Family & Relationships - 13 December 2007

I live in SC he lives in florida.We fell in love we have known each other for 3 months and have seen each other only for 2 weekends but have talked endlessly on the phone. I did not want to leave SC because I have a son 15 who is a freshman in highschool and I wanted him to finish his highschool years because he grew up here and loves it.My boyfriend hasn't met him yet.My boyfriend wants me to move to florida because of his career of 30 years he can't move and wants me to get married and start a life with him like maybe in another year. I wouldn't mind moving but will stay for my son.I am afraid I am going to lose him because he keeps telling me how lonely he is for me and calls me his soulmate. I know I am looking for answers probably no one can give me except myself but I would appreciate any input on this.I am visiting him for about 7 days after christmas my son was asked to come also but he is going on a trip with his Dad.

2007-12-13 05:33:48 · 4 answers · asked by eagle 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it normal to feel hurt when your ex-husband re-marries? I was fine when he was dating, then moved in with her, but when he married her, that's when I felt hurt.

2007-12-13 05:30:41 · 42 answers · asked by southern belle 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I Know This 12 Year Old Girl And Shes The Sickest Person I Have Ever Meet. She Said She Loves Bullying People Until They Kill Themselfs, She Always Trys To Break People Up From There Bfs/Gfs, She Says The Most Horrible Things Ever Like ''Your Speckled Face Makes Me Feel Sick'' I Mean Shes 12 Ffs How Can She Be Like That?

2007-12-13 05:28:43 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-12-13 05:28:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i asked similar question about this. I found wierd charges for shipping items, sprint calling cards, cell phone prepaid, near my husbands desk, his wallet, and his credit cards. He swears he is not cheating on me or talking to no one else.
He will not let me see the cell phone bill ( says its his problem because its in his name) he locks his computer down so i can not look at nothing any more. He has a program on there i asked him about it a couple months ago. He says he just downloaded it to see what it was. well i asked him again last night he says he does not know or never heard about it before.
Now when i try talking to him about anything and he thinks its a stupid question he get really mad at me.
he hardly says love you to me any more and when he does it does not sound like he means it
and lately our sex life has dropped badly all he wants is himself done with a ******** nothing more
should i think he is cheating or get more proof before i do anything

2007-12-13 05:15:16 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi i have been with my girlfriend for about 8 years but at the start of are releonship there was a few things that made me thing she had cheated on me, but i thing i was to young to know what was going on.
i was thinging could i open up a email address in one of her friends names that she sees very realey and send her a trick email where it askes her to enter all the people she as slepped with (coz she told me it is me and one other bloke so if she writes more then i know) and tells you it does something really great but all it really does is sent it bak to me,
please help me thanks

2007-12-13 05:14:26 · 15 answers · asked by lee k 1 in Singles & Dating

OK so I have been dating this gril for a couple of weeks now and things are going really well. We both connect really well. We have had sex a couple of times now but never stayed the night at eachothers house. I told her that I would like her to spend the night at my place a night this weekend and her response was she did not know if she was ready for that yet. How is it that we can have sex but when it comes down to staying the night she does not want to yet. Any thoughts would be appreaciated.

Thanks

2007-12-13 05:08:03 · 9 answers · asked by texman03 1 in Singles & Dating

I care so much about him and like him alot and do not want to hurt his feelings but at the same time I do not know what will happen if I give in to his request. I just broke up 3 months ago with my girl friend.

2007-12-13 05:06:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband's grandmother gave out quite a bit of money this year for Christmas. My husband's check ended up being for $12,000. His mom has the check in her possession, and will not give it to my husband. The check is made out from my husband's grandmother to him. His mother took him to the bank and tried to get him to sign the check over to her. She told him that she was going to put all $12,000 in a savings account in her name so he couldn't have access, and said that he couldn't have any of it. My husband refused to sign the check obviously, but she still has it. My husband and I are both deploying to Iraq in 2 days. She is mad that he didn't finish college this semester, and that's her reasoning to try to take the money. Some of the money could be used right now so we don't have to worry about paying bills online while deployed. She is a lawyer and a judge, but my husband and I are curious. Is it legal for her to hold a personal check from my husband's grandmother to him?

2007-12-13 05:04:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-12-13 04:59:23 · 32 answers · asked by om 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a ton of close guyfriends, but I really want a boyfriend

2007-12-13 04:57:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi

Well yes i have hair on my back, waxing takes place once a year unless i go swimming regurlalry, hair on the chest i trim but i have allot of hair, never wax that,

Do most women hate hairy men?

I ask because i personally can manager my house, and keep clean, but i have had friends cousins aorund who leave hair on the bathroom floor, and i hate it, i am consious of hair although i am hairy.

Is it a problem in a relationship, i also like keeping stubs and find women love it, i have been told i look sexier witha stub, why do women like stubs? or small beareds?

Also: Would you marry a man who is hairy? if he is intelligent honest? and kind? and caring towards everyone?

And can support a family easily?

I ask because i get apranoid sometimes being hairy is an issue.

Boxers,sportsman wax hair, Ryan Gigs and some sportsmen dont, i am just so paranoid,i mean i think sometimes, what women realy say behindmy back after they see my hairy body.
Kind Regards
Tovia Sing

2007-12-13 04:52:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please don't say personality, obviously personality matters but that is not my question.

1)Anorexic
2)Very skinny (boyish figure)
3)Athletic & perfectly toned
4) Very petite and slim but still curvy (hips, butt,boobs)
5)Average medium curvy
6)Average very curvy
7)Thick/highly curvy
8)Very thick, chubby
9)Overweight, not obese
10) Obese (Hey.. you never know)

2007-12-13 04:51:56 · 6 answers · asked by Kara 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my friend are both 18 and we spend a lot of time together. If we are not together we are either textin or on the phone. Also when we are together we are really close as in we will be listenin to music or something and holdin hands and stuff even tho we do make a joke of it.We spend a lot of time alone together. Is it normal to behave like this, we get on really well. We are also both girls but i have never thought i was gay and says she is really against lesbians. What do you think? serious answers please x

2007-12-13 04:51:39 · 29 answers · asked by name. 2 in Singles & Dating

ex and I broke up a couple months ago and didn't see each other until recently, when he called me wanting to see me again. He was very excited to see me and wants to start hanging out again. We had been pretty serious before (hes 25 I'm 26) and broke up over something stupid, and we both realize that now. He wants to start "hanging out," but also says he doesn't want to get serious or get married (he has issues; his parents just got divorced after over 25 years of marriage after his mom cheated) This is a huge change from him even a couple months ago when we were together.

I know we both have romantic feelings for each other still, but I'm wondering, should I continue to "hang out" with him with the hopes he will want to get serious, as we were before, or find someone else who does? I would like to be in a serious relationship and I love him, but I don't want to hang out as just friends or friends with benefits. I don't know if I should move on or wait?

2007-12-13 04:48:19 · 16 answers · asked by Leah 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so what happend is my b/f lies constantly to me and his family. Pretty much everyone he knows or talked to. At first it wasnt that big of a deal to me. But now I dont trust him. It turns out he never tells anyone about me. I dont know what to do. And hes had a internet relationship with some girl in romainia. Its so messed up. He sent her lingerine and other stuff. I want to just leave him, but the sex is so good. But I dont want just good sex. I think the best sex is when its with somone you love. I dont know I'f I can love him anymore.

2007-12-13 04:48:17 · 7 answers · asked by Amber H 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently found out some serious stuff about my husband, not very pretty I might add, that he has been doing behind my back (cheating). I am planning on confronting him and ultimately divorcing him but I don't want to ruin Christmas for my family. I know HE's the one who would technically be "ruining" Christmas but I feel it is selfish of me to not hold it in until after Christmas, for my kid's sake, as well as for the sake of feeling somewhat "normal" for the holidays. On the other hand, I feel like I am going to explode or have a nervous breakdown. I know if I bring it up now, it will completely ruin Christmas for everyone involved. My husband is a narcissist and will NEVER admit he's in the wrong and it will come back on me. Any advice on how to "keep it together" for the next 2 weeks? What would you do? Please help me!! Thanks.

2007-12-13 04:47:34 · 13 answers · asked by Betty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dont want to jump to conclusions, and start assuming things... BUT

Me and my bf have been together for 9 months. He's kind of a private person; and he likes his space. But lately, like the past month, he always wants to spend time with me and hold me and stuff. What should I think of this??

2007-12-13 04:46:46 · 31 answers · asked by Lana♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

there is this boy at my school that isnt what you would regularly call hot or cute. but i feel a really strong connetction between us. i have never talked to him before but i can tell he feels the same when he looks at me.
i get that stomach knot feeling when he passes and goosebumps.

2007-12-13 04:45:23 · 36 answers · asked by ♥Cindy_jRock♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm not talking about a boyish or anorexic figure. I'm talking about a skinny FEMININE figure.

Protruding collarbones/hipbones and slight rib definition (not sticking out like crazy) but with large hips, average breasts, and a full butt.

2007-12-13 04:44:00 · 18 answers · asked by Kara 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-13 04:43:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Questions about the other gender get lots of anger. What about your own gender needs to be changed, improved, worked on? Be honest and fair.

2007-12-13 04:43:32 · 7 answers · asked by Steve C 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-13 04:43:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

end up feeling remorse at some point in the future and realize the lives they devestated (spouse, family, friends)... or do most live in la la land for the rest of their life?

Just curious... I ask because wife (23) is currently living with the guy (21) she cheated on me with.. been 2 months... doesn't seem one bit sorry she screwed up my life, and her families lives. Curious if one day a person that can just walk away ever feel regret

2007-12-13 04:40:26 · 32 answers · asked by BlaBla 2 in Marriage & Divorce

or what did you get them?

2007-12-13 04:37:11 · 1 answers · asked by lisa l 2 in Singles & Dating

We have been seperated for almost 2yrs and I have begun having difficulty with my car not starting. (engineering defect) I need a dependable car since I don't have a dependable husband.. sorry. He says he can legally prevent me from selling it even if he's never made a car payment and it's not in his name. Is this true?

2007-12-13 04:35:08 · 36 answers · asked by Marissa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 04:33:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Going to court today and going to try to bring this issue up what to know if im making a big stink about this. He also spanks him

2007-12-13 04:28:53 · 40 answers · asked by dirk0069 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm an adult and I hit puberty a long time ago.

2007-12-13 04:19:21 · 25 answers · asked by IllegalMexicanImmigrant 2 in Singles & Dating

I just got married two months ago and this is our first Christmas together.

He overseas oil rigs for chevron and is gone a week at a time and will be gone for Christmas.

I hadn't seen him since December 4th and he just got back last night
He wants to go on a hunting trip this weekend for a few days.
That means I will only see him for 3 days almost this entire month until after Christmas and I work till 5 oclock on those days.
I know hunting is important to him however this weekend is the only weekend I have Christmas parties for us to go to and I dont want to go alone. These parties have been planned a month Not to mention its our first christmas and im already upset that he will be gone.

This is his only weekend togo otherwise he will have to wait till next year to hunt so I understand him wanting to go. I told him he COULD go but that I was just "disappointed"...

I can't help but be little offended. Should I just drop it or tell him I changed my mind? Thanks

2007-12-13 04:17:03 · 50 answers · asked by MadKat 4 in Marriage & Divorce