i mean my cuzz says that means i dont get him hard but is that true cause he don't make me wet so are we evan interested in each other ??//?
2007-12-13 04:08:14 · 22 answers · asked by tweetylove_0101 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He may have troubel getting it up
2007-12-13 04:10:33 · answer #1 · answered by ?? yaddajean ?? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh wow, it could probably mean alot of things. Based off your case your best bet is to ask him. I know it may be hard to do but at least you can put your mind to rest. If neither one of you are turning each other own it sound like ya'll may not be sexually compatiable or ya'll need to work on getting each other aroused. I'm guessing that ya'll intimacy hasn't been the greatest. That's probably why neither of you is getting the other one arouse. You may have to get more creative. Here are a few suggestion: 12 Play, roleplaying, acting out each other sexual fantasies, using props, edible things such as whip cream, chocolate etc. You gotta study your man and see what turns him on. Try a few thing here and there to see what get him going. Your probably just doing the wrong thing. Guys get turned on by different thing, It could be as simple as nipping on his ear, passionate kisses, graphic text message about how much you want him, rubbing his grion, kissing his stomach, or below the belt. Last but not least, it could be him. he may just have some problems he needs to get checked out, or he may be beating off so that he will last longer the next time. So I suggest you try a few of the things I named above or just ask him. Good Luck!!!!!
2007-12-13 04:26:02 · answer #2 · answered by Sexysass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you mean by beat off. Is he masturbating until he ejaculates? If that's the case he's just doing it to last longer when you have sex. If he's just stroking to get hard, then maybe you guys aren't having enough foreplay. Especially if you don't get wet either.
2007-12-13 04:12:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It helps guys stay up longer & last longer sometimes, but if you both admit to not doing for the other, then maybe you don't. My ex couldn't keep it up and it turned out he didn't love me. Talk to him and figure out your relationship. Me & my ex were like roomates after a while and there was nothing there anymore.
2007-12-13 04:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by Casie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could just mean that he cums kinda quick and he wants to get that first one off so he can last a bit longer. And if you're not getting moist how are ya'll even makin this happen?
2007-12-13 04:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by I've Got My Answer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to agree with derek and duck sometimes a guys does that because he doesn't want to finish too quick
2007-12-13 04:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be trying to make sure he can last longer for you.
If he doesn't make you wet he isn't doing it right as in no foreplay. Tell him what you need.
2007-12-13 04:11:53 · answer #7 · answered by kyrie_eleison_gr 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be that he doesn't want to orgasm too soon during sex with you. That's all I can think of.
2007-12-13 04:12:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It helps to clear out the pipes before hand sometimes. Maybe he is trying to make it last onger with you
2007-12-13 04:10:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
it may mean that he just wants to stay hard longer in bed. and not every woman gets wet, they need some kind of gel. no worries, you may just have a minute man that wants to go longer than that!! good luck.
2007-12-13 04:12:09 · answer #10 · answered by HazelEyez * 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Means he has to fantasize about another woman until he orgasms before he'll even consider having sex with you!
2007-12-13 04:11:34 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋