Family & Relationships - 13 December 2007

2007-12-13 08:55:47 · 16 answers · asked by scott 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I know I keep posting this, but I need to understand this guy in order to just let this go.

He is 25 - three yrs younger than me - still lives w/parents.
We dated for 4-5 mnths and when he lied to me about talking to his ex gf, I broke up with him. The NEXT DAY he got back together with her and told her he was in love with her.

I havent talked to him for 2 months until last night. I told him I knew he ran to her because he knew she would take him back. He told me he was too afraid of his feelings for me because he was so incredibly in love with me, that he took the cowards way out and strung her along. THEN he told me that he ended all contact with her two weeks ago because he could no longer lie to her about wanting her when he really was in love with me.

He knows I wont take him back, so he didnt have to tell me any of this. He said he cant get over this - he is too in love with me now. I saw the look in his eyes. I believe him - but its not that easy with me.

2007-12-13 08:55:29 · 36 answers · asked by L 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 08:54:24 · 28 answers · asked by dianadee17 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-13 08:53:55 · 3 answers · asked by I ♥ my boyfriend! 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Briefly explain why you are in the Yahoo Answers in the marriage/divorce answering or asking.

2007-12-13 08:53:41 · 16 answers · asked by heartsarebad 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 08:53:05 · 3 answers · asked by worrygirl 1 in Singles & Dating

My parents are allways goin on how it better it is now for kids blah blah .Whilst we,ve got to stay at school ,get good grades,have sarcastic teachers,and cant easily drop out.There is more pressure.I wanted to see if any one thinks its not like they make out so I can tell them not all older people think there way.

2007-12-13 08:52:48 · 12 answers · asked by Lilly A 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

when i first met my wife I found her georgous..the most beautiful thing I ever saw..she had a few self-esteem problems because of the way (others saw her) so she wasnt a size 5..she's what ppl called "fat" but I didn't care...I thought she was beautiful and I had to have her..after we got together and got married she used to tell me I made her feel like the person she always wanted to feel like..a beautiful person..now after two years I have ran into a delima...all of a sudden she started hating the way she looked...started going on binge diets where she would fast for a long time..2 and 3 days at a time. She wants to lose weight and wear makeup now...but that is not beautiful to me. I want her just the way she is...how can I change her mind? What have i done to make her self esteem drop again..? I want to be the best husband I can...but I dont want her to change anything...please some advice?

2007-12-13 08:52:03 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

in the email, the person admits their affair, and in another one brags about it. can this be used in court?

2007-12-13 08:50:14 · 9 answers · asked by cd. 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I walked passed this guy I don't really know and he put his foot out a tripped me purposely...i turned around and said did you just trip me? and he just looked away and right before i turned around again he turned and smiled..

I don't know this guy..never really talked to him...he's more like a friend of a friend...was he trying to flirt with me?

2007-12-13 08:49:49 · 19 answers · asked by cablecar 1 in Singles & Dating

physically attracted to?
We get along well, we have fun. He just does not rev my engine.

2007-12-13 08:49:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Her Uncle Butch has a Swastika tatoo on his arm and he is from Georgia. When she and I went to visit him he jokingly asked if I was a member of any Klan or wanted to join one. She later told me he is a member. Do I quit dating her??

2007-12-13 08:49:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Seriously!!!, how do 90 percent or more of all males learn and know how to talk to girls so easily?, it's like it's common sense for them, like an instinct. Well I have Asperger Syndrome, which is a main reason why I am not that social, whether it is with boys and girls, but I can still talk to boys better than girls. It's also like when all males enter puberty, they instantly already have game. Man, because there are even guys out there who don't have a car, who are fat and ugly and they are still able to pull the hottest girls. Seriously!!!, what do they have that I don't?, well I am not overweight or fat, I consider myself to be average looking, but man, how does every male out there get a girlfriend?, since almost every male out there has had one, they make it look like one of the easiest things to do in the world!!!, man, how come I never learned how to talk to girls earlier?, why was I born suffering anxiety around hot girls?, it's like all those other males were born not virgins

2007-12-13 08:49:39 · 4 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6 in Singles & Dating

Everything has to be perfect and if it isn't she doesn't consider just cleaning it up, she throws a fit. I'm going to her house for christmas with my new six week old baby girl and husband. How do i not step on her toes? I'm very careful and friendlly but it seems like she just sits around waiting for me to make a mistake.

2007-12-13 08:48:02 · 4 answers · asked by justkiddingu 2 in Family

ok so i was with my boy mate the other day and i said to him "Yeahhh i wanna get me tongue pierced but it'd be too sore! and i wana get a big tatoo on me ****..! only messing haha" it was a random conversation but any way he said

"i'd bang that fine ****"

i said "what?"

he said "what??!"

i said "what would you bang?"

he said "aw nothing.."

then i had to go what doed he mean band

2007-12-13 08:46:53 · 26 answers · asked by Lady Beth babee=) 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-13 08:44:33 · 5 answers · asked by snowbunny 1 in Singles & Dating

its really wierd she says she has like sharp pains in her side and even tho shes not supposta start her period For lik another 2 an a half weeks at random moments she bleeds does anybody have any clue on to whats happening to my girl friend..

2007-12-13 08:43:47 · 8 answers · asked by KYLE F 1 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever been satisfied with yourself and then so happy and your life finally starts to come together with someone...you start your family, you love, you share-through the good and bad, and then realize that the person you are with is a prolonged liar, a phony, and not the person who you thought she/he was at all?
Now it is too late, you have a child, you are dependent, what do you do?

2007-12-13 08:41:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Like I say stuff emotional and they just are like "ok." .. um say emotional stuff back I say to myself. But no. He touches me instead. When are guys ever emotional?

2007-12-13 08:40:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What age should someone have there first "real" boyfriend?

2007-12-13 08:40:53 · 39 answers · asked by Eva 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-13 08:39:33 · 11 answers · asked by morgan 1 in Singles & Dating

This guy tries to touch my boobs. But I reallllyyy like him =\

Like we talk alot. He flirts alot too =] But sometimes he tries to touch my boobs.Not grab them but just touch.And I dont even have big boobs. lol

Does he like me? Or does he just want to get in my pants? Also,,when he's around me his whole personality changes. He gets really shy and serious. Whyy?

2007-12-13 08:39:28 · 27 answers · asked by iLoveHim70 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a sapphire engagment ring I was wondering with the cleaning through out the years and general wear and tear will it loose it's luster over time or need to be replaced
I clean it every other day with dtuff the jewler gave me.

I have a natural sappphire un treated.

2007-12-13 08:36:33 · 8 answers · asked by la de da 3 in Weddings

my husbands brother has had nothing to do with our family or his own family since our son was born. His wife seems to be upset that we had a boy.She sends a card to my husbands work in a brown envelope with no names on it just the last name, inside it is not labled with names just says have a great holiday. There is also a gift certificate for our son but not for our daughter in it..do we just send the card back? Any suggestions???

2007-12-13 08:36:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

would you go out with somone who has high sel esteem but does not respect others ..or with somone who has low self esteem but respects others more than himself..explain please

2007-12-13 08:34:51 · 11 answers · asked by jhonythe2nd1 1 in Singles & Dating

He said I am very closed minded, and people are having open marriages all the time. I do love him, but these are totally against my vows, morals, beliefs, and worse of all, the truth that I want to raise my kids in. I can stand a lot, but this is too much. How should I handle this situation? He already cheated last Thursday, and is going to continue to do so w/several, it's like a sport to him. I am sooooo afraid of STD's...crazy women that may follow him home. The image I am showing my kids. I have 3 and I know it's going to be hard to be a single mom, but I don't know what else. I did think of staying, but don't think I have enough strength to do so. Please help

2007-12-13 08:34:19 · 74 answers · asked by sassy lady 4 in Marriage & Divorce

im starting to go bald and have to shave my hair and i dont like it , so do you think its just to save hurting your feelings

2007-12-13 08:33:31 · 15 answers · asked by starcp76 3 in Singles & Dating

hi.

i recently hav gotten to 'know' a girl. and recently she just told she 'likes me', and i told her i like her too. (nice!!!!!!)
the thing is, and its stupid on our part too, is that a lot of our ''conversation'' has been on MSN...not 'much' in person and now everytime we do meet in person, there's this slight awkwardness, and we kinda go all quiet ( you know what i mean), i just really dont want this to happen, as maybe we can take it further than just friendship. i dont see her A LOT, at college, we're not in the same class, but we have breaks and stuff. and i would love to hang out out of school aswell with her (and she told me so does she), its just that neither one of us has had much experience with relationships, and im not sure how to go about it exactly...

and advice/ info would be much appreciated.

thanks!!!

P.S. we still young...in college

2007-12-13 08:32:20 · 5 answers · asked by bass player 4 in Singles & Dating

guys and girls could help i like both opinions

2007-12-13 08:31:46 · 13 answers · asked by ILY! ;) 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it an ego thing?

2007-12-13 08:31:41 · 9 answers · asked by JuDyLicious 3 in Singles & Dating