so ive been dating this guy on and off for about 2 years...he's head over heels in love with me and my best friend.....lately we've been a little rocky but the last note we ended on was fine...then the next day he didnt call ro text or talk to me like he always does, eveyrtime im around he grabs anohter girl and flirts with her....whats up with this?! what can i do to make him stop!? im not going to call him first becuase im too stubborn and annoyed he's being immature and palying this game what can i do back?
2007-12-13 08:27:26 · 17 answers · asked by Lon 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all get over the delusion that he is "head over heels in love" with you. HE ISN"T. Maybe he is trying to tell you to buzz off politely. Maybe he is trying to tell you it is over. The only person who really know is the guy. So why are you here making us listen to your one sided opinion. What is his side. I do know a novel way of finding out what is going on. It is very complex and you will have to follow directions very carefully.
FIRST.......ASK HIM
SECOND.......Listen
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2007-12-13 08:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by ttpawpaw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe u should break up with him and then see what he does. If he really loves u then he will come back to u like a love sick little puppy and if he doesnt come back to u or try and get u back then he must not love you and maybe it is time to move on.
2007-12-13 16:32:59 · answer #2 · answered by cmbrooke94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's more than obvious that he is trying to make you jealous. He is expecting from you to break and call him saying that you want to settle back with him. He made his move, and now it's your turn. If you want to get back together with him, just tell him so. But if you want to remain friends with him, you have to be strong and pretend that you don't care, and he will soon realize that.
2007-12-13 16:36:21 · answer #3 · answered by Aca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should concentrate on yourself. You need to grow up, get a handle on your emotions, impulses and direction in life. You are listless. You have limited goals.
2007-12-13 16:31:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
a. good, don't call him! wait it out! he'll prolly call!
b. im guessing if he's acting like this, he's not in love. sorry!
c. in love with you AND your best friend? is that what i just read? okay--warning! warning! that should tip you off that he is a problem!!! go find someone better. you'll live without him. promise!
2007-12-13 16:30:36 · answer #5 · answered by cappucinomix88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this relationship has run it's course and instead of being mature enough to tell you, he's trying to get you to break up with him.
Let him go.
2007-12-13 16:30:43 · answer #6 · answered by nite_angelica 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy really loved you he wouldn't be drabbing others girls and he would have already called you. I think you should move on. If you wants to see if he cares don't call him.
2007-12-13 16:32:05 · answer #7 · answered by jesscat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is cheating on uuuuuuuu. but if he isint talk 2 him
2007-12-13 16:30:56 · answer #8 · answered by elisa l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm. qeniousz
he obviously DOES NOT
love you
so how about u ***** move on
yeah qood idea riqht
2007-12-13 16:29:37 · answer #9 · answered by przfukenstar 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
flirt witha boy and make him jelous
2007-12-13 16:31:45 · answer #10 · answered by G-rob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋