I need help. My friend broke up with my boyfriend for me cause i said i might break up with him. i was just really tired that nite n had no clue what I was saying. Now shes together with him n he thinks i wanted to break up with him so he wont get back together with me. My ex-friend is going through a hard time rite now n if i m mad at her and yell at her, she she will tell on me. (shes really stupid in that way.) What do I do?
2007-12-13 08:23:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds lyk she's not much of a friend to me. i mean what friend breaks up with her friend's boyfriend then goes out with him. sounds lyk she was just waiting for the opportunity for yall to break up b/c she wanted him all along.
2007-12-13 08:30:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, then they are both stupid. How deep can your relationship have been if in one friggen night, your BF (a) accepts 2nd-hand info from someone else that you wanted to break up and (b) then immediately forms a deep attachment to that same bearer of 2nd hand information??? Now, you DO call the girl your "ex-friend", which shows you have the judgment to realize this person is not your friend, but why would you waste the time and breath to even yell at her? And to "tell on you??"" - who to, and why would it matter? They deserve each other! Why would you want to get back with him, he is clearly as dumb as a box of rocks.
What you should do, is be careful next time who you talk to about your relationships, because sometimes your friends are not really friends. If you keep your own counsel, and think thinks out on your own a bit more (or ask us, LOL), you won't put yourself in this position again. And by the way, if you really WERE, in fact, "totally in love with him", why would you be yapping to someone about dumping him, no matter how tired you were? I have to say, you sound very young and prolly not really ready for a relationship, as do your friends.
2007-12-13 16:35:35 · answer #2 · answered by eldots53 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should go for what you love but, subtely. You should'nt yell at your ex-friend, rather, come closer to both her and your love, for before you know it, your meekness would have restored your man to you in a stronger love band. However, it requires a long term patient. Good luck!
2007-12-13 16:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by LIVINUS UGWUOKE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I think that you should get rid of, and forget about the both of them. You know that that man is not worth your time, and neither is your fake friend if she is going to go and mess with your ex after she is the one who broke up with him for you.
2007-12-13 16:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by Lizzy! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just remove myself from the situation completely which means you forget them, they are not worth your time. Love comes again
2007-12-13 16:28:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOthing. Sounds like you just need to be happy for them. You never suppose to trust your friends especially when it comes to your bf
2007-12-13 16:26:17 · answer #6 · answered by ?? yaddajean ?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
little kid games can get you into stupid situations!
2007-12-13 16:27:24 · answer #7 · answered by notyochic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋