im not talking about sex, and i don't want to be flirtatious, but how can i use my brain and body to make him want me more?
2007-12-13 06:28:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have just what you mean, non-sexual, not flirting directly or even indirectly (meaning no flirting at all really).. It will look innocent and natural.
The male species are known for wanting what they cant have.. Be irresistible but don't give in that you like him. The result? Like bees to honey.
Don't seem available at all times, but don't seem rude or sport an attitude as he will take it offensively.
Sexy clothes? Yes that get get the lust out of some guys but you needn't have to even change the things you normally wear.
Flick you hair, put one leg slightly in front of the other to give you that bit of 'swish' when you walk, twirl your hair around your fingers, gently bite the tip of your pen when concentrating on work, do these like you are doing it without noticing yourself. That will give him lust.
Give him an argument. I don't mean start a serious shouting match, but guys will get bored of a 'yes' girl. Find something you disagree on and can argue about without actually offending either of you. Can be as simple as ice cream flavours. Thats the using your brain part, to show him you have your own opinions. Following on, introduce him to something new, such as a topic, question or even hobbie to get him thinking. This way he will see you as not only as an object of desire but smart and intresting which will add to the high intensity of the 'you want what you cant have' aspect.
Expose your secret areas
I dont mean the obvious female 'secret areas', these areas are the ones which are usually unexposed such as the inner wrist, side of your neck, collar bone and etc. These secret zones are usually not on show and will, even without him knowing, get him thinking. Stroking these areas, the inner wrist being the easiest will indicate your nice to touch.. but he cant touch...
Good luck!
2007-12-13 06:36:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hard tellin. Since the 10 commandments leave out the whole lust thing (I don't consider coveting as lust - more often than not the difference between coveting and a notch on the bedpost is 1 well chosen bottle of liquor - with regards to sex of course)...and since God hasn't given us any guidance on the subject in the last couple millenniums, it seems to me to be a judgment call. From the standpoint of those that translated sin from the words of God, I imagine they had the acts themselves in mind. Meaning - if you are admiring how beautiful a female acquaintance looks in the foreground of a lovely sunset, that is simply thanking God for extraordinary scenery. However, if your gonna pull your pud to the thought of one of your naked gal pals, that's more like peeing on the tulips in God's front yard. IMHO if you aren't hurting anyone, then you aren't doing anything wrong. But....what if our actions hurt God? Well, I would hope he'd send out an updated memo if this were the case.
2016-04-09 01:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm its more about how YOU feel about yourself!!
Body confidence and confidence generally are incredibly sexy - make sure everything about you is as perfect as can be, then forget any faults you may percieve you have and go and have fun!!
2007-12-13 06:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by Sal*UK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lust is sex. If you want him to lust after you, dress more provocatively. If you want it to last though, be yourself. He will no longer be interested if he thinks you are one thing and then *poof* your something else once you get him.
2007-12-13 06:36:32 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Start dressing sexier and let other guys notice you. Make him chase you. Let him see you with other guys and he will start to feel like he is losing out.
2007-12-13 06:41:53 · answer #5 · answered by Jim 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
wear a tight, really really low cut shirt, short skirt. if u don't have one that low. then take a low cut shirt u do have and cut it lower and wider at the top. expose over half of ur ****
2007-12-13 06:39:03 · answer #6 · answered by Spartan-051 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Lust is powered by visual stimuli, so get wearing something sexy... find out what he likes and wear it ;-)
2007-12-13 06:31:33 · answer #7 · answered by Kieran B 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't be available all the time. respect yourself. love yourself. don't act clingy or needy
2007-12-13 06:32:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
crutchless bikini
2007-12-13 06:32:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
hey plum why don't you put a spell on him....lol
=)
2007-12-13 06:38:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋