Family & Relationships - 13 December 2007

This one girl I met recently on Yahoo that seemed all nice and stuff at first, well just because I call her honey, she ends up now making a big deal out of it. Why does she care so much, I don't mean anything by it when I call a girl honey, like it doesn't mean I have a crush on a girl just because I call a girl honey, it is just something I do to try to be friendly. Nothing more than that, so what is she just paranoid of something happening here??? Can anybody please tell me because no other girl has minded me calling them honey before, why would this one mind it? Maybe there is something about the fact that she is from Texas, maybe just coincendence or something, but Texas girls seem meaner than any other type in general, I don't know why that is. They don't try to be, they just naturally are and I just don't get it, but oh well:(

2007-12-13 02:48:51 · 8 answers · asked by Zick1234 2 in Singles & Dating

Im a single guy but Im overweight. Any ideas or help on how I can get over being shy and how I can have better/higher self-esteem???

2007-12-13 02:48:39 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My girlfriend and I got an apartment together, then three months later she broke up with me. We're in college so she went to her hometown for break, I have a job so I stayed at the apartment. I found out she was talking to a guy after just one month, and then eventually found out she was seeing him. Another bad thing is, we have to live with eachother still because we can't get out of the lease. Did I mention that we dated for 6 years. Another thing is, the kid she is seeing is absolutely ugly, and she is beautiful, which I thought was odd. Anyone gone through this before? What did you do? Is this just to make me jealous? Because there is no way she is attracted to this guy. He's fat, has long hair with zits, and a complete geek.

2007-12-13 02:48:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a girl for 9 months now, and we are arguing currently about our weekend plans. On Friday, I will be going out for my brother’s birthday and she will be going out to chill with one her friends (who is also one of her x-bf's). I was planning to crash at my parents place since I will be getting drunk rather than driving home, I asked her to sleep there with me also but she tell me she is going to sleep at her friends house (x-bf) instead. I never met the guy so for all I know he could be a good guy, but I am still uncomfortable with her sleeping there considering they dated a long time ago and that I have never really met him in 9 months. I told her that and it started a big argument.....am i in the wrong?

2007-12-13 02:45:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hi. my bf really wants to have a threesome. he is 27 and i am 21. he said we will do it just for fun and he said i dont have to worry about it because he loves me so much and that he wont ever leave me. i love him so much and i know that he will be very happy if i will say "yes" and do it. but the problem is, i am very sensitive person and i cant dare to see another girl touching my man and i cant dare to see my man touching another girl. what should i do?

2007-12-13 02:43:40 · 62 answers · asked by iamwhoam 1 in Singles & Dating

These are just two visitors from Jamaica. One night, I decide to go to the clubz just outta looking for something to do, and they decide they wanna come along with me. It's not bad if they both pay their way right into the club right?

2007-12-13 02:43:25 · 6 answers · asked by Ryder 1 in Singles & Dating

Not to be mean or anything but I hate going to my husband's son's basketball games. I'm a basketball player since I was like 5. So I know what a good player vs sluggish player is. His son is not good. He's 6'1", 13 years old, and very unstable with basketball. My husband and I like to travel along side his parents to the games but by the time I get there I regret going, I get BORED! There was a time I told my hubby I didn't want to go (playing sick) and he called his parents and told them he COULDN'T go because I refused to go. That baby! I was upset that he told his parents that, so I forced myself to go. I hate to lie by being nice and pretend that I support his son but really I don't. His youngest plays better. If I tell my husband what I really think of the games, he'll probably run to his parents with the dramatic news. I like his parents a lot too, they're cool. I don't want them thinking I don't like their grandson. 1 thing I hate is when they boast so much about him. Ugh...

2007-12-13 02:43:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

If a girl has a face full of freckles??

2007-12-13 02:42:36 · 16 answers · asked by fina87 3 in Singles & Dating

Would you be mad if your gf got pregnant by you and didn't want your baby so she had a secret abortion without telling you ?

Would you end the relationship ? Would you still feel same about her ?

2007-12-13 02:41:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I have sorta been dating this guys. He had told me he wanted to start something up before we started dating. At first he was would have done anything to impress me and he was a little shy. I don't feel that he wants me as much anymore. How can I keep him on his toes and wanting me more after hanging out each time?

2007-12-13 02:39:43 · 11 answers · asked by Daisy 3 in Singles & Dating

I took Tango before, it was great. Of course i just did like 1 month( 4 weeks and only 3 times per week) but it was fun. I was getting alittle more social. and i talked to girls. it was fun.

But then i got a terrible knee injury( 2006) and i couldn't walk for months. I got cured but now i have left over arthritis pains. so i don't think dance would be a good idea.

I wonder if instructors would accept People with pains who can be limited in what they can do.

2007-12-13 02:38:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm having serious doubts about my marriage, and have been having for 6m+. Whether I leave or stay I'll always wonder if I should have done the opposite.

Would you rather regret leaving a marriage/relationship or regret staying?

(Assume no kids yet)

2007-12-13 02:37:47 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met this girl innocently at a party. I was sitting in a chair talking to a buddy, and she came over. Her boyfriend was more interested in the drinking games being played than her. I talked to her off and on that night, not knowing she lived with this guy. I left, and had no idea she was interested in me, at the time, or I her really. Our text messages quickly turned into calls, and conversations. I now have been seeing her off and on for a couple months. She says she loves me and I think I may her. The Boyfriend that she lives with is fairly oblivious to her needs, and I get alot of late night crying phone calls. Problem is she wants to pull the plug but feels bad. Is this ever gonna happen? How can I make it happen? I will say she is only 22, but I am only 26, I know what I would like to have happen, but getting her there is tough. I wouldn't care so much, but I date alot of women, and never find one that keeps my interest. She is really different, so I don't want to give up.

2007-12-13 02:34:45 · 30 answers · asked by Mfred 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-13 02:30:03 · 5 answers · asked by chrystina 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, last week I found out my boyfriend had been cheating on me. I confronted him about it at his place but he wouldn't admit it. We argued for a while until he finally admit he'd been cheating on me for 3 months.

I'm really not usually a violent person at all but that p***ed me off so much, I just punched him as hard as I could in the jaw. It knocked him out cold. I'm only 17. I'm athletic but not muscular (I'm a cheerleader) and he's 21 and pretty buff. I totally didn't expect it! I was just angry. He was knocked out for about 40 minutes. It was really funny, but when he came to he freaked out. He went to the cops and I've been charged with assault. Was I in the wrong?

2007-12-13 02:29:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-13 02:28:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

its ok they tease but i dont like it when they so it purposely in front of girls it makes me feel smthin which i cant explian
i tried to talk to my friends but they dont listen

2007-12-13 02:28:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have been married for 3 mnths to a wonderful man that is very sensitive to my feelings. the problem is i enjoy anal sex occasionally, and he is totally against it. i think its just because he's afraid to hurt me, but i cant get him to understand that I DO ENJOY it. what can i do to make him understand, and make him comfortable with this situation and enjoy it as much as i do?

2007-12-13 02:25:26 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we have been dating for a few moth now and he said he in love with me and wants me to be his wife but i dont know if i want to getting married

2007-12-13 02:25:04 · 12 answers · asked by ^^drowninlove^^ 2 in Singles & Dating

around or screwing around with someone in another room, because he couldn't find me. we've booth had a history of infidelity, in the past. he is a very jealous guy, to start with. near the end of the night, after most had left, i foud him in another room having sex. i didn't walk in, but went outside with the girl's husband. we talked until i could calm down. that was in august. like i said, this isn't the first time either of us have cheated on the other. now....after therapy and mental hospitalization for myself, we are planning on moving outof state to live closer to family, hoping the support will aid us in healing.

but what if i can't ever have sex with him gain because of the pain of all this? has anyone else been through this type thing? can the marriage lst ? also, we have 3 kids and want them to be happy, that's the other reason we are working on this.

2007-12-13 02:22:37 · 12 answers · asked by 723 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-12-13 02:21:15 · 26 answers · asked by Fancy You 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been seeing this guy a little over a month and things have been pretty good with us. He's in a bind right now and needs $150 because of an accident he was in. He needs it to get his car fixed. I've seen him try to hustle up the money and call family who all say they are broke. He knows I have the money and I was going to offer it to him, but didn't. Well today the money is due and he asked me could he borrow it until he gets paid at the end of the month...
What do you think I should do? I've never loaned any guy I've ever dated money before so this is all new to me.

2007-12-13 02:19:04 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well last night I was kinda drunk, and i was hanging out with one of my sisters and her guy and another guy....well they went up stairs, to u kno....and i was down stairs...I started making out with the guy i was with, and I had sex with him, the first time it was ok....but he kept wanting more....so about an hour later he started again, and in the back of my head i was like no( I wasn't drunk anymore at this point), but I didn't say nething cuz I felt pressure t do it w/ him, then about 2 hrs later he started again this time i was sore and said no wait, but he kept saying c'mon it'll be fine, i promise, and well yeah, i kept mumbling no, but he wouldn't stop, i tried to push him off but not w/ my full force cuz i just felt like i had to, and i was scared....did i just bring this on myself.....or what. I said no......

2007-12-13 02:16:00 · 26 answers · asked by DDsororitychick 1 in Singles & Dating

my pic is on www.myspace.com/kidkoss
what can i do???

2007-12-13 02:15:42 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

as in...emerge from your cave, Beast! :) Or is that considered trying to drag him out. I'm just trying to lighten the mood. 'Beast' refers to a prior joke and implies sexiness, not meanness. And I'm not talking about harassing him. Is it still okay?

2007-12-13 02:14:33 · 5 answers · asked by Meg H 1 in Singles & Dating

i am a 20 year old person and dont know wot i should get mi imaginary friend.


any ideas???

2007-12-13 02:08:51 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

????

2007-12-13 02:07:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-13 02:06:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

so there is this clergyman and is bothering me and my wife, she is a christian but not a very religious one and im not religious at all. now the clergyman is constantly coming to our house and telling us we need to convert and that we are going to hell and all that nonsense, i tried calling the police but they have no idea what to do since its a clergyman, what can i possibly do?

2007-12-13 02:00:36 · 5 answers · asked by Hi T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife of five years was diagnosed with bi-polar in her teen years and recently began treatment for her disorder.
I recently found out that she has been cheating on me when one of her friends called me and told me.
At first she tried keeping her lie but finnaly admited to this one act. I just don't believe her that it was just this one event. She has cheated in the past and never has confessed any thing without first being caught. We have been separated for about two weeks now and she is beaging for me to take her back.
She hadn't been taking meds untell I left and basicly says she would have not cheated if she had been medicated and that if I take har back things will be differant and she'll always be true.
I think that this is mostly a cop out.
Answers please help!

2007-12-13 01:59:23 · 22 answers · asked by Dirk D 1 in Marriage & Divorce