How often do you and your mate have sexual relations?

Answer 1

As often as we can.......

Answer 2

3-4 times a year and that's a good year. There is no more sexual attraction in our relationship, zero. It's sad and it's taken a terrible toll. I have tried, I have layed out sexy lingerie for her to wear and I have told her how beautiful she is and i truely believe it, and she's always too tired for me at the end of the day. I have given up, it's a lot easier emotionally to not have sex then to be turned down 99.9% of the time. Sorry for the sob story.

By the way, we're only 32 years old.

We have someone come in and clean the house once a week and in the mean time I do 50% of the house work and if she has a lot of 'at home' work to do, i make dinner and complete her chores, and as my priority and duty as a parent, i really, really help raise our son. I can assure you that I am not a slouch and I offer equal responsibility. I have tried the flowers, I have taken her to dinner, the sweet talk, the dirty talk, the romancing, hell, I have done it all to minimal avail. That is why I have given up, I don't think she is attracted to me anymore, if I walk around the house naked, yes, my son is in bed during these times, she tells me to put some clothes on. I'm 6'0", 205 pounds with a very muscular athletic build, SHE IS NOT ATTRACTED TO ME ANYMORE!!!

Answer 3

He is out of town on business a lot, but I think about it 3-4 times a day. I make up for it 5-6 times in a day when he is home...I think the norm is couples should be intimate 3-4 times a week in a healthy relationship. ASK DR PHIL LOL

Answer 4

Man, I thought I had it bad with only once a month. I feel your pain Fatherof1. No matter what I do or say we still do it once a month, usually just to keep me quiet. She really just seems to never be in the mood. Every time I try to bring it up, she says I need to be patient and that it will get better. It's been about 7 years now with no change at all.

Answer 5

To Fatherof1 and Grmpy...

If she is too tired all the time, hire a helper, a live-in one if you have to! There is no way women should have to work outside the home, come in and take care of things that use to take a good wife the whole day back when women DIDN'T work, and THEN still feel, and be, sexy enough to give it up on demand! Imagine if you as a man had to do all that?

I fully intend to hire permanent household help so when me, future hubby, and kids get in, house is already clean and food is already cooked. It's not even healthy to be eating after 7pm anyway, that's why the country is getting fat.

Also, I know it's hard, but PLEASE consider how UGLY a woman feels when her body was firm and great and everything gets ultra-soft and breasts sag after breastfeeding...worse if she had a c-section and has a scar...you believe she's sexy, and she WANTS to believe she is, but the evidence of her before and after pictures are there to contradict...

Just keeping finding different ways to show she's sexy...never get tired of helping her rebuild that confidence in her ability to attract you...if she wants to do it with lights off...hey, let the lights be off, and explore every inch. TRIPLE UP on foreplay...esp. when kids are in the picture there are so many things on a woman's mind, and we all know sex starts for a woman in her mind.

Start dating her...make all the arrangements for a sitter yourself and just surprise her one friday night...tell her she has an hour to shower and get sexy cause we're going out...do something thrilling that gets the energy and the feelings from when you guys were dating...or do a weekend getaway from the job/house/bills/everything and take her somewhere where the only thing you guys have to focus on, is each other.

Pick up slack around the house. If she's breastfeeding, kiss her and the baby while it's happening. Flirt! Do things without her having to tell you...cook (if you can't cook order something healthy)...definitely if women have to work and deal with family, the less time-consuming chores they have to deal with, the better.

And maybe see if you can even turn her on in her sleep when her defenses are down. (I loved it when my ex did that to me, anyway.)

Don't give up, don't cheat...just do a lot of romancing. And be honest with her in a caring, loving way "look, baby, I know you don't feel comfortable with how you look, and sometimes you're tired from work and stuff, but I still find you sexy as sh*t and I can't turn my d*ck off and I NEED to have sex with you, you're my WIFE and I love being close to you..."

And both of you join the gym together, one with a kid zone so the baby or kid can be supervised for an hour, and go work out after work. You may not need it, but it's going look real f*cking rude if you tell her to go on her own...when she's doing the step classes and getting more in shape, her confidence and stamina will return. And you will have even more energy to deal with the result!

Seriously, I think i would be a guy's lady in the streets and freak in the sheets if after marriage and children we had: TONS of foreplay, hired household help, and a serious gym buddy at a gym with a kid zone!

Answer 6

Whenever we are in the mood!
It ranges from 3-8 times a week!
You have to have a good sexual relationship with your spouse to keep the marriage happy!

Answer 7

My wife and I have been married for 38 years and we get it on 2 to 3 times a week and it gets better each time

Answer 8

i think of you may desire to attempt via drawing near her on a diverse point. %. up some sensual rubdown oil at the two the well being food (hippie) organic and organic keep, or the flavored variety from the naughty save. whilst she complains that she's so drained after a hard day, grant to grant her a rubdown. you already know your lady greater valuable, and you will be able to ought to start with a foot rubdown with lotion and after a number of those, artwork your way into giving a returned rubdown. yet save all of it company. do no longer even act such as you're involved interior the sexual ingredient. whilst she thank you you, only tell her you're happy you should help loosen up her a sprint and leave it at that. yet another solid thank you to circulate is via having a bubble tub working with candles lit whilst she gets domicile. tell her to have a sturdy soak and you will initiate dinner. returned, do no longer develop intercourse. even if is going on along with her maximum appropriate now it somewhat is making her prefer to maintain her palms to herself she'll choose your help via. it could make an effort, yet quickly sufficient she'll be gentle sufficient returned to ask you into that bathtub along with her. And after that happens, save the ball in her courtroom. enable her initiate. and then, while you're using those flavored oils on her returned, you could possibly kiss her pores and skin softly on her shouders. yet watch for her to make the 1st circulate. in case you think of she's very well worth the wait, then you particularly could even locate you savour the intimacy without the intercourse too.

Answer 9

It just depends on our daily mood, it can be anywhere from 1-4 times a week.

Answer 10

Whenever the mood strikes us. Could be 10x a week, could be once a week. Who cares how often, as long as it feels good?

Answer 11

On a good month, once or twice. It isn't enough for me, but it's all she is "in the mood" for.