I admit that I can be very immature and unladylike. What defines a lady and maturity? How should I handle myself to become a better person?
2007-12-13 06:20:18 · 13 answers · asked by lovebird 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A mature woman always swallows. Do you swallow? Maybe you just need to practice? I suggest giving lots of oral sex away at the airport or maybe a train station, to improve your swallowability. Handle yourself roughly but use a lubricant first.
2007-12-13 06:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it seems like you have a sense of your shortcomings "immature and unladylike". I would start by making a list with the traits you consider immature and uncouthed. Then narrow it down and work on 1-2 areas each month that you can quickly change. Practice those changes. Find older role models (ladies in their 30s-50s) that you can use as examples. Don't try to make yourself better to be accepted by other people. Change to help yourself grow. Several of those traits will come as you gain more experiences and more age.
2007-12-13 14:41:03 · answer #2 · answered by DIVAPRINCIPAL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a lady is a distinguished member of society, she has good traits and tries not to let anyone realise her bad traits with composure and poise
don't burp EVER
don't ever sit with your egs apart
make sure you have good posture
take care of your hygiene
learn some eticet like being polite and sensible to others
learn to take small bites when you eat
no eating with mouths open
don't make noises when you eat
thank your hostess for your meal when you are finished and only when you are finished
you may hear gossip but you must never tell it
cut out all acts of unkindness which are said or done in an unclassy way
when you meet people use their names
do not laugh loudly and rauchously
do not make noise
do not create a bad reputation
keep your relationships private and trustworthy
do not discuss your finances with anyone but a qualified accountant
do not laugh along with or make any bad or stupid jokes
try to make intelligent conversation with people
increase your every day use vocabulary by reading a lot
no getting drunk or disorderly
never tell a lie
do not discuss sexual things with any one other than your current partener
though to be honest it is soooo much better to do what you want and be happy because you can have fun
sammy xx
2007-12-13 14:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by Sammy Y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lovebird, A good place to start is read the bible. People are going to give you grief because this day and age sin is in ! But please do not go with the flow, dare to be different ! I was born and raised to be a gentleman and have always been an outcast ! But hey that"s cool I know that I will be in an eternal heaven. That is the bottem line !
2007-12-13 14:33:22 · answer #4 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat others as you will have them treat you.
ladies are seen and not heard. You have already taken the first step by admitting this. I really admire your courage. Honey just make a decision to change your ways, the rest will follow.
2007-12-13 14:24:58 · answer #5 · answered by ~Secretrose~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am mature, but some people are just not meant to be ladies. I am one of them. Beyond that, you are supposed to behave well, sit properly, dont cuss or say anything negative or crass, be nice and polite to everyone (even if they are cussing you out), cross your legs, wear skirts, blah blah blah. I am not the person to answer this. Sorry for wasting your time.
2007-12-13 14:24:56 · answer #6 · answered by pupgirl 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Acting your age, being matterly, and ontime and things like that. Dressing your age, and try not to do childish things.. but do also remember that everyone has a lil child in them... I do even though im 22 yrs old...
2007-12-13 14:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by Ashley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being a "mature lady" doesn't necessarily make you a better person, just be yourself.
2007-12-13 14:23:51 · answer #8 · answered by Amirra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
itll come along the way as you get more experience with life, don't worry so much about things (if you are out of high school you have to start worrying) if you are still in high school just live life and realize that you have to start thinking about what you haev to do to make your life better.
2007-12-13 14:23:08 · answer #9 · answered by burgler09 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have morals and principles and stick to them and stop worrying about the rest of that crap. Don't try and be some carbon copy of some other stuck up *****, or whore. Self respect, respect your body, your beliefs, act like you have it and speak like you have it.
2007-12-13 14:28:26 · answer #10 · answered by Waffles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋