2007-12-13 03:18:36 · 6 answers · asked by mehdi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to give us more details..... if you been "whipped" up until now in your relationship, GOOOD FREAKIN luck trying to get control now hahahhaha
2007-12-13 03:21:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what do you mean? What exactly is it you are trying to control?
You can't control your GF, just as you can't control your parents, your brother, your next door neighbor or me. You can only control yourself and your reactions to what others do.
Is your GF stepping out on you? Then break up with her, that's how you control the relationship in that instance.
I'm afraid you have to post just a few more details if you don't find any answers that help you.
2007-12-13 03:25:36 · answer #2 · answered by Invisigoth 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A healthy relationship is all about give and take. Neither of you should be in charge or in control of the relationship! My boyfriend and I have butted heads for years because we both wanted to be in control. What we've realized after 6 years is that we have to give in at times and not be so commanding of each other to make it work.
2007-12-13 03:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by myluv115 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A relationship is a two way street not about control and manipulation! It wouldnt worked that way. It's give and take - both parties would put 100% effort making a relationship worked!
2007-12-13 03:27:32 · answer #4 · answered by mitchchan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither is suppose to have 'control'! its not a game or who scores the most points. Its suppose to be about finding happiness together not control. Control leads to resentments that lead to bitterness that in the end kill the relationship. Dude if you are thinking like that just quit cause neither of you are going to be happy.
2007-12-13 03:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by 2legit2quit 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No one should have control of a relationship. They work MUCH better when they are mutual.
2007-12-13 03:25:32 · answer #6 · answered by misselie1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋