I broke up with my ex about 3 months ago and he has way moved on, like getting married moved on, ad i was so busy concerned about him and what not that i completely lost my mind.. now that im moved on myself i realize how many guys like me. and as i am not looking for a relationship right now since i just moved on, is it wrong of me to just have fun and see as many of them as i want, i will let them know that i am not going to be in a relationship with any of them and that i want to keep my options open for a while but will that make me a hoe? i am a very sexual person and i enjoy my sexuality. Im not saying im going to go sleep with 3 or 4 guys in one day, but would it be bad of me to have 2 or 3 guys im seeing at the ame time as long as they all know that im not into anything serious and they know what im doing, and i use protection every time.... i havent done this yet for fear of looking like a sl ut. I am sleeing with one person at the time who knows what im about right now
2007-12-13 06:28:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i wanna know why if a guy would say or do all this, he is a big ole macho stud, and yet there are people on here calling you a s*l*u*t...i say go for it, do it while you are young and ABLE to do it single and free...just please make sure you are safe! i have to say i'm a little jealous of those good ole days!
2007-12-13 06:42:42 · answer #1 · answered by loriloriloriloriv 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, sleeping w/ different guys makes you a s lu t, whether one at a time or 2-3 at a time. That is how STD's get spread around.
You say you want to have fun, but sex blurs the picture. If you can keep it together, go out w/ these guys and have fun, but don't have sex. Save that one special thing for Mr. Right.
2007-12-13 06:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by Sugar Pie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-11 03:41:59 · answer #3 · answered by veloso 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to have casual encounters like this, please be honest with the people you sleep with. They need to know that you're sleeping with other people (no, you don't need to reveal names). You should also find out from them if they are sleeping with other people as well, if they've been regularly tested for HIV and other STDs. Also, insist on birth control every time. I would recommend using both a hormonal version (pill, patch, ring, etc.) AND a condom. You need to stay safe.
2007-12-13 06:41:06 · answer #4 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey there, just to let you know that i think that itwould be good and quite therapeutic for you to have some casual experiences, so long as, like you say, you use protection every time and no one ends up getting hurt.
i think that so long as everybody is happy with the whole thing then go ahead and have your fun!!
2007-12-13 06:35:23 · answer #5 · answered by charli 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't a slut unless you commit to one of them and still see other guys. Have fun but let them know you are not looking to be serious. If they want to spend time and $ on you, so be it. Just don't get a disease!
2007-12-13 06:38:16 · answer #6 · answered by general_jimbo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
protection is the biggest thing other then that you do you nothing is wrong with that as long as everyone is on the same page you know walking into it with eyes wide open you feel me just be careful
2007-12-13 06:38:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never wrong to have fun but as long as you know how to take care of yourself and remember, there is always a limit.
2007-12-13 06:44:43 · answer #8 · answered by me_eressea 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WELL DO YOU HAVE ANY FRIENDS LIKE YOU IF YOU DO PLEASE E-MAIL ME AT OCELOTL805@YAHOO.COM OR IF U WOULD LIKE TO DO THAT WITH ME IM TOTALY UP TO IT I THINK THAT IS A TURN ON
2007-12-13 06:38:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋