why and how are people born with shyness?, how does almost every male out there get a girlfriend so easily?

Question

Seriously!!!, how do 90 percent or more of all males learn and know how to talk to girls so easily?, it's like it's common sense for them, like an instinct. Well I have Asperger Syndrome, which is a main reason why I am not that social, whether it is with boys and girls, but I can still talk to boys better than girls. It's also like when all males enter puberty, they instantly already have game. Man, because there are even guys out there who don't have a car, who are fat and ugly and they are still able to pull the hottest girls. Seriously!!!, what do they have that I don't?, well I am not overweight or fat, I consider myself to be average looking, but man, how does every male out there get a girlfriend?, since almost every male out there has had one, they make it look like one of the easiest things to do in the world!!!, man, how come I never learned how to talk to girls earlier?, why was I born suffering anxiety around hot girls?, it's like all those other males were born not virgins

I'm sure it's not all about money, males from all ranges of income are able to pull hot chicks, but man, it's so frustrating!!!!. I am almost 20 and have never had a girlfriend, still a virgin, prostitutes do not count for me. I am more pissed that I have not had a girlfriend or dated than have had sex, because there more people out there who have had boyfriends/girlfriends and dated then have had sex, plus there are people who save their virginity for marriage. So never having a girlfriend and being almost 20, that is totally not normal.

Answer 1

Shyness is a learned self-pre-occupation.
The good news is, that it can be unlearned.
Just as many girls are shy too, by the way.

Join some clubs or groups for after-school activities.
Get to know girls as people with shared interests.

Answer 2

Just have sex, and the woemn will come like flies to honey.

Answer 3

Cold hard cash bro

Answer 4

money money money