Family & Relationships - 13 December 2007

I am 17 and I am in love with this 21 year old man. He lives in another state-AK, while I live in TX. We love eachother so much and it surpasses puppy love-its like that deep down SOUL touching LOVE! Earilier this year I got banned from talking to boys on my housephone, so this summer I SECRETLY got a cell phone and met my FIANCEE (Keather from AK). Should I tell my parents or wait? My parents are VERY VERY STRICT! Also, what do you think about the two of us and our engagment?

About him: Hes in college and sweet!

2007-12-13 03:34:31 · 15 answers · asked by Mieko M 2 in Singles & Dating

I made out with a girl about three weeks ago-- we were cuddling for the entire night and then started making out about an hour in-- but then we both had to leave school because it was thanksgiving break. We slept in her bed the entire morning and then before she left she kissed me goodbye and said how she really didn't wan to leave now. However, when we both returned 5 days later, she didn't make any effort to contact me, and only responded briefly to my texts.

I would think she was just blowing me off, but there is the fact that before break the two of us used to go on long walks (the kinda that last into the wee hours of the night) and eat dinner and stuff together. Also, we have a lot of mutual friends, though none of them really know what went down before thanksgiving.

Is she just blowing me off, or does she feel embarrassed about "jumping me"? I'm not the most forward in a relationship-- she may have gotten the wrong idea...

2007-12-13 03:30:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Our main company president wants everyone to attend the company x-mas party, if not we need to tell him directly why we are not attending. To me that is kind of intimidating, but I really don't want to go. I really don't care for half of the people who works here. I mean If you don't want to go than is your life, why should they care!

2007-12-13 03:29:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i was int he restroom of a restuarant n i kid told''sir can u move so i can wash my hands'' i was thinking sir y he call me sir im only 18 n i look yougner am i getting old?am i really getting old?

2007-12-13 03:29:14 · 6 answers · asked by Puertorican 3 in Friends

2007-12-13 03:28:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...Or, chat them up, pick them up, ask them out, etc. What's the ONE place where it's totally and always unacceptable?

2007-12-13 03:25:24 · 28 answers · asked by mistaken4sane 4 in Singles & Dating

today is my birthday and my girlfriend had planned out something really great that i had been looking forward to all week long. She gives me a call last night. now.. recently her brother and his girlfriend have temporarily moved in so i really have no private time with her there. anyways she called me last night and she was like ah so when you coming over tomorrow and i was like ah.. i thought we were going to? and she was like nope just come over. so the dissapointment sort of started there, so i was just dissapointed and she was like oh and can you bring over that rainbow strobe light your father has in the cellar. and i was like why? and she was like just because god. and she said well bye. let me note that she has bi polar too and doesn't take medicine for it. so. I just sat there wondering why she was giving me attitude and called back. she answered and was like yea what? and I asked what are you all upset about. and she said WOW im not upset. and hung up on me.

2007-12-13 03:25:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

To those who have read my previous question, my boyfriend just told me that he was thinking of all the happy times we had together and he really missed them a lot. He also said that he doesn't know if he wants to get back together with me. Part of him wants to get back with me, but the other part says our major exams are at stake and he doesn't want us arguing over trivial matters and hence affect our studies. And then he says he's really confused.

When he told me that, I started crying again. I want him back so much and it's like he's giving me false hope by telling me he wants me back but that's not a very good idea. I keep crying and crying and crying. I don't know what to do, or what his point is in telling me this. He knows I want him back so much and yet he tells me this.

I'm still crying. I need help I feel like dying so badly...

2007-12-13 03:23:39 · 10 answers · asked by Krystal 2 in Singles & Dating

answer-CHEAP CHEAP CHEAP

2007-12-13 03:23:36 · 23 answers · asked by YOCRAPSMAN 1 in Singles & Dating

great looks still 1st?

2007-12-13 03:23:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, i cannot talk to my ex, or be near them, or associate with people who talk with him, and i cant even look at him cuz my parents despise him (at least my mom does). its been 5-6 months since we've broken up and we've both been in relationships and we still love/like eachother. my mom says she wont let me even be friends with him cuz she says:
1) hes manipulating me
2) he lied to her and i lied to her (we secretly talked and dated behind her backk)
3) she says he has issues
4) she thinks i cant handle it on my own and that ive hurt my whole family by lying to them.
im not sure how i can convince her. ive tried talking to her but we end up yelling at each other every time!!! its so gay. i wanna have my family and my ex but i only get one in the end....so how can i convince my mom to let me talk to him again??

2007-12-13 03:22:39 · 6 answers · asked by Halley T 2 in Singles & Dating

wit me my dad said its because he might of have another girlfriend and he dont wont her to she me with him so i dont know what to think somebody please help me or relationship is on the line.

2007-12-13 03:21:24 · 4 answers · asked by meme 1 in Singles & Dating

good or bad .. both are fine

2007-12-13 03:18:59 · 13 answers · asked by fedor_fan 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-12-13 03:18:36 · 6 answers · asked by mehdi 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 17 year old female..and feel utterly disappointed with the life I'm leading. Whenever I go out I meet drop dead gorgeous guys...but once you get to know them you realize that god's graced them with looks and given'em no brains! I feel fed up, even when I talk to guys my age, they all aim on drinking smoking and competing with who has the cutest girl. I don't feel cute, and even so If I do I don't like to flaut it out! I'd like to meet a guy who finds pleasure in simple stuff..for ex watching a DVD, or going out for long walks in freezing weather and tons of clothes :)) I enjoy being anywhere as long as I'm enjoying with whom I am, but this person doesn't seem to exist..and I'm frustrated now more then ever when all my friends are all dating and I cant even find just one person to comprehend what I'm feeling!! anyways with all this talkin I'm doing..is there someone who is feeling the same way I feel?? and if guys are reading this what do you actually find annoying in this lifest

2007-12-13 03:16:52 · 12 answers · asked by Amelie' 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-12-13 03:14:01 · 16 answers · asked by Sweetgirl 3 in Singles & Dating

wouldl you rather just go for it
OR
do things to get in the mood then after your ready go for it???

wondering b/c i was hearing about this on the radio that most men just want to jump in the sack right away and most dont even care if the lady is in the mood.

2007-12-13 03:13:42 · 14 answers · asked by TTC #2 Baby Dust MEEE! 5 in Singles & Dating

a guy friend of mine tells me that he is frightened of seeing me, his words are he doesn't know whether he would be able to resist me? what should i make of this??

2007-12-13 03:13:19 · 6 answers · asked by Loli 2 in Singles & Dating

What do you all do with an OBNOXIOUS family member ?
Besides trying to ignore her?

2007-12-13 03:10:37 · 14 answers · asked by jalady 6 in Family

i met a boy in net since 6 months he proposed me i don't like love but not to hurt him i accepted his love he says that to wait 3 years to compete his studies & my studies and he should get a job to ask my father our caste & native place is same he gave me promise on his mother he will take care of me still his last breath but I love my parents much I can’t go against to them when i use to talk with him i feel that i am cheating my parents to check his character i talked with him through another id much vulgarly he didn't talked with me in that id & lastly he came to known that id is mine and he didnt said any thing even he didn't became serious on me Instead of that he felt happy that just to known about him i had taken great risk for that he felt happy ok i like him but mind says something and my heart says something what should u do if your in my place .

2007-12-13 03:05:12 · 3 answers · asked by harini H 1 in Family

ok this is going to sounds strange
last week I was snooping(i know its wrong) in boyfriends email account. (We live together) and I found out that he made an account on a website for gay guys. he had pictures of his penis posted as a profile. he also had a secret email account where he was talking about blow jobs with some person. I comfronted him about it and he said he was embarrased and that he did it because he wanted to know he was sexy still (because i dont make him feel sexy) and that hedid it on a gay web site because he felt like it wasnt cheating because hes not gay if he had of done it where girls would reply that would be cheating. he promised to stop and not do it anymore. but i continued to snoop and found that emails were still being checked in both the secret account and the gay site account. he told me that he promised he wasnt checking them. and then yesterday I found another profile of him on a dating website (woman) he said he didnt make it but it had same passwor

2007-12-13 03:05:06 · 63 answers · asked by crazylady 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm in my late twenties and I had a kid from my previous boyfriend when I was twenty years-old . I am "fidanzata" (unofficially engaged) with my boyfriend for 4 years now. He is from Caltagirone. He told me that I am the woman he have always dreamed of, that he gets along with me very well physically, intellectually and emotionally. Recently we started talking about taking the relationship to the next level. He told me that he loves me but that it would be a shame and dishonor for a Sicilian man to marry a woman who already has children. Furthermore, he said, that if he will marry me, then he has to be ready for his family to disown him and his friends to ridicule him. I know he loves me both in words and in actions. But he seems to be torn between being "dishonored" and being with the woman he "loves". It sounds like in the middle ages and I don't understand this way of thinking. What do you think of this "excuse"?

2007-12-13 03:04:50 · 6 answers · asked by Lev Davidovich ;) 3 in Singles & Dating

like should i tell her dont have sex or what?

2007-12-13 03:03:54 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There are two visitors (girls) from Jamaica that are living right across the road from me until January. One night, I decide that I'm going to the clubz, simply because there's nothing else to do, and giving the fact that they're visitors and doesn't know the place at all, and love to dance, and they're usually bored, I ask if they wanna come along, and they decide they'll come with me to the clubz. It wouldn't be a bad thing if they pay their way inside, right?

2007-12-13 03:02:30 · 13 answers · asked by Ryder 1 in Singles & Dating

After nearly five years of being with his live-in girlfriend, my dear friend is going to ask for her hand in marriage. He doesn't want to do it in their house because he feels it's tacky, so he's taking her out to a fancy steak house. The question is this: How should he pop the question without help from the restaurant staff? Any unique ideas on how to present the ring? I've suggested the wine glass or dessert cart ideas, but he isn't keen on those. He also isn't the type to get on his knee and publically humiliate himself, so for him to want to do this out in public at all is amazing. Thanks everyone, in advance! Let's help my buddy out please!

2007-12-13 03:00:56 · 14 answers · asked by Marina 7 in Weddings

Hi,

Is there anything that I could do to try to mend the relationship between my bf and my family.

Here are the facts:
When I was pregnant my bf dumped me and when he tried to get back with me my family (mom and sister) would not let him near me. Out of stupidity and bad advise I terminated my pregnancy. When my bf found out he got really upset at me and my family (mother and sister) but we got back together without my family knowing. Two weeks after we got back together when he was drunk he hit me for doing what I did and I had to tell my father. My father got very disappointment in me and but has been understanding.

Now that we want to try to work it out again I don't know what to do to keep both my family and him happy. I don't know how to approach my parents about me trying to get back with him.

Is there a right way to try to fix this? How long after all this should I wait to approach my parents?

Thanks for your help.

2007-12-13 02:58:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

will you pray for me? My mother died unexpectedly on Nov. 2, 2007, and EXACTLY 30 days later, on Dec. 2, 2007, my brother was killed in an automobile accident. I have never felt such grief in my entire life. We called each other every day; now my phone is silent. When it does ring, I run to it, and then remember that it's not them calling. I have the most wonderful husband in all the world but he can't dry this river of tears. I miss my mother and brother so much, will you please say a prayer or offer me a kind word of comfort? Thank you so much.

2007-12-13 02:57:18 · 21 answers · asked by Laredo 7 in Family

1.Do you like your guy ...
A) Slim
B) Muscular
C) Average
D) Thick


2. Do you prefer a guy's hair to be...
A.) Long
B.) Short
C.) Medium
D) Don't Care

3. Favorite color for male
A.) Blond
B.) Black
C.) Brown
D.) Red


4. Would you rather have a guy with__________penis?
A) 5-6"
B) 6-7"
C)7-8"
D)8-9"
E)9+

5) Favorite Eye color on male
A.) Blue
B) Green
C) Brown
D) Hazel

6) Would you rather have a guy have...
A) Money
B) Brains
C) Looks
D) Sense of Humor

7) What is your favorite style on a guy...
A.) Prep
B) Emo/Skater
C) Gangster
D) Goth


If you add "other" --specify!

2007-12-13 02:56:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

1.Do you like your guy ...
A) Slim
B) Muscular
C) Average
D) Thick


2. Do you prefer a guy's hair to be...
A.) Long
B.) Short
C.) Medium
D) Don't Care

3. Favorite color for male
A.) Blond
B.) Black
C.) Brown
D.) Red


4. Would you rather have a guy with__________penis?
A) 5-6"
B) 6-7"
C)7-8"
D)8-9"
E)9+

5) Favorite Eye color on male
A.) Blue
B) Green
C) Brown
D) Hazel

6) Would you rather have a guy have...
A) Money
B) Brains
C) Looks
D) Sense of Humor

7) What is your favorite style on a guy...
A.) Prep
B) Emo/Skater
C) Gangster
D) Goth


If you add "other" --specify!

2007-12-13 02:55:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Artsy friend got married, didnt even know she was engaged. Looking for something local to Denver to order her a $50 GC for, and looking for store ideas. She's in her 30's so probably has the basics already and have ruled out just giving $$$.

2007-12-13 02:54:33 · 4 answers · asked by lillilou 7 in Weddings