There are two visitors (girls) from Jamaica that are living right across the road from me until January. One night, I decide that I'm going to the clubz, simply because there's nothing else to do, and giving the fact that they're visitors and doesn't know the place at all, and love to dance, and they're usually bored, I ask if they wanna come along, and they decide they'll come with me to the clubz. It wouldn't be a bad thing if they pay their way inside, right?
2007-12-13 03:02:30 · 13 answers · asked by Ryder 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol...well you asked them...
2007-12-13 03:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by Wee Hen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you know there is a great club that you can take them to but there is a $? cover charge. That usually means that they have to pay. Then maybe inside buy their first drink. When me and friends go out we pay for ourselves or we each cover a round. Its only if your on a date with one, not two, that it would be a nice gesture to pay.
2007-12-13 11:07:29 · answer #2 · answered by solelone 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I were you I would look at what you can afford and either pay their way or maybe by them a drink inside. Show them some American hospitality if you are inviting them along.
2007-12-13 11:07:30 · answer #3 · answered by lucky_seville 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not if you are just doing it to be friendly. It is a very nice gesture.
But, if they insist on paying, don't argue. Some girls get nervous if a guy is paying, like they might be expecting something.
Have fun.
2007-12-13 11:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by Monica 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would be kind of you to pay? Your the man really...but make sure they don't trick you into you having to pay everything...make sure they pay some rounds for the drinks or food etc. don't let em walk all over ya!
2007-12-13 11:06:23 · answer #5 · answered by omar 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They should pay! Just say something beforehand like, "hey, by the way, the cover charge to get in is $___". They should get the hint from this.
2007-12-13 11:09:55 · answer #6 · answered by *Almost ready* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right its not bad at all just ask them if they dont mind if you pay there way there visitors you know well give it a shot
2007-12-13 11:07:14 · answer #7 · answered by lourdes g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If its a date then yes! If your just asking as friends and trying to get them out of the house, then they should pay their own way, I would!
2007-12-13 11:06:35 · answer #8 · answered by firegirl0514 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're asking them to join you. It's your responsibility to pay. If they had to pay, that would be like inviting them over for dinner, and then expecting them to cook the dinner.
2007-12-13 11:08:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude if you can, just pay. If not don't go to clubz
2007-12-13 11:05:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You should clarify early who is paying, or assume you are. I assume any time I invite someone to something that I am paying.
2007-12-13 11:06:38 · answer #11 · answered by lifecoachmike 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋