What is it that would really get a woman to think about having relations? I know that for men, it only takes a peek of naked woman or sexy undies, but what about women? What gets you gals motor running?
2007-12-13 08:31:16 · 12 answers · asked by Nunya B 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's so odd how different men are from women. Men can be ignited so easily, I am sure most women can be too; its just harder for a man to understand this becauase some of us have difficulty understanding or appreciating the womans "ignitors". Let me apologize to all the "ladies" on behalf of my gender. Whores get used and treated as such and ladies, you get a raw deal too sometimes. Men just need to be reminded as kindly and often as possible what really works for you.
2007-12-13 09:11:32 · update #1
I was attracted to my husband for some of the things he did:
He was at church as often as I was
He prayed with his arm around his teenage son
He took notes from every sermon
I could tell that he was a little nervous the first few times he approached me.
I also liked the fact that he was tall, had amazing hands and looked good in a pair of jeans.
Now that we're married, I appreciate these same things and a few things more:
He takes care of me
He makes sure my car is in good running order
He loves our pets as much as I do
He takes an active interest in the things I'm interested in
He cooks for me periodically
He does the yard work and shares the housework and grocery shopping
He often tells and shows me that he loves me
These things ignite a desire in me to please him all kinds of ways!
2007-12-13 08:47:31 · answer #1 · answered by DJ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you would rather hear from a real lady rather than a, oh what do you call it, a money grubbing whore. I know that men aren't too keen on what makes a woman excited so I'm here to say...a little romance and little attention (look in her eyes and not at her boobs) goes a long way. A nice massage is a good way to let each other know if there is a chemistry between two people. Women want to be complimented and feel good about themselves before they will get naked with just anyone.
2007-12-13 16:45:41 · answer #2 · answered by Cleo 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
What gets my motor running? Its what happens out of the bedroom, how he treats me during the day, that makes the heat at night. If he's ignoring me, going into his "cave" and comes to me at night, I feel as cold as the arctic wind. If he comes home, gives me a cuddle and a kiss, says "How was your day?" and listens, then the fuse is lit for fireworks at night.
Most guys don't seem to get that, for a woman like myself, I have to feel appreciated, loved and not just desired, to feel sexy too. And I am sure I'm not the only one.
2007-12-13 16:41:29 · answer #3 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You mean like sexual relations with your significant other?
It doesn't take much. A smile can do it for me, it really depends on the mood and the setting. I can feel it all the time, but sometimes I wouldn't be able to act on it since we are not alone.
2007-12-13 16:38:13 · answer #4 · answered by Flower 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When he takes me in his arms and kisses me "that way" or nibbles my ear. I think that the most attracitve thing he can do is let me know he wants me and thinks I'm beautiful.
When he makes me feel safe and cared about-- hugs, holding... when he takes any excuse to touch me through out the day (hand on the knee, arm around me etc) then whenever he's ready, I am!
2007-12-13 16:42:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
The look between a man and woman and the body and then the action
2007-12-13 16:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by bluemist 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Passionate kissing!
2007-12-13 16:53:01 · answer #7 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just thinking about him, and how he makes me feel gets me going.
2007-12-13 16:36:37 · answer #8 · answered by Shannon29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, the thought of sex gets me going. He can call and say hello and instantly wet for me.
2007-12-13 16:35:50 · answer #9 · answered by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Laughing! I love a good laugh.
2007-12-13 16:35:48 · answer #10 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋