my pic is on www.myspace.com/kidkoss
what can i do???
2007-12-13 02:15:42 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you think you're ugly, then you are. If you think you're sexy, then you are. Start boosting your self - esteem by building self confidence and hanging around others who enjoy your company. Also, get a new haircut and join a gym. Again, change how you think about yourself!
2007-12-13 02:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by business as usual 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
First off, you are not ugly. You need to stop thinking horribly about yourself. Do things that make you feel good, like exercise. Maybe get a mini make over - new hair cut, new outfit.
You have to feel good about yourself before you can feel sexy - being sexy is a feeling. You can project sexy to others but you have to love yourself first.
If you feel so terrible maybe you should speak to a counselor or a trusted adult in your life and see if they can help you.
Trust me - it takes some people all their lives to love themselves and feel sexy. All you have to do is learn to appreciate yourself and all the characteristics that make you unique.
If we all looked the same, this would be a boring world! So go do something that makes you feel good! You need to work on being comfortable with you and sexy will follow! :)
2007-12-13 02:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by Construction Chick 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
No you are not ugly
actually your rather cute
Kind of sad.....which will draw the compassionate to you.
Act out(pretend) that you are sexy....don't dress the Hood style. Clean up, layered top and jeans that fit.....no slopiness.
When you act the part, your brain doesn't know the difference.
Whereever you go "Act" and pretty soon it will come naturally.
2007-12-13 02:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by LandOfMisty 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Beauty truly comes from the inside. You have to love yourself first. Once you can accept yourself, start writting down the good things about yourself and focusing only on those. Another thing, Boost your confidence. I looked at your pic and I couldn't see it that well, but I can say though that you really are lacking in confidence. Good luck! :)
2007-12-13 02:22:25 · answer #4 · answered by musica1404 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you think you are ugly-you can not be sexy
Sexy is a state of mind that exudes on the outside when you feel sexy on the inside...
Sexiness is a swagger.
2007-12-13 02:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ugly is what you think you are, not who you are. Think positively, don't others influence what you think about yourslelf, and most importantly, Don't let YOU, YOURSELF try to belittle yourself... think positively, smile, enjoy life, its too short to be dwelling on how attractive you are. Be confident that someone out there will find you very attractive. I guarantee it.
2007-12-13 02:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by VortexHunter 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm going to be 100% with you. You aren't drop dead gorgeous, but you aren't hideous. Umm so yeah, in short, you are decent looking.
2007-12-13 02:27:18 · answer #7 · answered by ♥ineversaidiwasperfect 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be confident and positive in your self. If you act confident then people will notice.People aren't attracted to someone that is always down on themselves, your positive personality will attract people to you and want to be around you more.
2007-12-13 02:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by LILAC 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Confidence is a sexy quality, get some self esteem and it will show, people are attractive because of who they are, not what they look like. Remember beauty fades but dumb is forever.
2007-12-13 02:19:31 · answer #9 · answered by Maria b 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
no offence but you look a bit chavy but youre not ugly try dressing better ditch the trackys n trainers and try some jeans shirt n shoes its more attractive if u look like you make an effort
2007-12-13 02:19:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋