Family & Relationships - 13 December 2007

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2007-12-13 06:53:27 · 28 answers · asked by liz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been married for over a year now, we have known each other for 10 years. He is really into his work and is always working! ( he is in Realesate) He is always on his phone even when we go out to dinner. it drives me crazy!! Sometimes I think he cares more about his work than his family. I have met other guys before and developed friendships with them, but haven't cheated or anything. I feel like I can talk to these other people and not to him. I am afraid that I might cheat cause he is never there for me or anything. I am not sure what to do. I don't want to get a divorce or anything but I am not sure if I can deal with this any longer or that I might met someone else that I am happier with. What should I do?

2007-12-13 06:53:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i have myspace. my dad doesnt know, but just a while ago, my stepmom told me that she knows i have myspace and that she has people that are spying on me from everywhere i go. they are in Virginia while im in South carolina. the reason is because im bi but it doesnt mean that they dont trust me. i feel really uncomfroatble becaus ei cant really talk to anyone becaus ethey are sping on me and i dont know why and how

2007-12-13 06:52:13 · 9 answers · asked by junior1592 1 in Family

We have been married for 3 years now and have 1 child together. We have not had sex more than once a month for the last 8 months. She says its due to a lack of libido that happens to most women after thier first child birth. I feel that she is cheating on me due to her being secretive with her calls and other things. How can I find out if she is in fact cheating on me? I have asked her already and she says no. What options and resources do I have. What are the best ways to find out...Thank You!

2007-12-13 06:51:38 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Since when is it exciting news when Jessica Alba, Halley Berry, Nicole Richie, Tom Brady and other celebs think getting pregnant (=or in Tom's case, impregnating someone) without getting married is a good thing? Since when has the institution of marriage been replaced by openly sleeping around, shacking up and bearing illegitimate children? It's shameful and unGodly, and anyone who's doing it and saying they believe in God and follow His guidelines is lying.

2007-12-13 06:50:37 · 16 answers · asked by YAH IS GOD 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He has been lying to me about his addiction for over a year, and he goes to a group for this addiction, and has been lying to them as well. He had warnings from the ITpeople to stop, but didn't. I am heartbroken. Trust is gone, money is going to be a horrible problem, Christmas coming up... the kids....
What on earth do I do? Someone please help me.

2007-12-13 06:48:49 · 56 answers · asked by Skye7112 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok my finace and I work for his parents irrigation shop. My finance is a tech and has been her for 13 years. He works 6 days a week somtimes 10 hours a day. His dad wont hire anyone else so its just him and his dad. They had over 155 clients. My fiance is only making 1771.17 a month. We think that his parents are taking advantage of him and they are not giving him what he is owed. He doesn't get medical insurance. He has had 2 weeks vacation in 13 years. And his dad is giving him an extra 400 because of summer rush but his mom keeps threating to take it away. Im so irritated with this but I can't say anything because I don't want to make confrontation. Help any advice???

2007-12-13 06:48:22 · 6 answers · asked by Erica B 1 in Family

I'm a seventeen year old that is in love with a guy older than me, one of my great good friends she is called my wife because i'm bi and she's straight its a little joke me and her have. She doesn't want me to runaway she wants me to stay but its hard not to cry if i do go and when i go...Help Me!!!

2007-12-13 06:46:38 · 13 answers · asked by Babygirl 1 in Family

The way I see it, if you don't KNOW they like you, GET OVER IT AND MOVE ON ALREADY!!!!!

2007-12-13 06:46:37 · 31 answers · asked by Roxanne 4 in Singles & Dating

Hey girls, do you prefer guys who are tan, or do you not really care if they are tan or not tan....

[FYI...i am avg color...not pale but not tan...so i trying to decide if I should try to get tan through tanning booths or creams....]

Thanks for your help =]

2007-12-13 06:45:17 · 36 answers · asked by John D 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-13 06:42:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Congrats to all those brides out there ;) Just wondering.. How many of you would look for a Wedding Planner? Where you would look for one? How much would you pay your wedding planner? What are some words to describe your wedding "vision"? ...What services do you wish wedding coordinators/planners would provide but most dont? Thanks so much for taking the time to answer... MuaH!! Congrats...

2007-12-13 06:42:20 · 11 answers · asked by mcbreezy440 1 in Weddings

i met this girl last thursday, she went home over the weekend but we were texting like crazy, come monday, we met, boink and we went to the bus stop together and basically kissed quite passionately in public
anyway, come tomorrow, i texted her at night, but i wasn't my usual funny self, in the text or the after party after we boinked coz i was really tired, then she didn't text back anymore
then last night i texted her again, basically saying i'd like to see her again before we break for christmas, but she never texted back which is very different from last time when she texted back straight away

2007-12-13 06:40:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you have what you and your family need to eat well? Keep warm? Use the restroom? Provide lighting? Emergency Medical Care? Etc...

Are you in a City? Suburban or Rural environment? What advantages or disadvantages do you think you have due to your living environment?

2007-12-13 06:39:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My ex and i are still friends (well we still talk and there's no awkwardness in our interaction... we broke up about 2 months ago) I met up with him yesterday and decided to have sex with him. He said it might not be a good idea because he's afraid I'm going to get emotionally involved. I told him I have thought about it for a while and just wants something physical. I convinced him (took a good 2 minutes..:P). And after its' over. I don't feel bad whatsoever. Should i be?? I think I'm the type of person that thinks sex is just sex. I think I'm more okay with having sex with him than if we were to go on a trip together... am i weird?

and btw.. he was the one who broke it off. and I know we'll probably never get back together. not until he grows out of his immaturity.

2007-12-13 06:39:19 · 13 answers · asked by somegirl 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm reading a book and the cousins get together as if it's normal, isn't that pretty wrong and incestuous?

2007-12-13 06:33:20 · 2 answers · asked by Its me! 2 in Family

2007-12-13 06:31:56 · 11 answers · asked by shaneika t 1 in Singles & Dating

A friend used to stare at me a lot. And, then we had words. And, now distance. And, now we don't talk. And, he does not stare anymore. Was there a reason for the staring?

2007-12-13 06:31:44 · 3 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Friends

2007-12-13 06:31:08 · 6 answers · asked by YesIDid 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister has mentioned she had a plan. It's very detailed but when confronted she says that I just push all the wrong buttons and she doesn't mean it.
She's mentioned it four times.
(I've waited five months and it's just getting worse)
My family thinks it just sisters fighting. She lives with me and my family (husband and two small children) and I told her that she has to see a professional or move out.
My family still just sees it as sisters fighting.
HELP

2007-12-13 06:30:43 · 11 answers · asked by Ruth Z 4 in Family

this is sooo funny. went to court 2 days ago for child support cause he refused to settle out of court and of course i got my judgement and he has to pay. so as we are leaving the court room he is following me trying to talk to me about christmas and our son. anyway after all that he looks me directly in the eye and tells me that the phone # listed in the phone book & all over the internet is not his # it is the phone line that was connected to the cable modem for the internet connection we had when i still lived with him. hmmm i say... i do not think that we had a phone line connected to the cable modem for out road runner. well he says that is what at&t told me. hahaha let me ask who is the idoit here???

2007-12-13 06:29:52 · 15 answers · asked by fantasy gal 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been in a serious relationship for awhile now, infact engaged. However his family has not been very nice to me. He sometimes takes there side. I have been very nice to them and have done so much to make them like me.

Because of all the drama I am scared to marry him. I hate being around his family. They say you marry the family is that true? I am so confused I don't know what to do.

2007-12-13 06:28:26 · 16 answers · asked by Super_freak 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up with my ex about 3 months ago and he has way moved on, like getting married moved on, ad i was so busy concerned about him and what not that i completely lost my mind.. now that im moved on myself i realize how many guys like me. and as i am not looking for a relationship right now since i just moved on, is it wrong of me to just have fun and see as many of them as i want, i will let them know that i am not going to be in a relationship with any of them and that i want to keep my options open for a while but will that make me a hoe? i am a very sexual person and i enjoy my sexuality. Im not saying im going to go sleep with 3 or 4 guys in one day, but would it be bad of me to have 2 or 3 guys im seeing at the ame time as long as they all know that im not into anything serious and they know what im doing, and i use protection every time.... i havent done this yet for fear of looking like a sl ut. I am sleeing with one person at the time who knows what im about right now

2007-12-13 06:28:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im not talking about sex, and i don't want to be flirtatious, but how can i use my brain and body to make him want me more?

2007-12-13 06:28:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It,s been 3 months and he doesn,t seem to be taking me seriously, I need my money. He should be better off than I am. Help!!!

2007-12-13 06:26:48 · 8 answers · asked by susan 2 in Family

2007-12-13 06:24:56 · 32 answers · asked by maria s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and what did you do?
did your friend find out?

2007-12-13 06:21:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I admit that I can be very immature and unladylike. What defines a lady and maturity? How should I handle myself to become a better person?

2007-12-13 06:20:18 · 13 answers · asked by lovebird 3 in Singles & Dating

me and wife be married since July. She said wait to after first of year and we can go from there. She is pregnant and I think she wants to get back with ex can just feel it. We have been arguing and I dont know what to do. She said we can be roomates and come and go as we please no questions asked. I need some opinons please

2007-12-13 06:20:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

First I would like to say I would prefer the kids would be raised in a co-parenting or shared parenting custody agreement, as the kids would benefit most from this in my opinion. The kids are 5 years and 16 months old

But my friend's husband has hired a high-priced attorney to divorce her and go for full custody of the children. He wants custody on the basis of her heart/seizure condition she got after being in a massive car accident. In our state her husband's affair is not of any legal consequence and he told her his new wife will do a better job raising the children than she will. She is unable to keep a job right now because of her health.

My friend got the only attorney she could afford, but not a high powered one.

What advice do you have?

2007-12-13 06:18:30 · 6 answers · asked by YesIDid 4 in Marriage & Divorce