I'm a seventeen year old that is in love with a guy older than me, one of my great good friends she is called my wife because i'm bi and she's straight its a little joke me and her have. She doesn't want me to runaway she wants me to stay but its hard not to cry if i do go and when i go...Help Me!!!
2007-12-13 06:46:38 · 13 answers · asked by Babygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Grow up, Baby Girl! Try to be mature and decisive: you risk hurting not only yourself but others.
2007-12-13 06:50:50 · answer #1 · answered by colonel138 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
You are all messed up! First of all, being "bi" is just asking for a miserable life and don't tell me you were born that way. That's just a crock of BS..Second of all, you are still a teenager and sure don't need to be running away...with or from anyone. If the guy is older than you, then you are just jail bait for him . Where would you go? What would you live on? Where would you stay? How would you pay for it? Where can you work that will support you? What you going to do when he dumps you for the next underage girl? You need to stay home, obey your parents, get an education and grow up!!! Kids who have no common sense and are willing to mess up their whole lives before they even grow up just make blood shoot out my eyes.
2007-12-13 07:01:15 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
i think you are in a bad situation here, there is nothing wrong with being in love with an older guy but if i were you i would look at the cause and effect pros and cons stuff like that.I left home when i was 17 and ended up growing up too fast and found out the grass wasn't exactually greener on the other side i would talk to someone like family and if u feel they don't care or understand talk with someone non-judgemental both of u maybe a therapist or a open-minded person who doesn't know you
2007-12-13 06:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by babydoll12383 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Listen to your wife!! LOL, seriously you have your whole life in front of you stay in school you've worked so hard to just throw it away. You don't need to be with an older man right now make some goals, have some fun, don't grow up so fast.
2007-12-13 06:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by Loli 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dont run away with him, straighten your life out and get an education.Then choose a gender since you wont be able to raise a family normally with both a man and a woman in your bedroom.
2007-12-13 07:01:39 · answer #5 · answered by Joe F 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, think about it, your 17y/o, why dont you just finish your last year of school, and then go with this man, that way it also gives you time to see how the relationship will grow, which gives you more time to see if u guys will be good together if you leave. then, if your not, instead of being by yourself and stuck in some city, bc you and him broke up, you can still be where you feel comfortable, among your friends, and not regret this later in life!
2007-12-13 06:51:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
MM... I HAVE ROSSED THIS STAGE DEAR... I WAS IN 17 THEN AND MY BF THEN WANTED ME TO ELOPE,,,, BUT MY PARENTS SAVED ME.. AND NOW AT THE AGE OF 23 AM GONNA MARRY A TRUE LOVE.... A TRUE LOVE WILL CARE FOR PARENTS DEAR... PEOPLE WHO ELOPE DONT THINK ABOUT ANYTHING ELSE... THEIR EYES ARE BLIND FOR LOVE... COME OUT.. THINK OF EVERYTHING AROUND YOU.. AND U R BRILLIANT DEAR....
THINK WITH UR HEAD AND NOT HEART... U ARE SPECIAL AND ARE BOUND TO LIVE, DO U WANT TO ELOPE AND STRUGGLE WITH THIS GUY OR LIVE UR LIFE WELL..
IF U REALLY LUV THIS GUY...
PLAN UR LIFE WITH HIM... SEE TO IT THAT U PEOPLE CONTINUE TO BE IN LOVE AND PLAN SOME TIME.. SAY 3 OR 4 YEARS.. WHERE YOU BOTH GET PROFESSIONALLY, FINANCIALLY AND PERSONALLY STABLE TO RUN A LIFE...
MARRIAGE IS NOT EASY DEAR, IT NEEDS LOTS OF BASEWORK... OPEN YOUR EYES AND SEE THE WORLD.... OUR WORLD IS A TOUGH PLACE
NOT GONA TELL U MORE , THINK
I WAS SAVED, I WANT U TO BE SAVED TOOOOOOOO DEAR
U R PRECIOUS SWEETY......
2007-12-13 07:15:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think u should stay w/ ur wife! i have a poblem w/ my wife 2! its a joke like u and ur wife. shes interested in a guy who is a senior and a 36 yearold... but there real people! im interested in a guy whos 29 but hes famous! babygirl!!! stay wit ur wife!
2007-12-13 07:23:42 · answer #8 · answered by Karma's A Trip 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sugar, you need to decide who you love the most and quit messing around with the other. You are basically cheating on both of them! Pick one and stick to one only!
2007-12-13 06:52:02 · answer #9 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
youre only 17, if you run away, what then? whats next? he may not even be your boyfriend for the next three months, who knows what could happen, youre leaving behind everything just for him?
2007-12-13 07:27:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋