Ok well there’s this girl I have a crush on. We have been friends for a few years now and I have had a little thing for her for a while. But lately I have found myself thinking about her more and more. We flirt in the classes we have together and we flirt a little in the halls between classes. I had a close friend of mine who is a close friend of hers to ask her if she liked me as more then a friend and she said she didn’t. Should I just leave our relationship as it is or try for more? And how can I show her I like her other then flirting because I thinks she thinks we just flirt because its fun but I wana show her how I really feel without just telling her. So any suggestions? Girls what do guys do to show you they like you? And if you like them as a friend would you give them a shot even if you don’t have feelings for them yet?
2007-12-13 08:25:50 · 8 answers · asked by palmerguy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh we are both juniors in high school. And we go to a small school its 8-12 and we have about 600 kids. And i actually dont think she has ever had a real boyfriend.
2007-12-13 08:39:40 · update #1
i kinda know how u feel. been there before. heres wat u do.
-write her note with little hints in them that u like her as more than a friend.
-if yall hug, give her really big hugs.
-tickle her when and if u can
-if she doesnt put all that together then all i can tell u to do is to write her a note saying how u feel.
-if i were her, i would want a guy to tell me straight to my face. but if ur shy i would tell her in a note.
i hope i helped.hope it goes well.
~redneck chick~
2007-12-13 08:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by *GinnyG* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having been a teenage girl not so long ago, i know that alot of times when a girls friend asks her that question, she always says no. There's alot of pressure on girls when their that age, and are just starting to like guys. Most girls are afraid of that friend telling somone, or making fun of them. If shes spending all this time with you, and flirting, it's obvious she does in fact like you, but it too shy to say anything. My advice to you, is to find a time when its just the two of you, even if its passing in the hall after lunch, and tell her how you feel. Before its too late!
2007-12-13 16:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by ashharvey666 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really feel strongly about this girl then go for it!! I mean ask her out whats the worst that could happen...she might say no, but if you two are flirting then the chances are she'll probably say yes!
2007-12-13 16:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by sketchypotter 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from my personal experence with these kinds of crushes is just leave it for a while and if it seems like shes more into you than say something but if you do make sure you say that it wont affect your friendship at all! thats not something you want to lose.
2007-12-13 16:30:12 · answer #4 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this i a tough call man.. cuz you dont wanna lose her if things dont work out.. id say go for it.. she obviously has a good time kickin it wit u. let her know whats up one of these days..
(you miss 100% of the shots you dont take)
good luck bro..peace
2007-12-13 16:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by antoine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out on a date--to the movies or bowling. Have a good time.
2007-12-13 16:43:52 · answer #6 · answered by Ace Librarian 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. All she's going to do is say yes or no. If she says no then there are tons of othe girls. good luck.
2007-12-13 16:30:41 · answer #7 · answered by b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use your name and stick to using your palm.
2007-12-13 16:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋