Why was he staring at me?

Question

A friend used to stare at me a lot. And, then we had words. And, now distance. And, now we don't talk. And, he does not stare anymore. Was there a reason for the staring?

Answer 1

Well in my opinon i think he was staring at you to see if you would stare back and you two would have a connection so he could make a move, who knows he probably liked you and when he notcied u wasnt paying any attention to him he stoppped looking at you and talking to you..here are the signs he likes you:

1.) if he smiles when he looks away from you

2.) if he laughs at almost anything you say

3.) if he stares at you non-stop

4.) if he acts all weird when your around

here are the signs he doesnt:

1.) if he gets mad when you come around

2.) if he looks at you in atitude and looks away

3.) if he always says "oh, my god..she's here"

4.) if he constantly argues with you about stupid things

hope this helps bye!

Answer 2

Maybe he really liked you, but was too afraid to ask you out and started trying to figure out whether you liked him at all. When you had some words, he figured the answer was 'no' and moved on.

I have/had a problem with staring, and maybe he's a little like me. For me it wasn't anything like what I suggested above, it is something wrong with my head. I don't have the natural ablility to look at your eyes for a few seconds and then look away when I talk to you--so I'd either stare straight at you the whole time we are talking, or I'd never look straight at you--one or the other. After realizing that it weirded people out and watching how other people talk, I figured out how to be a little less freaky when I talk by looking you in the eye for a couple seconds, and then looking away for a couple seconds, but I have to consciously think about it to do it--it doesn't come naturally to me like it does to most people. Even now, I often find my self thinking harder about keeping a reasonable amount of eye contact than I do about the words I am saying and hearing.

Answer 3

He liked you a lot. He was gazing at you as though you were a mountain range...beautiful yet far way, probably remembering good times he had with you. He might still like you, and all it would take is a few words to take the chill off. And maybe you could both find a way to say you miss each other and wish you had not said unkind things to someone you value so much.