How come none of the right guys ever like me? It's always the boring 'safe' ones. It's never exciting! What can I do to get more spontaneous, dramatic, silly guys to notice me?
2007-12-13 08:11:51 · 22 answers · asked by Brinna S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, let me explain a bit better.
Boring 'safe' guys as in guys who just like to sit and talk, don't have much of their own opinion, shy that kinda stuff.
Dramatic exciting guys as in a guy who could run around outside and play hide and seek with you and have tickle fights then 10 minutes later be having an intelligent conversation while washing his socks or something! Not like a 'bad boy' or anything but more crazy and fun.
2007-12-13 09:02:56 · update #1
Dress like it. Act like it. Adopt the style. You're being to conservative.
2007-12-13 08:14:04 · answer #1 · answered by Sarrafzedehkhoee 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Drama, Silly, spontaneous= Irresponsible, Emotionally challenged, and maybe an addict of some sort (women, sex, drugs, liquor, you... etc)
Safe, boring=SEND MY WAY
I have spent my whole life dating the "fun romantic smoothe and playful" and heartache, heartbreak, disappointment, and regret is what I seem to have gotten. Those safe guys start looking really great after one of those spontaneous guys spontaneously starts calling other girls, or spontaneously starts lying for no reason, or causes drama at your workplace and stalks you and cries at your window..... BEWARE is all I'm saying.
2007-12-13 08:18:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Careful what you ask for!
The adrenaline junkies are interesting for a while, but they tend to be mercurial and can be hard to get along with.
Go for the smart, funny, curious ones. Then you've got someone you can talk to, and explain what it is you're wanting. A bright guy will try to be accomodating and work with you on adding excitement to your life.
2007-12-13 08:14:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well are you spontaneous ect.
well all ikknow if guys are REALLY attracted to confidence.
so party guys ( fun/exciting) will like someone who is equaly as partyful.( if that makes sense)
those tpyes of guys wouldn't really be attracted to boring people now would they
2007-12-13 08:16:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
*Holds chin in a thinking way* nicely you ask this interior the Lesbians, gay, Bisexual & Transgender area i won't be able to think of why men here could be attracted and decide to get blown by way of a guy...
2016-12-17 17:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by ciprian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop a few pounds if your a chuck....or maybe you need to quit being so boring and safe....Guys will go after pretty much anything unless your just a shrew....
2007-12-13 08:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
try joining a club.
Drama club!
haha.
there's usually some fun guys in those things.
my favorite are the really funny ones who make everything overdramatic.
2007-12-13 08:16:32 · answer #7 · answered by taylor [: 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy can be exciting if you let them. It depends what you consider exciting. Decide first what that is and then find people that have those same interests.
2007-12-13 08:15:34 · answer #8 · answered by calendargirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Exciting Guys ? or trouble makers or show offs
I understand boring is dull but what is your definition of exciting and could you end up doing something you shouldn't and in trouble. (Thats not exciting )
2007-12-13 08:15:29 · answer #9 · answered by Irishman D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you attract the type of person you want by becoming what you want. If you want more spontaneous, dramatic, silly guys, then be more spontaneous, dramatic and silly.
2007-12-13 08:15:08 · answer #10 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The boring guys will learn to kiss soon enough.
The girls who date the dramatics, silly guys, are the girls who end up pregnant or dead.
So stay with the safe guys.
2007-12-13 08:14:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋