My ex and i are still friends (well we still talk and there's no awkwardness in our interaction... we broke up about 2 months ago) I met up with him yesterday and decided to have sex with him. He said it might not be a good idea because he's afraid I'm going to get emotionally involved. I told him I have thought about it for a while and just wants something physical. I convinced him (took a good 2 minutes..:P). And after its' over. I don't feel bad whatsoever. Should i be?? I think I'm the type of person that thinks sex is just sex. I think I'm more okay with having sex with him than if we were to go on a trip together... am i weird?
and btw.. he was the one who broke it off. and I know we'll probably never get back together. not until he grows out of his immaturity.
2007-12-13 06:39:19 · 13 answers · asked by somegirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing wrong with sex as long as the both of you are both able to understand that it is just for the physical pleasure. Be careful, since while you may say that you are not thinking of it as more than sex, you may actually be hoping for more. Your last sentence makes me believe that this is actually bothering you more than you'd like to admit & that deep down you were maybe hoping that it'd make him come back or something.
Other than that, as long as you are safe (using protection & choosing partners wisely) there is nothing wrong with a little casual sex.
2007-12-13 06:44:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why feel bad? It's not like you beat the **** outta the guy you actually gave him pleasure I'm confused here. No, you should not feel bad for him, but maybe yourself for ******* the guy who broke it off with you? From the comment "It might not be a good idea" because he thought you would get emotionally involved, if you didn't get emotionally involved than there's nothing wrong.
2007-12-13 06:52:44 · answer #2 · answered by DavidC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're not bothered, why ask other people if you should be bothered? There are very few times in life when we engage in something that has no emotional backlash whatsoever. Why would you second guess such an advantage when you found it?
Happy Holidays
2007-12-13 06:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by Captain S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why should you feel bad? he is the perfect scrumpin partner. no strings attached. as long as you wont get attached, that is a beautiful thing :) so now whenever you are between boyfriends you have the good stuff waitin for you!
2007-12-13 06:49:01 · answer #4 · answered by hope2help 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no u shouldnt feel bad b/c u dont have to have feelns for sumone just to have sex and even tho yall not 2gether anymore it dont mean yall cant have fun
2007-12-13 06:45:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so are you wanting us to talk you into feeling bad or pat you on the back? Sounds like you are proud of it and wanting to brag on yahoo so why feel bad?
2007-12-13 06:44:19 · answer #6 · answered by Piparis 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if u don't feel bad the more power to u. there is nothing wrong w/ it. enjoy it while u can n u want to
2007-12-13 06:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by Kia B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can both be mature about it and keep it strictly on a f---buddy basis.
2007-12-13 06:46:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, you know each other well. You should have felt good and "it" should have felt good.
2007-12-13 06:57:32 · answer #9 · answered by CHARGER BLUE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Naw,,you were right to let him hit dat!!
You should let him hit it again soon.
2007-12-13 06:49:50 · answer #10 · answered by Michael 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋