Would you be mad if your gf got pregnant by you and didn't want your baby so she had a secret abortion without telling you ?
Would you end the relationship ? Would you still feel same about her ?
2007-12-13 02:41:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Abortions are wrong, unless u were raped or molested, it's wrong. If ur laying down having sex ur taking that chance, becuz of ur irresponsibility a lil life is paying for ur mistake. Very selfish if u ask me!
Don't have sex if u can't handle the responsibility that may follow.
2007-12-13 02:47:10 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have always believed that I have no right to tell a woman what she should and should not be allowed to do with her body. If she chooses to have an abortion I will support her decision completely but I would hope if this happened to my gf and that is what she was deciding that she would at least come and talk to me about it.
I would defiantly be upset and don't know if I would be able to trust her anymore.
2007-12-13 02:53:01 · answer #2 · answered by FinallySmiling 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is lying! If you are the girl you should tell him and the 2 of you make a decision together. If you are the guy I would talk to her and tell her how you are feeling. Personally I would end the relationship b/c if she keeps something this important from you then it will never work
2007-12-13 02:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by firegirl0514 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course any human in their right mind would be mind. And there is something seriously alarming if she feel like she cant come and talk to you and trust you. That being said, getting pregnant when you dont want to is a HUGE deal and scary. And sometimes when youre in a scary situation you dont think clearly. You have to find out WHY she didnt tell you. Maybe you can work past it.
2007-12-13 02:45:03 · answer #4 · answered by soren 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You has got to be kidding me!!!!!!!! Heck yea that's a deal breaker. Look at it this way if HE got pregnant would you want to know? That is really horrible to go off and make a decision like that without at least talking it over with him first. Even if he doesn't agree he deserves the right to input on it
2007-12-13 02:47:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I was a guy & my girlfriend did that then yes that would be the end of our relationship. That is a very big decision that should be made jointly by both parties. It is very selfish to do that without discussing it first.
2007-12-13 02:48:57 · answer #6 · answered by *~*love always*~* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get mad. Very mad...
I wouldn't honestly know what to do if she done that... I would still probably feel the same for her but something in the relationship and the way I see her and myself that would change forever.
2007-12-13 02:45:56 · answer #7 · answered by Oliver Natividad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think women own their bodies. Period.
But I would be very upset that she felt we couldn't discuss this together, even if the decision was ultimately hers. I don't know if I'd leave her, but I would feel like we weren't in a very trusting or intimate relationship.
2007-12-13 09:47:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't know... so I guess I would think all is still good.
But once I did find out I would feel very betrayed and it would probably be a relationship change. I would lose all trust in her and things would definitely be different.
2007-12-13 02:45:09 · answer #9 · answered by sugar sweet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would destroy me. The baby would be mine as well and if she didn't want to to keep it I would ask her to have it and let me raise it on my own and she could leave.
2007-12-13 02:49:03 · answer #10 · answered by DLG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋