Family & Relationships - 13 December 2007

Or would you rather wait for it until it finds you.

2007-12-13 04:15:37 · 14 answers · asked by Carlos de La Vega 3 in Singles & Dating

this is my first christmas married.my hubbys mom and stepdad have invited themselves to stay with us.normally we would be happy BUTthe problem is that we live in a 2 bedroom home our son is 7.so if they did stay we would have to sleep on the bottom of my son bunkbed & he would sleep on top (its a twin).im not trying to be rude or selfish but we really just want our son to run in our room christmas morn. and be excited and wake us up...(also they always wake up a little later & want us to wait)what 7 tr old boy wants to wait around christmas morn?any ideas on telling them they cant stay without hurting their feelings or sounding rude?

2007-12-13 04:14:41 · 18 answers · asked by lisa l 2 in Family

okay im in highschool, and i stole this test, and people found out about this and then this girl asked me for it and i wanted to charge her 300$. lol. she got mad and then someone told her that i am a psycho and i mess with peoples cars and screw their brakes up. she was talkin a lot of SMACK up until then... then she got scared. I also dated her best friend.

Do u think she hates me or what lol

2007-12-13 04:14:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Sadly, divorce is so common that marriage has lost its true meaning where a couple pledge to love till death do they part.

2007-12-13 04:13:36 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 04:13:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Or do you think that's just what guys talk about?
Well, there's someone who talks about at least three times a day and teases people who are especially embarassed about there secret parts. He doesn't do it out of harm to the other person, but i still think it gets a little old.

2007-12-13 04:11:39 · 35 answers · asked by noone 2 in Friends

Im black and he's white

2007-12-13 04:11:17 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is it call when it is only one sided love..whats that term

2007-12-13 04:11:16 · 10 answers · asked by laxitivepo 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex wife now and I were togather for 4 years, married 3 years have a 2 year old daughter and have been married and divorced twice in the period. Last divorce was Sept 20. We love each other still to this day, but she has pushed her self away from me and now she is dating a young man from her church about 2 months now. She actually went o phildephia with t meet some of his family. I think thats kinda quick to do that but supposably he asked her and she went. This is destroying me inside. She tells me its not like when me and her were togather, that its more of a friendship the relationshipwith him. I feel like I am really dieing inside and I would do anything to get her back and really work on our family. I mean we speak almost everyday at leat once and we have been intamite a few days ago, but she told me not to use that against her of she wants to go out with this other guy. I mean what should I do? I feel like im being taken advantage of. Do I have falso hopes? Do you honestly think its possible for us to get back togather again?

2007-12-13 04:10:21 · 15 answers · asked by kj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i mean my cuzz says that means i dont get him hard but is that true cause he don't make me wet so are we evan interested in each other ??//?

2007-12-13 04:08:14 · 22 answers · asked by tweetylove_0101 2 in Singles & Dating

Friend is coming home 4 Christmas & would like to see her & tell her what is on heart & mind.

2007-12-13 04:07:15 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i recently dicoverd that he has another wife and a child.. do they still arrest people for bigamy on what is the jail time for that????

2007-12-13 04:04:47 · 16 answers · asked by gigi.dire 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance and I are getting married in Charlotte NC and are looking for a venue to hold our wedding reception. We would like to find something intimate and perhaps a little off of the beaten path. I have exhausted all online resources (such as the knot, eventective, etc.) and am not finding much. Any ideas from those who live in the Charlotte area?

2007-12-13 04:03:36 · 6 answers · asked by Cole 1 in Weddings

2007-12-13 04:03:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The whole time my bf and I are having sex he's watching porn on tv. I really dont feel like im getting enough attention but do this mean he dont want to look at me or he dont like me??

2007-12-13 04:01:57 · 23 answers · asked by Lady1 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so most of you knowhow hectic Christmas time can be. From Christmas at your own house, to Christmas at your parents to Christmas at HIS parents. Well, I'mone of those people that doesn't like a lot of chaos. Honestly, I'd just perfer to stay at home. But since that isn't an option what can I do to make Christmas dinner (and all the normal holiday traditions( go by faster. His parents say I don't talk enough (when honestly they aren't quiet enough for two seconds for anyone to talk( While I like his family...they can be overbearring. I really would like some ideas on how to get through this another year.

Sadly every year at Thanksgiving I spend/pass the time by planning outrageous excuses to get outta Christmas. haha.

P.S. Drinking isn't an option this time, oh boy.

2007-12-13 03:58:34 · 12 answers · asked by ♥ Baby on board ♥ 3 in Marriage & Divorce

when is the right time to do it rough and slow?
thanks

2007-12-13 03:54:17 · 11 answers · asked by Rojas 1 in Singles & Dating

WHAT IS A TRUE FRIEND?
Is a true friend one who gets pissed cause you can't watch there kid one time(when you have watched her kid numerus times, but this one time you had plans?)

Is a true friend one who steals your boyfriend, when you were kids?

tell me what is a true friend, cause I keep getting sh1t on over and over and over......

2007-12-13 03:52:40 · 4 answers · asked by Bradygirl 5 in Friends

But before him, with other boyfriends I was very sexual. I just dont know whats up with me. Does anyone have any ideas.

2007-12-13 03:50:59 · 4 answers · asked by nikki40380 2 in Singles & Dating

Ive been dating this girl over a year and I want to break up with her but its hard because she tells me she loves me and how depressed she would be if we ever broke up and shes kind of crazy. She cant stand it if I talk to another girl and she cries for hours if anything ever goes wrong. I've told her I dont love her but if i break up with her she would be so sad and depressed and I care about her but I dont want to continue dating and I have no idea what to do or how to break up with her? I might just slowly seperate from her. Ignore her more, dont call her at night, act like im not interested and maybe she will stop liking me and the break up can be much easier and smoother. Also, Im good friends with some of her friends so I dont know what will happen with them because I didnt even know them before we were dating. Any ideas?

2007-12-13 03:50:08 · 36 answers · asked by john 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 28 years old, my birthday is tomorrow and I am newly engaged. This will be my first birthday to celebrate with my fiancé, but my parents want me to spend it with them by going out to dinner – without him. I asked if maybe we could celevrate sometime this weekend like we have done several years in the past (I have rarely spent my actaul birthday with them) but they claim they are too busy and have made plans with a young woman that my dad works with.

They have treated this girl like she is their daughter, even before I started dating my fiancé. They invite her to family events and ask her to do things with/for them that they used to do with me.

It really frustrates me that they want to spend time with me only on their terms claiming they had made plans with this other girl a long time in advance and tomorrow night is the only time they have for me. I really wanted a romantic evening with my fiancé, or at least to thave him have dinner with all of us, but they want nothing of it.

2007-12-13 03:47:41 · 11 answers · asked by Texarican 2 in Family

2007-12-13 03:46:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for awhile and this morning he broke up with me over the phone and I was on my way to work which made it even worse. He said the reason was because he wants to be single and concentrate on work and goin back to school...in other words to "get himself together". I dont really understand that someone who says they love you and tells you that they want to hopefully marry you one day, could just say it's over and can't even do it face to face. This hurts so bad and I'm at work right now trying not to cry.

2007-12-13 03:45:24 · 25 answers · asked by diva804 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend told me last night that she thinks an acquaintance of mine is stalking me. She indicated that he was talking about me yesterday and described in the building I work in. I live thirty miles from where I work and I don't know how this person would know that unless they followed me. Only my family and my best friend knows exactly where I work and I know they did not tell this person. Should I be concerned about this? This person has hit on me continually and is not getting the picture that I am not interested. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!

2007-12-13 03:44:02 · 36 answers · asked by Michelle 4 in Singles & Dating

I have 2 friends that are married with a child. I am a single mother of two. Everytime they need a sitter I watch their son..... for free. Right now they're going through hard financial times so I hired the husband to help me with a few handyman things around the house so that he could make a little extra $$$. He came and helped, but never finished, even though I paid him.

Then I asked if he could help me with one more handyman thing and he said he was "too busy". They go out and party every weekend, have RARELY invited me to do anything with them, and have gotten to the point that they expect me to watch their son.

The worst part is that it creates problems with my own children b/c one of my kids doesn't like him.

What do I do - they've called asking me to watch him again this weekend and I'm at the point where my feelings are hurt. I don't mean to take it out on their son by saying he can't stay, but I think his parents are just using me. .

2007-12-13 03:44:02 · 35 answers · asked by redslippers 4 in Friends

How should i dress?? I am scared!!! Help!!!

2007-12-13 03:40:59 · 6 answers · asked by bettys5incali 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-13 03:40:31 · 20 answers · asked by Mythological Beast 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ladies would you prefer a man that wont go anywhere without you being there or a man that leaves the house every now and then to hang out, go shopping or whatever (alone).

2007-12-13 03:39:17 · 4 answers · asked by jada 1 in Singles & Dating

a really great Christmas gift for my BF ..?

We have been dating 2 yrs... and I have NO clue what he is giving me ...!?!?

I have already spent a small fortune - but this article (below) has me questioning what I got him .... ! :(

Any ideas/suggestions would be greatly appreciated!

This is one of the MANY reasons why the holidays are sooo STRESSFUL ..... Ugh ..................!!!

http://dating.personals.yahoo.com/singles/datingtips/63012/10-holiday-gifts;_ylc=X3oDMTFpanZobjdxBF9TAzI3MTYxNDkEc2VjA2ZwX3RvZGF5BHNsawMxMC1ob2xpZGF5LWdpZnRzBHp6A2Fi

2007-12-13 03:38:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Every morning It takes 10 mins just to wake up my 8yr old to wake up for school. Shes such a heavy sleeper and sometimes I really think she hears me waking her up but she just goes back to sleep and just ignores me. She can even sleep through her alarm clock sounding off for minutes! I know it takes patiences to be a mother but EvERY SINGLE MORNING we have to go through this. It makes me mad some days because this is a routine and I feel she should wake up on her own after i wake her up after a few shakes and scholls to wake up.....Any ideas?

2007-12-13 03:35:09 · 8 answers · asked by sexyexotik 3 in Family