Hi i have been with my girlfriend for about 8 years but at the start of are releonship there was a few things that made me thing she had cheated on me, but i thing i was to young to know what was going on.
i was thinging could i open up a email address in one of her friends names that she sees very realey and send her a trick email where it askes her to enter all the people she as slepped with (coz she told me it is me and one other bloke so if she writes more then i know) and tells you it does something really great but all it really does is sent it bak to me,
please help me thanks
2007-12-13 05:14:26 · 15 answers · asked by lee k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Didn't read the question but course she is, arn't they all? XD
2007-12-13 06:59:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eight (8) years is a long time to wonder. To set up a successful sting operation on your girl will take some planning. Since she probably knows you well by now (not to mention the intuition every woman has). If she fails this test, you should be able to dump her.
2007-12-13 13:41:42 · answer #2 · answered by Nicki G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO dont do that to your gf she will hate you forever. the only way to find out is to ask her because otherwise you will only end up hurting yourself and her at the same time. ask yourself this is your relationship worth the risk?
you should be open and honest with each other and the only way to do that is to talk to the her directly
2007-12-13 13:21:17 · answer #3 · answered by madinalake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust... The most important word in any relationship. And clearly you don't trust her ? Speak to her and explain your concerns and if you do find out she was lying, cheating or whatever then maybe it's time to move on mate...
2007-12-13 13:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by Best of British 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel like you have to lie to find out the truth, there is no trust. you need to think carefully about how much there is in your relatiopnship and whether it is best just finding someone else who you can trust. if your gf found out about this plan then she would maybe hate you forever, and im sure she wont want that.. good luck chuck xxx
2007-12-13 13:57:34 · answer #5 · answered by Bethann. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If after 8 years you can't ask her outright, what the blazes are you doing in the relationship?
2007-12-13 20:03:18 · answer #6 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please after eight years....why belittle yourself with the question if she is faithful to you? By now the two of you should have a concrete relationship and if not, sorry it is time to bow out and discover a whole new world!
2007-12-13 13:22:21 · answer #7 · answered by wife in South Africa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have so little respect for your girlfriend that you would stoop to a major deception, then I suggest your relationship is finished. Don't do this. Ask her outright. Anyway, what happened eight years ago is history, surely.
2007-12-13 13:17:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
if you would go to those lengths to catch your girlfriend out, if indeed she has done something, you have major trust issues, and shouldn't be in a relationship until you have had some kind of therapy!
2007-12-13 15:19:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without trust there is no relationship. Stop playing games and simply break up with her without blaming anyone.
2007-12-13 13:19:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can do this but i will tell u this if u do and she finds out then u might just lose her forever bc by doing this u are saying u do not trust her
2007-12-13 13:21:38 · answer #11 · answered by Amber M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋