hes been playing games with taking 52 days off from work in 05,in 06 the maritial relationship was burreling down the tubes-in 07 august-he claims voices and rats then recants-now after reading an article in the paper today his mom tells him honey i think this is what you had as a child only i didnt know.The divorce papers are to be deleivered tomorrow-and there isnt even one ounce left inside of me due to the nature of his lies,stealing,cheating and just plain meaness how wrong i was you think you would know someone but the last years have been torment and the last foour months terror-he's thrives in keeping me in fear-he has been caught following me to the store,stealing money from my purse and our seven year old piggy bank-and now he wants to claim its because of aspergers-not to mention that this dx was recent for our seven year old and hes having challenges-the to be ex wants to use this as a crutch what to be forgiven-does anyone understand this?can anyone help?
2007-12-13 06:57:24 · 9 answers · asked by resigned 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
its very hard at times to understand peoples motivation, and when you are a reasonable person it becomes even harder to understand and place your mind set into the bizzare world that you describe.
there are plain nasty people about, driven by many motives primarly jealousy and greed, my advise for what its worth , cut your losses....its hard to start over...but peace of mind and stability even with no dosh is perferable to fear and uncertainty....life is wonderful.....l know that seem hard now to accept....but think...what is it l want...and what do l have to do to get it....devise a plan then do it....you will surprise yourself...and be in control once moe.....best of luck to you...there is love in the world for everyone....
2007-12-13 07:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure a sweep would be nice so I wouldn't have to worry, but the ones that are 7 games are so intense, I love it! Personally, I would love to see the Twins pull off an almost exact repeat of the 1991 World Series, especially game 7. I would be a total wreck, but it would be worth it. I love it when the series is 7 games, plus whenever the Twins are in the World Series they always make it to game 7 anyways. If the Twins did do that, it would be my dream come true, (besides Gardy breaking the ejection record). My parents would probably have to lock me up to keep me from going insane. xP hahh.
2016-05-23 10:02:28 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aspbergers is a mild form of autism. If you really want to work your relationship out you both should seek professional help from a counsler. He should see someone on his own and then with you as a couple. If you really want to salvage your marriage you are going to need outside help, and he has got to want to get better. I can't tell you to leave or to stay. Do what is in your heart, but get prfessional help if you stay. Things can not continue for you as they have been!
2007-12-13 07:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by danielle 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are doing the right thing. A divorce is the only way out. Now maybe you can find a happy life.
2007-12-13 07:03:53 · answer #4 · answered by LDJ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't fall for it. For the sake of your child. Get out now. He would probably claim alien abduction if he thought it would help him continue to use you. Good luck
2007-12-13 07:08:06 · answer #5 · answered by nutsfornouveau 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the relationship and hope he gets the help he needs. You need to only be concerned with your son and getting him the help he needs.
2007-12-13 07:04:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the marriage and spend as little time with this man as possible. You owe him nothing.
2007-12-13 07:01:26 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥The Queen Has Spoken♥♥ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need a restrainging order and they do not care what medical issues he has.
2007-12-13 07:01:13 · answer #8 · answered by fantasy gal 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
divorce and don't look back sick *** whole..........good luck...
2007-12-13 07:31:36 · answer #9 · answered by daisy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋