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2007-12-13 03:23:36 · 23 answers · asked by YOCRAPSMAN 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He'd better pay if he is hoping to get another date.
This is part of the chase, when man does the work, and woman presents a reward.
2007-12-13 03:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
we dont expect him to but if he does then we like him all the more. Guys have a more dominant and controlling attitude and so i say... you take charge over the bill! It is not cheap it is common courtesy... this was never a question until this generation. Men used to be the ones with the jobs and therefore they would be the ones paying and i guess it just lived on even thought women have jobs and equal education as well now. If you dont offer to at least pay your half then you are extremely rude. You should offer to pay for the whole dinner... because it is just an unwritten rule.. most good girls dont like guys who dont act like gentlemen
2007-12-13 11:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by MysteryGirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's common courtesy to pay when you ask a lady to dinner! If you don't want to pay, take her somewhere else or let her know ahead of time that the two of you should pay for yourselves.
Sounds like you might be slightly cheap yourself, and that's a turn off.
my question is, why do MEN want the best of both worlds? They want women to pay for dinner, but do the housework too?
2007-12-13 11:35:59 · answer #3 · answered by myluv115 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not all women feel this way. As a general rule of society the person who asks should be expected to pay...of course another arrangement could be worked out later if need be. I personally dont feel comfortable having people pay for me unless i know that i will have the opportunity to reciprocate at a later time. But there are women out there that do expect the man to pay because they feel thats the way it should be. But again there women out there that dont feel that way at all...my advice find one of those. On the other hand if you feel shes worth it...pay for her and dont complain..maybe you get what you pay for?
2007-12-13 11:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by imaginadia510 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if the man asked for the date, he should not necessarily always have to pay the entire bill but at the very least make the offer and come prepared to.
Same goes for a woman. If the date offers, that is great but if not, you should not feel cheated.
2007-12-13 11:32:38 · answer #5 · answered by tinyavenger 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all women think that. Some of us like to pay our own way, tell me this. Why do some men feel that because they pay for dinner, they deserve a little "something" in return huh....just wondering.
2007-12-13 11:32:46 · answer #6 · answered by kharilli 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that a test to see if the know who to get to a women heart or Maybe they do not have the money to pay for dinner because you take to a real nice place
2007-12-13 11:32:44 · answer #7 · answered by Sum H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time I went out with my bf I asked him ahead of time how much he thought I should bring for dinner...this let him know that I did not expect him to pay my way.
He of course took the check and paid forcably
2007-12-13 11:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by Hannah L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's custom that's why. However in our everchanging world there are groups of women that make have a higher income than their male counterparts, but I don't think that will translate into change anytime soon. But yeah I think it's just courtesy, and custom. That's my answer.
2007-12-13 11:33:39 · answer #9 · answered by Weapon S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think whoever asked for the date should pay. It's kind of rude to ask someone to dinner, then ask them to pay for their meal, whether it is a man or a woman.
2007-12-13 11:29:12 · answer #10 · answered by daisyaj 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋