im hopeless and clueless....awkward!!!?

Question

hi.

i recently hav gotten to 'know' a girl. and recently she just told she 'likes me', and i told her i like her too. (nice!!!!!!)
the thing is, and its stupid on our part too, is that a lot of our ''conversation'' has been on MSN...not 'much' in person and now everytime we do meet in person, there's this slight awkwardness, and we kinda go all quiet ( you know what i mean), i just really dont want this to happen, as maybe we can take it further than just friendship. i dont see her A LOT, at college, we're not in the same class, but we have breaks and stuff. and i would love to hang out out of school aswell with her (and she told me so does she), its just that neither one of us has had much experience with relationships, and im not sure how to go about it exactly...

and advice/ info would be much appreciated.

thanks!!!

P.S. we still young...in college

Answer 1

Start small. If you're afraid you won't be able to talk with her, see a movie. Not much talking involved but you'd still be together.

Bonus: see a movie then have lunch/dessert afterwards. Talk about the movie. Pay attention to what she says. Compliment her.

Try not to think of her as "a girl you want to date". Think of her as "a good friend." You don't have trouble talking to your friends, right? So think of her like a friend. Tell her about your day, ask her about hers, talk about your classes or sports or current events or movies or books - anything you have in common. It's easier than you think!

Answer 2

Find out what she likes.Could be a band or something similar and take her to see them,or ask her what films she likes and take her to the cinema.That way you both have something to talk about when the film has finished.
The trouble with msn is that people have lost the art of face to face conversation.Its a safe way of talking to someone without getting embarrassed if you say something stupid and you tend to say things that you normally wouldn't face to face.
Buy her a Xmas present.It could be something as simple as a single red rose in a box or a teddy.
The main thing you both have to do is be yourselves and after a while when you get to know each other a little better the awkwardness will subside.
The other thing is to ask her for her telephone number so you can text her more frequently that you would with msn.

Answer 3

Talking over msn is easy. I can talk for days about anything. Though in person I can never think of a thing to say, and I am 29!

Why not talk to her on msn, and just fone her more rather than meeting up. Even it is is just a 5 second call to say goodnight to her. It is not the length of the call which is important.

Msn - fone calls - going out. thats the order I would do things in. Once you get used to actually talking to her, then once you go out together then it will be a lot easier.

I did not speak to me girlfriend much for about 2 years! We just used to kiss and cuddle and talk lots on msn. We just liked to have some quiet time together after a long hard day of chatting on msn!

There is no law which says you have to talk to each other in person. cuddle up, watch a film.. it is quality time together, talking is not compulsory.

Sometimes I would rather be quiet and just cuddle than talk for hours. A smile can say more than a 1,000 words!

Answer 4

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Answer 5

its ok u both seem a little shy so just take it slowly and take her 4 a walk or cinema and then take it from there it will work slowly slowy