Not complaining.....I actually kind of like it. I am just curious why men do it.
Guys- what is the driving force behind you smacking your gals butt? Is it an ownership thing? "That's mine!"??
Explain :D
2007-12-13 07:37:54 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Boobs and butt are the two features that distinguish women from men (or at least they should be.) It's something we learn to appreciate very early in life. I still remember a student teach I had when I was in third grade - I wouldn't have had much of a clue what to do with her butt (though it looked nice) but even at that age, I wanted to bury my face in her breasts.
2007-12-13 10:27:25 · answer #1 · answered by Spartacus! 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Not every guy is into that. I sure wouldn't smack a woman's butt unless I knew for sure it was okay. But I've not had the inclination to do so. I suppose it's a way to show affection like punching your guy friends in the arm or something. Many guys aren't real good in the communication department so they do the best they can. I think it means he's got some affection for you.
2007-12-13 07:43:20 · answer #2 · answered by DearAbby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not disrespectful but a little too much for others to witness. Sometimes I grab my fiance's butt or breasts when other men are staring too hard at her big breasts and round @ss. I tell her to dress more conservatively but she's only 23 so okay. As long as the couple is not french kissing and groping in public, then it's okay to grab a little butt. It's cute, actually.
2016-03-14 07:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is something sexy about the butt and the way it moves with a swift smack. Also I'll smack my wifes butt when I had a thought of her doing something naughty in the bedroom, but that's usually followed up with me taking her back there and doing that naughty deed.
2007-12-13 22:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by JONES 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that you probably have a pretty sweet butt and your man likes it a lot. I do the same thing to my wife, she has the sweetest rump I have ever seen, and I must smack it all the time, I just can't help myself. Glad to hear that there is a fellow rump lover out there!!
2007-12-13 07:42:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haha... My boyfriend does that to me alllll the time! If i get out of the car and walk away, I'll hear him running up behind me, and I can just feel it comming.. and what does he do? He smacks my butt. Lol.... I like it too :] I think it is definatly like a "thats mine" sort of gesture. I just return the favor to him somtimes.
2007-12-13 07:42:11 · answer #6 · answered by c.Love ♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my husband and i do it to each other all the time. usually it's just playful, other times it's definitely sexy. one time he smacked my butt when we were in the closet changing, and we ended up having sex right there on the floor. it was playful AND sexy. also has a lot to do with the sound - i think my husband is obsessed with getting the perfect *smack* (sometimes he'll even wet the tips of his fingers with water!)
2007-12-13 07:53:59 · answer #7 · answered by hh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it is ownership. I do it all the time too. My wife doesn't mind. It it just a reminder that we are there and still want the other one. Try smacking his and see what happens.
2007-12-13 07:41:48 · answer #8 · answered by Drew Carl 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Men like butts. I give my wife a little tap on the butt all the time.
She's got a cute butt.
2007-12-13 08:51:57 · answer #9 · answered by pacemark5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is your communication?
It is possible that he what to escalate this to more of "you've been a bad girl and I have to teach you a lesson". That can be fun, ask him if he wants to try it.
On the other hand he could just not be able to keep his hands off of you, which is also very healthy.
Either way have fun
Good luck
2007-12-13 07:50:27 · answer #10 · answered by Tim 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋