wife wants to split but i dont kknow whats going on?

Question

me and wife be married since July. She said wait to after first of year and we can go from there. She is pregnant and I think she wants to get back with ex can just feel it. We have been arguing and I dont know what to do. She said we can be roomates and come and go as we please no questions asked. I need some opinons please

her ex and his wife having trouble also and my wife and ex have been married twice and getting back together again before I came along

I read a text she sent out dont know who she was talking about but saidafter first of year and hope hes not bluffing also married to man i dont love and never did

Answer 1

she wants u not as a husband but someone to share the bills with or pay the bills, she wants to come and go as she pleases, because she intends to begin another relationship with her ex, chances are if your intuition is telling u something, u need to take heed the intuition never lies to u. if i were u i would try getting out of this marriage the best u can. and if she is pregnant i would demand a paternity test too. this woman's heart is not with u and doesn't intend to be a wife to u.

Answer 2

I would bet money that this has to do with the ex. Sorry. what is signifigant about January? Is the child she is carrying yours? I would not allow her to keep me on a string until January when I am presuming is when he is supposed to leave his wife or something. Sorry but this does not sound like a winnning situation. I think it might be worth a shot if she is willing to get counseling but if she can't even give it that much of an effort I would say there isn't much you can do except keep from allowing her to string you along.

Answer 3

Hhmm, that's a tough one! It all sounds a bit suspect to me! I personally wouldn't want to stay in a marriage as 'room mates', that's not why you got married! 2 months is a very short amount of time for things to change so much, seems to me she would have been aware of her feelings before you got married. I honestly think I'd be looking to separate properly and see how she likes it without your money! You can live in separate places and try counciling but honestly, her heart doesn't appear to be in the marriage.

Answer 4

Let this be,,,focus on you and take the time to work on getting your life back in order. Your wife doesn't know what she wants. And If I were you I wouldn't stand around to wait until she decides. Life is short. Separate yourself from this mess....move away for a little while.

Answer 5

You will need to see if the child is yours or not. Paternity test. See MD.

If the kid is yours, I’d suggest serious marital counseling fast.
If not yours, get divorced fast. No roommate-drama.

Talk to a family law attorney. Don't discuss with her that you are talking to an attorney. Go over options w/ atty in private.

Answer 6

If she is wanting back with her ex, there is not really anything you can do about it, but let her go. I mean if you've told her you love her and you want to work things out and she just doesn't, then all you can do is just get a divorce and move on.

Answer 7

I'm sorry you have to deal with something like that it sounds like she has been seeing someone else....i would start questioning if the baby is yours. I would never agree to an open relationship . Too many diseases out there!

Answer 8

Sounds like a sticky situation. Maybe EVERYONE needs to sit down and talk to see whats going on, and what to do.

Answer 9

Let her leave and go to college. Stop making babies and stop getting married to everyone you meet.

Answer 10

Tell her to hit the road! You dont need someone like that!