was already hers and she could take it away and let him have it as she sees fit.” But she hasn't given me any money yet, therefore, it is technically still up to me, isn't it?

Matthew doesn't receive punishment for his actions and I am trying to enforce that around here to the best of my ability. Is that wrong? I mean I know I am not his mother but his mother isn't one either! Every time Matthew does something that he knows he shouldn't do and something that he knows is wrong and will get him into trouble, she makes excuses for him and goes blind the faults he makes. I know that no one is perfect but when I was growing up I was punished for the things that I did wrong. Shouldn't he be as well? I live with them and I am here all day everyday – no job yet (help!), recently finished school – and Matthew has no chores, he watches television (satellite/Direct TV), plays on his Gamecube and PS2 for hours at a time, plays on the Internet for hours at a time, goes out and rides his bike without telling anyone where he is going, when he leaves, or when he'll be back. His room is a filthy disgusting mess, he refuses to clean up after or even feed his dogs, and pitches the fit and temper tantrum when we ask him at least take out the trash! It's ridiculous!

Am I being to hard on him for taking the PS2 away, even though his mother made me return it to him? Am I really acting way too much like his mother instead of his cousin? Was I right to stick by my word and take it in the first place, if only just to prove that I was serious about the punishment?

2007-12-13 08:04:37 · 7 answers · asked by Shelly 3 in Family

He was very religious and I was supprised at him and his whife going, anyway the next day I asked him how he got on, He said it was great, I then asked him how is whife liked it and he said he didn't know as he hasn't seen her since last night after he swapped her for two camals and a goat

2007-12-13 08:03:23 · 18 answers · asked by wuz 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Just out of curiosity...I was wondering if you've ever met a man who is smart AND really attractive.
If you have, what made him attractive and in what ways was he smart?
And men, if you happen to be reading this question feel free to weigh in! Do you consider yourself to be smart as well as incredibly attractive? What features support that idea?
Cheers!

2007-12-13 08:02:38 · 6 answers · asked by YSIC 7 in Singles & Dating

My live in boyfriend of a year has stopped caring about the little things. Like he forgets to call me after I called him hours ago. He always asks me to do little things for him, like starting the laundry, walking his dog, picking up dinner. But he always seems to not think of me when I need something. Sometimes, I would be out and I would see something that he would like (inexpensive) and buy just because I like to see the smile on his face. Now he only thinks about hanging out with his friends and football and poker get togethers. Guys, what should I do? I am crying as I type this........ :(

2007-12-13 08:00:57 · 24 answers · asked by Mary 1 in Singles & Dating