I'm a 17 year old female..and feel utterly disappointed with the life I'm leading. Whenever I go out I meet drop dead gorgeous guys...but once you get to know them you realize that god's graced them with looks and given'em no brains! I feel fed up, even when I talk to guys my age, they all aim on drinking smoking and competing with who has the cutest girl. I don't feel cute, and even so If I do I don't like to flaut it out! I'd like to meet a guy who finds pleasure in simple stuff..for ex watching a DVD, or going out for long walks in freezing weather and tons of clothes :)) I enjoy being anywhere as long as I'm enjoying with whom I am, but this person doesn't seem to exist..and I'm frustrated now more then ever when all my friends are all dating and I cant even find just one person to comprehend what I'm feeling!! anyways with all this talkin I'm doing..is there someone who is feeling the same way I feel?? and if guys are reading this what do you actually find annoying in this lifest
2007-12-13 03:16:52 · 12 answers · asked by Amelie' 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-12-13 03:29:55 · update #1
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2007-12-13 03:20:21 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are putting to much emphasis on finding a "drop dead gorgeours guy". Haven't you realized that if a guy looks that good, he is going to care more about himself than you. Yeah I am disapointed I can't find any playboy playmates that are available. LOL!! Maybe you are just looking for the wrong attributes in a guy. Also, you may be trying to hard. You are hardly ever going to find someone worth while by going to bars or clubs. I am not saying you should start looking for trolls under bridges or whatever. It seems like you find the best people when you aren't looking at all. Stop obsessing over the fact that your friends are dating and you are not. You can't base your happiness off of what your friends are doing. Yes there are guys out there like what you are looking for. Your young just chill and enjoy what you have and the rest will fall into place. You can't be happy with someone else till you are happy with yourself.
2007-12-13 03:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well
yeah i understnd u .
im goin thru the same thing
but im 16. im single for like 2 years now.
and i dnt like being just like frnds with a guy and doing things with him without going out
but most guys that r good looking and know it. they use that against grls. cuz if one grl doesnt give him some he KNOWS that he will get some from some other grl
thats how guys become players
bbut hun u cnt look at a guys face to get to know him
i've met some really sexy guys and i agree they have like **** on their head. --> no brains at all
guys who are not so " hot" are the nicest ppl around.
dont evr evr go for looks in a guy
cuz he will take what he wants from u and levae nothing for u to have.
( personal experiance.)
just try to meet guys who are " weird" they might just turn out to be the love of ur life.
hard to belive i know. but really.
dont go for looks
its the inside that counts
and yeah those guys to exist.
i met one
except our diff and other stuff keeps us from ever being together
but he gave me hope that nice guyys DO exist
they've just been given a really bad imagine by the assholes out there.
so good luck
keep searching
ur prince charming is there <3
2007-12-13 03:25:24 · answer #3 · answered by crazygrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, you'll be dealing with this for another couple of years; it's an age thing. Don't be a lemming; just because all your friends have boyfriends doesn't mean you need one. They just haven't developed an idea of what they want and don't want like you have. Why not focus on your studies? Maybe the guy you're looking for is focused on his own schooling, and you haven't noticed him yet. Your life has just begun, so you still have time. (I didn't find the guy of my dreams until I was 26 ... but I didn't worry about it because I knew he was out there and I just had to find him!)
2007-12-13 03:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by xK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's kinda tough, in my opinion to find a girl that has all the qualities im looking for theyre already with someone.
Im guessing in your situation, its almost hard to find someone like that because they are with someone already.
My suggestion is try to be less shallow lol. I mean you said all the gorgeous guys you see are dumbasses well because they know they can get a lot from their looks. A lot of guys exist like that you need to get a wider view on the way you look.
I love doing what you said because its romantic and its not complicated to do. I find simplicity is the best course of action for romantic adventures.
2007-12-13 03:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by R-Jay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi :) specific they actually do. I used to think of what you think of, you realize that those style of fellows have been in simple terms created by utilising movies and love songs to make us desire for something extra powerful that would not exist. yet after being with my boyfriend I do have faith that there are adult men like that - yet they particularly are uncommon. My boyfriend is each thing you in simple terms describe, yet i've got particularly never been lifeless ill sufficient to appreciate if he will stay by utilising me :P, yet i'm specific he will :) and that i do no longer possibly trust what 'no answer' reported, i'm specific there are effective adult men who're no longer desperate and searching for the different good individual :) So don't be disenchanted! If my boyfriend is that way, there are certainly different adult men that way too! no longer something in the universe ever basically happens as quickly as :)
2016-10-11 05:07:42 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wouldn't want to show off your cute feminine side?
Well, there's your problem. Guys are drawn to girls who are feminine.
I personally would love NOTHING more than to cuddle with a girl and watch a movie. Especially if its raining outside *sigh*.
It will not get better any time soon. In college, the guys are usually worse. They are shallower, dumbed, boorish and immature.
After college, all the good ones are married or taken.
2007-12-13 03:23:01 · answer #7 · answered by IrishFan2011 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It just shows that you are an intelligent and mature women, who realizes that she doesn't have to settle for the morons out there. You'll find that person. He may not be "drop dead gorgeous", but he'll be beautiful to YOU; which is all that matters.
2007-12-13 03:37:00 · answer #8 · answered by CatNip 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, we av all bin thr an that guy does exist but fate will bring you together an when it does all ur mates will still be goin out with people that aint right for them wile you will have sum1 thats perfect for you and it may even help them get thr perfect guy lol
2007-12-13 03:37:43 · answer #9 · answered by lilhails 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to reality, why should you feel that you have to exploited, like a tennis bracelet... when dealing with these prima donnas. Then again, why be disappointed. there are guys out there ( i'm one) that think like you.... just live your life and think of yourself as a treasure, just waiting to be found... have a pleasant day.
2007-12-13 03:32:35 · answer #10 · answered by john w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is such a guy, i found one, he loves to do all the stuff you mentioned and more, he even suggests we do those things. just keep looking you'll find your guy.good luck
2007-12-13 03:25:21 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋